r/pakistancuckoldclub

Note: I am not here to looking for a guy so please.

My wife and I had an arrangement with one of our employee for several years. It started unexpectedly after we became close outside of work and realized there was mutual interest. We discussed boundaries carefully, kept everything consensual, and made sure the personal dynamic never affected his job, salary, our privacy and or treatment at work.

Over time, he became someone we trusted completely. He understood our relationship, respected every boundary, and never caused tried to interfere with our marriage. The arrangement worked so naturally that we never had to think about how difficult it might be to replace that level of trust.

He recently accepted a job in Saudi Arabia and moved away. We are still on good terms, but that part of our lives has obviously ended. My wife and I have talked about eventually meeting someone new, but starting again with a stranger feels risky. It's been more than year, we discuss but never tried seriously or found anyone.

For couples who have successfully found a long-term bull, how did you meet him? Did you use apps, websites, or someone already in your social circle?

More importantly, how did you judge whether someone was trustworthy and emotionally stable? Were there particular questions you asked or warning signs you looked for before meeting privately?

Interested to hear how other couples approached the screening process and how long it took before they felt comfortable trusting someone.

I’ve been trying to figure myself out, and I’m curious if anyone else has gone through this.
There are times when the idea of my partner being with another man feels incredibly compelling. I can spend hours reading stories, browsing discussions, and imagining what that kind of dynamic would be like. In those moments, it feels like something I’d genuinely want to experience.
But once that feeling fades, I’m left feeling embarrassed that I was even thinking about it. I start questioning myself and wondering whether it’s just something my mind gets caught up in during those moments rather than something I’d actually want in real life.
It’s confusing because both mindsets feel completely genuine while I’m in them.
For those who eventually embraced this lifestyle, did you go through the same cycle at first? How did you know it wasn’t just something driven by arousal, but something you genuinely wanted to explore?
I’d really appreciate hearing from people who’ve been through this. Thanks.

Like when it gets really Hot, I say things that lasts in mind and sometimes a total denial of the husband even humiliation.

I don't do this planned but I just got to have a street dirty mind and when it collabs with my sarcasm things get wild fast.

The masla is main isko rok nahi pata or bolta jata hun lol or batain aesi hoti hain k there is no going back to their normal relationship.

Then mjhy dukh hota hai k mainay ghalat kia unka rishta chod dia 😄 where to go..

I never understand how could anyone get pleasure out of caging there pee pee, now that my girl is getting highly involved woth her ex purely coz of his big pepe, i kinda wanna get caged. Anyone else here tired chastity/cage ?

Hey everyone,

Looking for some perspective or to see if anyone else here has been through a similar situation.

For years, my wife, my best friend, and I had an incredible bond. We had a private group chat where my wife would share selfies (sometimes revealing, like cleavage shots), and my friend and I would openly hyping her up, talking about how hot and beautiful she is. We hung out all the time, and that dynamic brought a huge rush of excitement and adrenaline for all of us.

Over time, things naturally progressed to the point where the three of us even discussed taking things further physically down the line if the vibe remained right. Everyone seemed on the same page, and the shared trust felt solid.

Then out of nowhere, after years of this being our normal, my friend suddenly hit the brakes. He completely backed off and said he couldn't discuss any of this anymore.
It left us pretty confused given how long and naturally it had been going on.

Has anyone else had a close dynamic suddenly stall out or reverse like this? How did you handle the shift in the friendship afterward?