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I've tried a few different stubs and cages and I'm not really finding one that fits me well and I'm trying to figure out how sizing works so I stop spending so much money. I preferably want something that locks because I'm using it to prevent myself from masturbating.

I was curious as to what you define as exposing your ABDL kink in public and what your limits are. For me, the most I will do is wear in public, and anything beyond that is uncomfortable to me.

Whenever I make stickies in my diapee, I don't feel like wearing my diapee for a while after. How do I make it so I don't make stickies anymore?

I've also debated getting a diapee subscription, so I am forced to wear a certain amount of diapees every month

Sorry for the weird thread. Not sure if people have a good response for me.

I noticed that compared to other users in this community I do not produce as much... waste as others. E.g. I do not produce enough urine in a day to fill a normal ABDL / high end medical diaper (e.g. Sunkiss Masterpiece) and that I only void around once a day and I don't void near enough for it to be "visible".

I was wondering if anyone had any uhh ideas on how to change this or make it fun. I know another user mentioned that they trained their little by getting them to wet once every 15 minutes, but I'm wondering what they're doing for this to be even remotely healthy.

Edit: For reference I usually drink around 64 oz of water daily but I drink it all at once when I eat which might be part of the problem.