r/gaybrosindia

Genuine question does anyone else feel like dating apps have made dating feel way more complicated than it needs to be?

I feel like it’s become very swipe → talk → disappear → repeat, and it gets exhausting after a while. 😭

I’d much rather meet someone naturally, have conversations, become comfortable with each other and see where things go.

For those of you who’ve actually found a meaningful connection/relationship through Reddit or elsewhere, how did it happen?

I’d genuinely love to hear your stories.

If any one of ya have used grin**er you might relate to me, what's actual piece of hell that place is 😭😭

Like I'm bi curious and Outta curiosity I made an account but before any Convo, all they want is face pics and what's their obsession with it....

hey guys so I have been living in Berlin and my experience dating with white guys is never good. my only long term relationship was with half Bulgarian half russian guy which lasted two years and after that all other situations were never for more than two to three months or few hookups. And with Indians and Pakistanis I met here are either just too shy or not really open and comfortable about their sexuality. So those dates ultimately never led to anywhere.

If anyone has any good stories finding a partner abroad please motivate me that there’s a hope for me

How do you guys are able to live there knowing that you are not treated the same in the society there and are down in the gay hierarchy....

Talking about friends and dates. We've all heard that it's difficult for a lot of Indian gay dudes to date abroad.

Tell us about which country you moved to, and when, and what was your dating/ making friends experience like with folks from different cultures?

I had sex today and without telling me the top removed the condom and forced me to have raw sex. I am scared now... what should I do? Please guide me.

Guys im nervous please lemme know about the things i should do before having anal helppp??????

I feel life isn't always easy being gay where you are being discriminated by the society and your own families...

And you go out and seek support within gay people...

But there is crazy amount of discrimination within gays based on r@ce.....

I am wondering what are possible solutions to solve this racial discrimination problem...

Maybe like non whyte gay immigrants should focus on more multi cultural cities like Toronto, Vancouver, London and try to live in places that are not whyte dominated ?

How to escape whyte dominated racial hierarchy in the gay world ?

I mean I'm bi that I'm aware but only crave dicks when I'm horny

People who are into philosophies say Nietzsche, Keirkegaard, who think deeply about life and are interested in talking about such stuff in life ...

Geography is a limiting factor but I am curious if there is an online place where you can meet such gay folks..

I say gay as it is great to connect with someone who can understand you personally and also intellectually

Am i ok?

i rarely see guys who are into it. You can look it up and you might find it like it!

I saw tops resist or turn into a whole opposite personality whenever I asked to suck my dih...... I'm a verse tho.... And a lot of bottoms like to get sucked.....

Those who don't like to suck that's totally understandable..... But a number of tops act in such way that if they suck a dih they'll be less of a ⬆️

I wanna connect and talk ..... Been so dried up and alone lately

I just wanted to know how you guys sexual active socially those who are single. Do you go for hookup or what . And those who are scared to do how do you manage your urges like i didn't had sex so long do wanted to know

So I am gona have sex with my friend we have been having sex for some time but now we want to try new things can someone suggest us what we can do except for anal.

Guys I have finally come to the conclusion that I am attracted to boys and i need someone to spend time with both romantical and in bed . So how do I find myself my boyfriend i study in college . I live in india . I will be turning 18 in 3-4 days . So should I try apps ? Like grindr or binge ?

I mostly play chess online. Anyone else who likes playing it online compared to playing it on board?