u/Advanced-Rice6541

35 [M4F] Peterborough - Without waking the house?

Little different from what I usually seek out. I have family staying this week and that has put an unfortunate damper on my plans and paused my usual search.

Shot in the dark but I was reminded of all the sneaking around I used to do back when I was younger and it got me wondering if there's someone in the area that likes the idea of staying quiet and having some fun under everyone's nose.

Just throwing around some ideas and would love to talk with someone that misses the same adrenaline rush.

"Quiet" in first message to make it clear your not a bot and your age

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 14 hours ago

35 [M4F] - Peterborough - Captured & Caged

Late night, on the way home you saw something that caught your eye off marketplace. The guy even takes 10 bucks off the cost. It is a little weird that he told you to walk around to the backyard, but the deals too good.

Maybe that's why you weren't expecting his hands to wrap around your mouth, or drag you into the house.

If interested in knowing more - "Cage" as first message and your age and limits. Please be in Peterborough or able to drive and I'll host.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 1 day ago

35 [M4F] - Peterborough - Intense FWB

35, Fit, clean shaven, active and live a healthy lifestyle, at least healthy enough to live long enough.

Have been seeking a consistent partner that enjoys intense and extreme fun. Happy to break it down more in detail but I find a lot of OF accounts respond as of late and typing out novels to get "Subscribe to OF" has gotten tiring.

What I'm looking for is a FWB interested in exploring the more intense benefits, safely, respectfully and without the stress.

If real, interested and in the Peterborough area or willing to make the trip down here so I can host. Please put "Intense" in your first message and follow with your age

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 1 day ago

35 [M4F] - Peterborough - Captured & Caged

Late night, on the way home you saw something that caught your eye off marketplace. The guy even takes 10 bucks off the cost. It is a little weird that he told you to walk around to the backyard, but the deals too good.

Maybe that's why you weren't expecting his hands to wrap around your mouth, or drag you into the house.

If interested in knowing more - "Cage" as first message and your age and limits. Please be in Peterborough or able to drive and I'll host.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 1 day ago

35 [M4F] - Peterborough - Scream into the storm

Seems like its going to be a good storm tonight. Taking a break from my current search to set up a fun hunt in the storm tonight. No names, no faces, just anonymous screams that can't be heard over the sound of thunder and rain.

If you are in the area and interested, shoot "Thunder" as the first message for full breakdown on what im looking for and planning to run

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 4 days ago

35 [MM4F]#Peterborough#Ontario - Group play

*If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations.* ***Please*** *message again.*

35, 185 lbs., fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills. However, as a whole my last partner and I did the group side of this pretty frequently and I and my people have missed that.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. Not looking to take over your life or add drama, regardless of what kind of situation you are in. I'm looking to provide safe, healthy outlets where you can blow off steam in your already complicated life, live out your fantasy and not worry about your sexual interests and desires impacting your social and private life. I and my group are looking for one woman, consistently that is able to blow off steam with us.

I will provide training on rope safety, teach you some basics and let you practice them yourself. I will take responsibility of the group, make sure that nothing goes beyond things we discussed. I will make sure you are safe and comfortable. Will take care of your aftercare once the group is gone and all the other details that need to be discussed in advance. Not looking for the first response, just the right one. Someone that is fine and wants to build a comfortable, strict relationship regarding this and this alone that is happy in a group dynamic where she is the center. Either as a full on plaything, inside a gloryhole box, as a living table, or just pawed and groped at during playoff games and the many other plans in mind.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure. Boundaries discussed, agreed and never pushed.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards and alright to go back. I want to make sure that you can trust me to get involved. You need to know that I will make sure you are safe, secure and after everything will still be a person at the end of the day.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

Please provide some kind of basic details about yourself when messaging. Including if you are in Peterborough and how often. Information about your kinks and limits and aftercare are always preferred. If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations. Please message again.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 4 days ago

35 MM4F - Looking for group toy

If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations. Please message again.

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills. However, as a whole my last partner and I did the group side of this pretty frequently and I and my people have missed that.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. Not looking to take over your life or add drama, regardless of what kind of situation you are in. I'm looking to provide safe, healthy outlets where you can blow off steam in your already complicated life, live out your fantasy and not worry about your sexual interests and desires impacting your social and private life. I and my group are looking for one woman, consistently that is able to blow off steam with us.

I will provide training on rope safety, teach you some basics and let you practice them yourself. I will take responsibility of the group, make sure that nothing goes beyond things we discussed. I will make sure you are safe and comfortable. Will take care of your aftercare once the group is gone and all the other details that need to be discussed in advance. Not looking for the first response, just the right one. Someone that is fine and wants to build a comfortable, strict relationship regarding this and this alone that is happy in a group dynamic where she is the center. Either as a full on plaything, inside a gloryhole box, as a living table, or just pawed and groped at during playoff games and the many other plans in mind.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure. Boundaries discussed, agreed and never pushed.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards and alright to go back. I want to make sure that you can trust me to get involved. You need to know that I will make sure you are safe, secure and after everything will still be a person at the end of the day.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

Please provide some kind of basic details about yourself when messaging. Including if you are in Peterborough and how often. Information about your kinks and limits and aftercare are always preferred. If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations. Please message again.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 4 days ago

35 [MM4F] #Peterborough, Ontario - Group Dynamic

If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations. Please message again.

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills. However, as a whole my last partner and I did the group side of this pretty frequently and I and my people have missed that.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. Not looking to take over your life or add drama, regardless of what kind of situation you are in. I'm looking to provide safe, healthy outlets where you can blow off steam in your already complicated life, live out your fantasy and not worry about your sexual interests and desires impacting your social and private life. I and my group are looking for one woman, consistently that is able to blow off steam with us.

I will provide training on rope safety, teach you some basics and let you practice them yourself. I will take responsibility of the group, make sure that nothing goes beyond things we discussed. I will make sure you are safe and comfortable. Will take care of your aftercare once the group is gone and all the other details that need to be discussed in advance. Not looking for the first response, just the right one. Someone that is fine and wants to build a comfortable, strict relationship regarding this and this alone that is happy in a group dynamic where she is the center. Either as a full on plaything, inside a gloryhole box, as a living table, or just pawed and groped at during playoff games and the many other plans in mind.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure. Boundaries discussed, agreed and never pushed.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards and alright to go back. I want to make sure that you can trust me to get involved. You need to know that I will make sure you are safe, secure and after everything will still be a person at the end of the day.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

Please provide some kind of basic details about yourself when messaging. Including if you are in Peterborough and how often. Information about your kinks and limits and aftercare are always preferred. If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations. Please message again.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 5 days ago

35 [MM4F] - Peterborough - Group Friends with benefits

If you have reached out before. I got flooded with bots and I have lost a lot of conversations. Please message again. Preference to those close enough to be consistent.

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills. However, as a whole my last partner and I did the group side of this pretty frequently and I and my people have missed that.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. Not looking to take over your life or add drama, regardless of what kind of situation you are in. I'm looking to provide safe, healthy outlets where you can blow off steam in your already complicated life, live out your fantasy and not worry about your sexual interests and desires impacting your social and private life. I and my group are looking for one woman, consistently that is able to blow off steam with us.

I will provide training on rope safety, teach you some basics and let you practice them yourself. I will take responsibility of the group, make sure that nothing goes beyond things we discussed. I will make sure you are safe and comfortable. Will take care of your aftercare once the group is gone and all the other details that need to be discussed in advance. Not looking for the first response, just the right one. Someone that is fine and wants to build a comfortable, strict relationship regarding this and this alone that is happy in a group dynamic where she is the center. Either as a full on plaything, inside a gloryhole box, as a living table, or just pawed and groped at during playoff games and the many other plans in mind.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure. Boundaries discussed, agreed and never pushed.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards and alright to go back. I want to make sure that you can trust me to get involved. You need to know that I will make sure you are safe, secure and after everything will still be a person at the end of the day.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

Please provide some kind of basic details about yourself when messaging. Including if you are in Peterborough and how often. Information about your kinks and limits and aftercare are always preferred.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 5 days ago

35 M4F Peterborough, Ontario - Intimate Nursing only

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work. Have had one brief nursing experience and after seeing a recent post in an area near me, looking to see if there are any non-sexual options in the Peterborough area.

I am not looking to sleep with you. I am clean, tested and only looking for (preferably) wet nursing and suckling. This is a separate private thing from my usual search and I am not looking to change your plans or your situation. Just miss the intimate experience that I had and wish I had explored it more when I had the chance.

If this is something that you are interested in, I would love to find someone for consistent wet-nursing. I am able and happy to host and can be available multiple times during the week if you are.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 5 days ago

35 [M4F] - Peterborough - Training a group toy

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing life. Then when the stress and drama becomes overwhelming, come let loose, let go and turn it all off for a while with me.

The goal is to train you toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, and used as the group's plaything. Maybe a living serving table or collared and leashed. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, shared and filled. Love to discuss in detail what all we enjoy as a group and what the expectations are outside of the group. I will provide new toys, hardware and what's needed.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure. Boundaries discussed, agreed and never pushed. 

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards and alright to go back. I want to make sure that you can trust me to get involved.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress. 

Please provide some kind of basic details about yourself when messaging. 

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 7 days ago

35 MM4F Peterborough - Consistent, Ongoing Group fun

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing life. Then when the stress and drama becomes overwhelming, come let loose, let go and turn it all off for a while with me.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, shared and filled. Love to discuss in detail what all we enjoy as a group and what the expectations are outside of the group. I will provide new toys, hardware and what's needed.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure. Boundaries discussed, agreed and never pushed. 

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards and alright to go back. I want to make sure that you can trust me to get involved.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress. 

Please provide some kind of basic details about yourself when messaging. 

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 8 days ago

35 [MM4F] #Peterborough, Ontario- Seeking Group sub

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. I want to be a perfect secret for you—a safe space where you can let go and explore your fantasies with someone you can trust and feel protected by. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing life. Then when the stress and drama becomes overwhelming, come let loose, let go and turn it all off for a while with me.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, shared and filled. Love to discuss in detail what all we enjoy as a group and what the expectations are outside of the group. I will provide new toys, hardware and whats needed. 

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect.  If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 9 days ago

35 [MM4F] - Seeking Group Toy

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. I want to be a perfect secret for you—a safe space where you can let go and explore your fantasies with someone you can trust and feel protected by. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing life. Then when the stress and drama becomes overwhelming, come let loose, let go and turn it all off for a while with me.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, shared and filled. Love to discuss in detail what all we enjoy as a group and what the expectations are outside of the group. I will provide new toys, hardware and whats needed. 

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect.  If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 10 days ago

35 [MM4F] - Peterborough Seeking rough group toy

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. I want to be a perfect secret for you—a safe space where you can let go and explore your fantasies with someone you can trust and feel protected by. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing life. Then when the stress and drama becomes overwhelming, come let loose, let go and turn it all off for a while with me.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, shared and filled. Love to discuss in detail what all we enjoy as a group and what the expectations are outside of the group. I will provide new toys, hardware and whats needed. 

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided. No hotels, no cars. My place, safe and secure.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for long-term, so I need to know we actually click as people. I want to know how your doing mentally before we get into anything, I want to know that your grounded afterwards.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect.  If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself. The actual person, not the one you think I want and that you think the group wants. If you can not be real from the beginning we cant be real as things progress.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 11 days ago

35 [M4F] - Peterborough - Looking for group breeding toy

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. I want to be a perfect secret for you—a safe space where you can let go and explore your fantasies with someone you can trust and feel protected by. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing routine.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, shared and filled.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities. Complete training provided.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for an ongoing dynamic, so I need to know we actually click as people.

I can host, and I’m happy to pick you up if you’re relatively close. If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect. I have the place, no car fun, no hotels. You come to us.

If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself and your thoughts on group play.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 12 days ago

35 [MM4F] - Peterborough - Group seeks fwb

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. I want to be a perfect secret for you—a safe space where you can let go and explore your fantasies with someone you can trust and feel protected by. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing routine.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere: we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, used, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, and shared.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for an ongoing dynamic, so I need to know we actually click as people.

I can host, and I’m happy to pick you up if you’re relatively close. If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect.

If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself and your thoughts on group play.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 18 days ago

35, 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and playing league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and getting back to basic skills.

Now, I’m looking for a woman who is excited by the idea of being trained specifically for group play. I want to be a perfect secret for you—a safe space where you can let go and explore your fantasies with someone you can trust and feel protected by. This isn’t about me taking over your life or creating drama, it’s about providing a quiet, reliable outlet that fits into your existing routine.

The goal is to work toward a group dynamic where you are the center of attention while my friends are over. Think casual atmosphere: we’re watching the game or hanging out, and you are being bound, used, and used as the group's plaything. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, and shared.

This will be a process of getting to know each other first. I’ll provide all the toys, tools, and equipment needed, and we will work together to ensure you feel prepared and secure before we ever move to a group setting. Your anonymity and safety are my top priorities.

The mental side of this is just as important as the sexual. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I’m looking for an ongoing dynamic, so I need to know we actually click as people.

I can host, and I’m happy to pick you up if you’re relatively close. If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect.

If this sounds like the kind of thing you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself and your thoughts on group play.

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 18 days ago

35, I’m 185 lbs, fit, clean-shaven, and pretty active outside of work—I spend a lot of time hiking, camping, and beer league baseball. I’ve been in the BDSM scene for a while now. After a breakup with my previous sub, I’ve been using the time to get back to basics, exploring new kinks, and sharpening some skills.

Now  I’m looking for a woman who is comfortable with—or excited by—being bound and restrained while my friends are over and interested as a group plaything. Think casual atmosphere: we’re watching the game, hanging out, and you are the center of attention. I want someone who enjoys being pawed at, groped, and used.

You  should be
- experienced and you know exactly what turns you on and where your lines are.

- Newer to this, but you are mature enough to have a real conversation about it.

The mental side of this is more important to me than the physical. I want to talk. I want to discuss likes, dislikes, and exactly what your concerns are. We’ll talk about what you need for aftercare and what a successful night looks like to you. I want someone that is looking to have an ongoing dynamic for this so I need to be able to stand you and vice versa.

I can host, and I’m happy to pick you up if you’re relatively close. I’m ideally looking for an ongoing situation—something that fits into your life without taking it over or causing drama.

If we chat and realize we don’t click, all I ask is that you’re mature enough to just say "not for me" instead of ghosting. I’ll give you the same respect.

If this sounds like the kind of dynamic you’ve been looking for, send me a message with a bit about yourself, how comfortable you are with group play etc..

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 18 days ago
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Your age (21+, shouldn't have to say that), your marital status, or the religion you were raised in are irrelevant to me. I have no interest in your pics, snapchat, insta or your legal name; I am interested in your foundation as a person, as a human, as a sub. I’m not here to waste time with surface-level garbage; keep your photos. Tell me about your University or work struggles, your favorite books, or why you feel out of place in a world that demands you always be flawless and in control.

In a partnership, I offer a specific kind of sanctuary: one built on rules and surrender. I want to know you—the real you—because the deeper our bond, the more effective my control becomes and the more intense your experience. We will explore the edges of sensation—bondage, spanking, humiliation and more to be discussed and agreed upon as we chat—but always with the end goal of bringing out the best in both of us.

Preferences: I favor mental control, training, and the delicate art of orgasm denial. I enjoy the weight of bondage and the excitement of more intense play and toys. But these are tools, not the goal. The goal is to reshape you into a version of yourself that is greater and more free than you can be in your day to day life.

Requirements: Experience is optional. Emotional maturity is not. If you cannot state your needs or commit to the process, do not reach out. I am looking for a soul to train, not a ghost to chase.

Non-negotiables: Low-effort messages are deleted. I don’t care if you’re a veteran certified sub with 10 years in the community or a total novice. I care that you are willing to be reshaped into something that works with us. I don't care if you are new and need to discuss and detail every single thing for weeks. Tell me why you want to belong, what you are hoping to achieve. Bring your needs, your willingness to let go, and your emotional maturity. I will provide the floor to stand on and the walls to keep you safe.

At the moment I'm currently trying to learn ASL for fun. Let me know what your current hobby is

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u/Advanced-Rice6541 — 1 month ago