hello i am pretty new to this concept/procedure and i hope this is appropriate to ask, but i'm curious about afab/ftm nullos retaining sensation/ability to feel pleasure and/or orgasm. i am struggling to find information about it online, but i was curious if this is the case for anybody. also, is there recommended surgeons for this? thanks so much. kind of lost on where to look/start
Reading the profile of https://www.reddit.com/user/Vivivivisection/ I totally found myself in all the words and expressed feelings.
I've been without a penis for about six months now, and so far in my new life and role, I've only had experiences with "intact" partners.
Just like https://www.reddit.com/user/Vivivivisection/ I'd be very interested in being intimate with another Nullo person one day. I imagine it would be incredibly pleasant because, unlike intact partners, a Nullo person knows pretty much exactly what you like and what you don't.
For example, I read something on https://www.reddit.com/user/Vivivivisection/ that resonates with me. Since I'm a Nullo and do not have any exposed genitals no more, all that partners can find is my peehole. They get excited to lick my peehole and try to turn me on that way. But I don't feel any arousal from it; I find it rather unpleasant.
That's why I think two Nullo people could have a wonderful time together. What do you think?
Hello. I have a question about nullectomy.
For people who got rid of what they had. Do you sometimes feel jealousy about people who can fuck people with what is between their legs.
Or see a beautiful girl in a bar and tell yourself ''i couldn't fuck her even if i wanted to"?
Or jealous of the men who go to the urinal, just unzip, pee, zip and go?
I'm afraid i will feel inferior to other people in the room, knowing guys can get hard and fuck every girl in the room while i won't ever bé able to do this.
It's one thing that stop me in going for nullo.
Not sure what I am. I had one testicle removed for cancer 40 years ago. Have had no ejaculation since and hard time getting erect. Kind of switched to a sub for sexual use. l also have inflamation and pain in remaining testicle. I feel I'd like a full removal of genitals to be more comfortable and submissive. I have no desire to become feminine but do enjoy bottoming. I'm obviously older and have no idea what to tell a doctor to make this happen. I don't have a significant other to talk to about it. What am I and how do I make it happen?
I've seen a lot of discussions and comparisons between zero depth and nullo here, but for me personally that choice is pretty obvious (nullo). when it comes to full depth it becomes harder though
on the one hand, being AMAB it seems like having an option to experience penetration (including during sex, but honestly even when just playing myself) is very interesting and it is something I wanted for a long time. plus I can't say that I am that concerned about dilation later on
on the other hand, nullectomy is a much simpler procedure that achieves my primary goal of being flat down there better. on top of that I like it more both aesthetically and philosophically (and it seems pretty important to me, to be honest). being a kinky (and maybe aroace) person I am not really concerned about sexual life, but I am quite afraid that I might regret missing on the opportunities that full depth gives me, even I might end up not needing them
It's not like I'm getting either any time soon (not before I get out of a shithole of a country where I live) and it probably it reads like I myself am leaning towards nullo, but I really do fear grieving the missed opportunities. It would be really cool if I could experience having a vagina and go nullo from there, but I can't say that i'm ready to be planning for 2 surgeries (I might change my mind later, but not rn)
anyways, it would be interesting to hear your takes on this
Hey everyone. I know some of you maintain a public social media presence and are out about your mods. I'm kind of toying with trying to get a little more out there. I'd love to meet other nullos, as well as anyone else who's into celebrating human differences! So I'm wondering what your experiences have been if your out and post somewhere. Do your friends and family know about it? Do you care if they do? Have you had a bad experiences because you're out there? I've been so shy about being online for so long I fee like Kimmy Schmidt coming up out of that cave!
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Does the surgery count as Trans care that id need a doctors approval like i would with top and bottom surgery? Id figure i probably will but I dont know how to go about asking for that kinda thing. I want to know how to go about going to get it eventually. I want my hysto to i want all of it gooooone. But I dont know how to ask or bring it up to a doc thats probably expecting me to want phallo.
I am a MTF trans woman and I'm a bit over 9 weeks post-op with Dr. Celtik (Crane Center). I'm going to eventually make a bigger post with pictures and info but I'm not quite ready to talk through all of that right now (abbreviated version is everything went great).
As I'm recovering, processing, and integrating I'm realizing I'm a bit at a loss for what words work for post-op genitals, especially in intimate situations.
Like the area in general is technically a "mons" but that isn't very appealing in my opinion. Most "gendered" terms feel wrong; like "clit" is odd when the nerve clusters are internal.
I don't even know what to do anymore I am in so much distress not knowing if I will ever be able to achieve something comfortable.
Ive got intouch with a surgeon who does gender affirming bottom surgeries, however he has said that he is not sure what can be done as it is a "designer surgery- and for some reason doesn't count under the gender affirming surgery umbrella???
I am so scared and I literally cannot describe the dread I feel everyday regarding this.
I'm afraid that I'm going to be stuck like this forever and I just can't do it.
It's genuinely getting to the point that I am seriously considering doing something myself, (as bad of an idea this is I actually can't live like this)
I have nowhere else to talk about this, it feels like everytime I find something it's a dead end, or the process is going in circles. (Not even to mention potential cost)
I cannot live like this
It's a fucking prison
some edits here,
-afab
-im in canada
-thank you for all the replies you are all so lovely <33