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Hi guys! So I'm starting sex work and I'm buying condoms and I need them in a variety of sizes

Does anyone know if there's a place online (like Amazon) that sells a variety pack of condom sizes (S-XL)? I tried to search but I think I only found regular fit for a variety of textures (not size)

I feel like it wouldn't be cost effective to buy condoms in individual size boxes

Questions for clients:

1. Is a provider who seems a little nervous a turn-off? I think I'm pretty good at acting confident, so I'm not too concerned about this but if a healthy amount of nervousness leaks through a bit, does it negatively impact the experience?
2. What helps you feel more comfortable when a session starts? Anything a provider has done in the past that you really liked and made the atmosphere nicer?
3. Feel free to skip this question since its not really needed, just more out of curiosity! How do you feel with someone who's more bubbly and talkative?
4. Anything to avoid that made your experience worse in the past?
5. Anything else you want to add/suggest :)?

Hiii! I've never done escorting before but I'm making a Tryst account soon to start.

I'm kind of nervous for a lot of reasons, even though I've read other people's posts here who are similar to me :')

First off, this is all new to me. I'm nervous I'm gonna mess up or not understand something important and embarrass myself. Then I'm nervous because I'm very androgynous and average looking or so-so looking, also not skinny. Thirdly, I'm kind of inexperienced? Not the MOST inexperienced, but yeah :') I think I have a bubbly personality but I'm worried that won't be enough. That + performance anxiety

Anyone have a bit of advice for someone with my background?

(Note: Should I tag this as Question - Sex Worker? I started doing content creation/I'm an aspiring sex worker but I don't know if that qualifies me to do the tag)

If you have another job outside of SW, what do you do that people wouldn't expect?

There's so much negativity, incorrect assumptions, and stigma around what SWers can do outside of SW and I just want a breath of fresh air :')<3

Any books that talk about the different kinds of sex work, history, lingo, how to start, etc? I know this is a given since this is a sex-work positive subreddit, but specifically any sex-work positive recommendations :')?

And are there any resources online that have a masterlist of terminology? I've mentioned this for a few of my posts, but I'm trying to start sex work and I see a lot of lingo that I'm trying to learn and the differences between them! I still need to read through all of the sources on the "How do I get started?" section (finished a good chunk) but I figured it'd be nice to see if anyone had any articles or sources that they like and want to share!

Thank you :)

This feels like it might be a silly question since I'm sure the answer really depends on the client over the kink itself but I still felt like asking

For context: I'm trying to save for college but I'm in a rough spot financially. I've been considering sex work and found a possible client(?). We've been talking for a little bit and he's into heavier kinks, which I'd normally be fine with (as I am too), but sometimes he says things that raise some red flags to me, especially since I don't know him very well.

Are there any kinks that feel too dangerous or high risk that you won't do with a client? Or what are red flags that a client has bad etiquette with kink? Or is there a kink you normally would be fine with but a client said/did something that made you change your mind because it didn't seem safe?

Thank you :)!!!

EDIT: Thank you to all the supportive people looking out for my safety 🥹❤️It really means a lot to me. As for an update, I'll make sure that choking is hard NO.

(Note: I am genuinely so sorry! I used the term prostitute/prostitution in my last post and I didn't know it was derogatory; I thought it was a specific branch of SW. I've edited this post to say SW instead. Thank you for the correction!)

Hi there! I admittedly don't know a lot about sex work (though I've considered getting into it; I'm still deciding), but my friend said this and I wanted to ask if its true?

For context, my friend has never done SW but he's volunteered at women's shelters where a lot of people used to do SW.

I trust his opinion on a lot of things, but sometimes he does have puritan-y beliefs. I don't know if this is one of those things or not and I was curious and wanted to ask professionals.

Does it depend on what exactly a person's definition of ethical is? When would you say its ethical/unethical? Or is it one of those things where it means to support the people (i.e. sex workers) but not support what gets people to do it? I'm assuming it depends on each person and their situation and it's not a complete always unethical.

I'm sorry if any of this was framed rudely! Please correct me if I said anything iffy.