Fed-up with searching for FLR online. Gonna try offline now.
I’m honestly getting pretty fed up trying to find a genuine female dom for an FLR through online platforms.
Most of the experiences I’ve had fall into one of these categories:
- not serious about building an actual relationship
- only interested in paid online sessions/content
- disappear after a few conversations
- located too far away for anything realistic
At this point, I’m considering approaching this differently; meeting women offline, getting to know women who are naturally dominant/confident in personality, and seeing whether they’d be interested or curious about an FLR dynamic organically.
I’m not talking about randomly bringing up kink immediately, but more about finding compatibility first and then exploring the dynamic if there’s mutual interest.
Has anyone here actually tried this approach successfully? Would really appreciate hearing your experiences, advice, mistakes to avoid, or how you navigated introducing FLR dynamics in normal dating.
P.S. I'm 30M, single sub from Pune.