Chastity and clean up

Referring to another post here I want to highly recommend all couples to keep him locked the days or more before a planned clean up. We have done both - chastity and without and without is so much harder and risky that he will cum before or during the cleaning. This would make it really hard.

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 2 days ago

35M 31W - Karlsruhe - Suchen Bull für langfristiges

Hey allen,

Sind ein noch recht unerfahrenes Paar, welches nach langer Beziehung nach gewisser Abwechslung und neuem Input sucht, da die Beziehung sexuell etwas kriselt.

Generell suchen wir nach einem Mann mit ausreichend Erfahrung gepflegtem Äußeren und konkreten Vorstellungen.

Vorliebentechnisch unterhalten wir uns bestenfalls per DM!

Unser Suche ist was das Ziel angeht erstmal offen. Von einzelne Treffen bis zu einer Dreierbeziehung in Abwesenheit von ihm während Dienstreisen etc. Bis zu mehr…. Wenn du verstehst.

Natürlich ist bei diesem speziellen Thema Diskretion auch sehr wichtig !

Schreibt uns gerne, sofern ihr dazu Ideen und Vorschläge zur Realisierung hättet :)

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 1 month ago
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Cuckold experiences during vacation?

Hi everyone,

My partner and I are currently planning our next vacation, and we’ve been debating whether to incorporate some "lifestyle" experiences while we’re away.

To be honest, the idea alone is incredibly hot for her—just thinking about the possibility of an adventure in a new setting is enough to get her going and keep the anticipation high throughout our planning. For us, that thrill is a major part of the appeal.

However, we have a specific concern: we’re worried that if we actually manage to find someone who fits the vibe, it might end up "taking over" the trip. My fear is that we could get so caught up in the search or the dynamic that the quality time we intended to have just as a couple gets pushed to the sidelines, potentially leaving our actual vacation feeling a bit dry or disconnected afterward.

For those who have integrated this into their travels:

How do you strike that balance between "lifestyle" intensity and pure couple time?

Do you find that it enhances the intimacy of your trip, or does it risk overshadowing the time you spend just by yourselves?

Any tips on how to keep the vacation feeling like a vacation for the two of you, even when the spark is burning bright?

Appreciate your insights and experiences.

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 1 month ago

Vacation dynamics: Balancing the "lifestyle" with couple time?

Hi everyone,

My partner and I are currently planning our next vacation, and we’ve been debating whether to incorporate some "lifestyle" experiences while we’re away.

To be honest, the idea alone is incredibly hot for her—just thinking about the possibility of an adventure in a new setting is enough to get her going and keep the anticipation high throughout our planning. For us, that thrill is a major part of the appeal.

However, we have a specific concern: we’re worried that if we actually manage to find someone who fits the vibe, it might end up "taking over" the trip. My fear is that we could get so caught up in the search or the dynamic that the quality time we intended to have just as a couple gets pushed to the sidelines, potentially leaving our actual vacation feeling a bit dry or disconnected afterward.

For those who have integrated this into their travels:

How do you strike that balance between "lifestyle" intensity and pure couple time?

Do you find that it enhances the intimacy of your trip, or does it risk overshadowing the time you spend just by yourselves?

Any tips on how to keep the vacation feeling like a vacation for the two of you, even when the spark is burning bright?

Appreciate your insights and experiences.

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 1 month ago

Girlfriend had first dates and changed personality

After having her first dates it feels like she is obsessed from this new feelings. She has a lot of more energy and dresses more feminine, is always perfectly shaved and does not let me use her phone.
Are we still on a normal way ?

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 2 months ago

Does bulls like to have a deeper connection?

For example having more than only a cuckold relationship? Being friends, do normal things together. Act like a normal relationship?

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 2 months ago

35M 31W - Karlsruhe - Suchen Bull für langfristiges

Hey allen,

Sind ein noch recht unerfahrenes Paar, welches nach langer Beziehung nach gewisser Abwechslung und neuem Input sucht, da die Beziehung sexuell etwas kriselt.

Generell suchen wir nach einem Mann mit ausreichend Erfahrung gepflegtem Äußeren und konkreten Vorstellungen.

Vorliebentechnisch unterhalten wir uns bestenfalls per DM!

Unser Suche ist was das Ziel angeht erstmal offen. Von einzelne Treffen bis zu einer Dreierbeziehung in Abwesenheit von ihm während Dienstreisen etc. Bis zu mehr…. Wenn du verstehst.

Natürlich ist bei diesem speziellen Thema Diskretion auch sehr wichtig !

Schreibt uns gerne, sofern ihr dazu Ideen und Vorschläge zur Realisierung hättet :)

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 2 months ago

35M 31W - Karlsruhe - Suchen Bull für langfristiges

35M 31W - Karlsruhe - Suchen Bull für langfristiges

Hey allen,

Sind ein noch recht unerfahrenes Paar, welches nach langer Beziehung nach gewisser Abwechslung und neuem Input sucht, da die Beziehung sexuell etwas kriselt.

Generell suchen wir nach einem Mann mit ausreichend Erfahrung gepflegtem Äußeren und konkreten Vorstellungen.

Vorliebentechnisch unterhalten wir uns bestenfalls per DM!

Unser Suche ist was das Ziel angeht erstmal offen. Von einzelne Treffen bis zu einer Dreierbeziehung in Abwesenheit von ihm während Dienstreisen etc. Bis zu mehr…. Wenn du verstehst.

Natürlich ist bei diesem speziellen Thema Diskretion auch sehr wichtig !

Schreibt uns gerne, sofern ihr dazu Ideen und Vorschläge zur Realisierung hättet :)

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago

Next step planned

We had a lot of talks the last days. She has installed apps to find other guys and has first chats. Things are going to be real maybe in a short time. Makes me feel nervous and not sure about my decision.

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago

35M 31W - Karlsruhe - Suchen Bull für langfristiges

Hey allen,

Sind ein noch recht unerfahrenes Paar, welches nach langer Beziehung nach gewisser Abwechslung und neuem Input sucht, da die Beziehung sexuell etwas kriselt.

Generell suchen wir nach einem Mann mit ausreichend Erfahrung gepflegtem Äußeren und konkreten Vorstellungen.

Vorliebentechnisch unterhalten wir uns bestenfalls per DM!

Unser Suche ist was das Ziel angeht erstmal offen. Von einzelne Treffen bis zu einer Dreierbeziehung in Abwesenheit von ihm während Dienstreisen etc. Bis zu mehr…. Wenn du verstehst.

Natürlich ist bei diesem speziellen Thema Diskretion auch sehr wichtig !

Schreibt uns gerne, sofern ihr dazu Ideen und Vorschläge zur Realisierung hättet :)

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago

Giving her free after 13 years?

As we are in a small crisis about her sexual needs we are thinking about open the relationship for her.
Ideas? Risks? Should I cover her on this way ? Help her getting started?

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago

Open relationship start or end?

As we are in a small sexual crisis we are thinking about she can be on Tinder or something similar and have some adventures. What are your suggestions here ? Should I let her do this ?

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago

German couple planning to open relationship

Hi all, as we are Long term together now and everything sexual is a little bit stuck, we talked about open the relationship to grant her the possibility to gain experiences and find new adventures. What do you think? Maybe with apps like Tinder?

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago

Starting easy or more like cold water ?

We are a young couple who is interested in this lifestyle. Not sure if we should start really gentle and easy or more like sorry, did it few weeks ago when you was away on a business trip. You get what I mean?

Open for general ideas and tips for this! DM open.

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u/90CuriousCouple94 — 3 months ago