u/AbilityOk6381

I’m talking to my Dom about visiting a sex club. I’m having some insecurities over what to wear though. It’s a 3 Hour Dr. so this is not something we’re doing spur of the moment. I should have time to plan. I will definitely get input from him but wanted to put the question out there to others in the 50+ sex positive community. I don’t really have any insecurities about my body, but I know that because I’m petite and fit, it’s not always easy to find stuff off the rack. Don’t laugh, but shoes are a big question for me. Very much a tomboy and don’t wear heels. Any suggestions?

I finally saw an email from SEN that they are getting ready to ship pre-orders to arrive mid July. This is the robotic feedback pegging dildo SEN. I can’t wait to start seeing some reviews. Supposedly some people got early releases, but I haven’t seen anything else about how it’s been received. Does anyone have more information than what I’ve provided here?

I’m playing with someone I met on fetlife (56biF, 52biM). He had messaged me on Tinder back in June but I was playing with a dom at that time and not checking my Tinder. I didn’t recognize him at first when I saw him on fet, but after we met in person, I remembered him from Tinder. I thought it was kind of cute that we found each other on two different platforms. the first time was him messaging me and the second time with me messaging him after I saw pegging in his fet profile. This was our second time together. It was my first time pegging, but I suspected I would love it, and I did.

He came to my new place on Wednesday, walking in with flowers, snacks, toy bag and a sex blanket. He mountain bikes so is lean but tightly muscled. He wore a mesh jock strap under his jeans that was looked perfect framing his ass. I surprised him with a jock strap of my own when he slid off my joggers. He jumped right into rimming me. I showed off my blow job skills and pushed his legs back to return the favor. When I stood up after, my pussy was dripping down my legs from our foreplay. We had some pretty athletic sex on my new bed and I can see right away I’ve gotta do something about that squeaking bed frame.

I knew he was into pegging, so I pulled out my spare parts joque harness. He had a favorite larger dildo in his toy bag, but this time I wanted to use my smaller, bright pink one (neo-elite 5.5 dual density). There’s a pic in my profile of me in my harness. I think since he had been fucked and pegged before I trusted his communication. I stretched him out with my lubed fingers and stroked him with one, then two. After applying more lube, I slid my girlcock inside him while he was lying on his back, holding up his legs for me. He’s definitely a moaner! He had two dry or prostate orgasms in that position while I was holding up his legs.

He rolled over onto his hands and knees, and I started fucking him from behind. The hardest thing was to keep fucking him through my orgasms, because he was begging me not to stop as he finally ejaculated. I’m almost scared to use the strapless (strap-on-me non vibrating) dildo that I bought because my orgasms were so intense just using the flat one. I loved slamming into his thighs and ass while holding onto his hips. I don’t know what exactly triggered my orgasms. I could feel how swollen and throbbing my outer labia were while I was fucking him. I intentionally used my flat dildo for the first time because I wanted to focus on his pleasure. I figured I would need practice to get my pacing, rhythm and balance down, but pegging was so easy for me. I didn’t even have anything in my pussy or a vibrator on my clit and was still having orgasms. The harness fit great. It drove me crazy to hear him say yes this is exactly how I need to be fucked.

We inhaled those veggies with crackers and cheese after we got dressed. On Thursday he flew down to visit the woman he’s seeing in San Francisco. They’ve been long distance dating for three months and she knows about me. She hasn’t pegged him yet. I just know her name. I haven’t even seen a picture of her.

I feel like I’m still exploring my kinks, preferences and limits. I’ve had fun writing up my experiences to share on Reddit. He and I are still learning each other‘s bodies. He did check in with me afterwards and mentioned that he had cleaned out for me. He also slid a condom onto my dildo when I put it on. It was an amazing first time experience.

He thinks he found a unicorn. I hate to say it, but I don’t think I could have an emotional connection with him even though theoretically everything sounds great. Maybe it’s the ENM thing as I think that I ultimately want a monagamish relationship.