u/Ambitious-System-386

Heya kinky people!

I am an experimentalist Dom looking for subs with the lofty, idealistic end goal of establishing a stable and loving monogamous relationship centred around kink. I value a deep, loving, stable connection, and kink and sex are extremely important to me. They are the way I (we, hopefully) express that connection.
How we get there is pretty open, the process is called searching, not finding.

The Dynamic:
Human Toy / Test subject as a label fits what I am looking for better than submissive. I am not a switch, and I prefer clear, established roles. I’m looking for someone who wants to be my toy, to obey my commands without hesitation, but who has the personal presence to say "no" when they need to. If I want your ass, you bend over, but there is always respect for your agency. My goal isn't to force, my goal is to lead a willing subject, and anything less than a "Hell yeah!" is a soft "no".

That's Dr. Jekyll. Mr. Hyde is in there as well. He's well under control, but with the right cocktail of brain chemicals he comes out to play. I've been told that's fun.

The kinks that matter to me:
Large and deep insertions. Power exchange.

The kinks that I enjoy alongside those, pick your poison: free use, pet play, DD/lg, dollification, sadism, humiliation / degradation, enemas, inflation, edging / orgasm control, breath play using my dick, fuck machines and in general all sorts of toys, remote controlled toys, ovipositors, inflatable toys, fantasy cock sleeves, improvised toys, did I mention toys yet?

I'm getting into building my own toys from medical grade silicone, it's actually not that hard. Fun fact: you're not massively overpaying for all the pricey toys, good raw silicone is really that expensive.

Limits: I avoid scat, blood, and (and this is vague and up for discussion) most forms of roleplayed physical or mental abuse. Beyond those, "Die Gedanken sind frei", your mind is free to go wherever fantasy takes us, as long as we both understand that some stuff will remain a fantasy.

My thinking is not heavily bound by common moral or ethical concerns, and you will inevitably take part in this unhindered exploration of our brains weird neurological connections when interacting with me. I only really connect deeply with people who enjoy these sort of explorations, in any context.

Who am I looking for?
People of similar age with similar interests.
Experience is optional, I'm willing to teach.
Younger is fine, depending on your maturity.
From around Germany or neighbouring countries.

Be sensible, put some effort in, mind your manners and be willing gradually escalate into an IRL meeting if we vibe.

Vet me. Agency, my dear toy!
I need you to demonstrate that you have thought this through.
Check my knowledge on consent, ask me which safety systems I plan to implement, you should know this.
I'm a big fan of unprompted consent, meaning if I suggest something and you only vaguely agree, it will not happen until you express self-motivated, unprompted desire for it. If you do not bring up the idea again, I consider that a soft no. I absolutely will not force anyone into anything they do not want to do.

Who am I?
A 35 year old lifelong nerd and massive pervert. Somewhat sportive, able bodied and lean, but a homebody. Introverted nerd with introvert hobbies and a nerd job. Quite some experience in what I want kink wise, and for what it's worth, a previous partner is a registered nurse and trusted my judgement and knowledge on medical/anatomical/physiological questions.
I enjoy reading, mostly non-fiction currently, gaming, vinyl (and I feel pretentious about it), building my own stuff, my cats, good clothing (good, not brand), second hand shopping, and being kinky while enjoying these things.

Hit me up if you want your holes permanently altered in fun ways.

Heya kinky people!

I am an experimentalist Dom looking for subs with the lofty, idealistic end goal of establishing a stable and loving monogamous relationship centred around kink. I value a deep, loving, stable connection, and kink and sex are extremely important to me. They are the way I (we, hopefully) express that connection.
How we get there is pretty open, the process is called searching, not finding.

The Dynamic:
Human Toy / Test subject as a label fits what I am looking for better than submissive. I am not a switch, and I prefer clear, established roles. I’m looking for someone who wants to be my toy, to obey my commands without hesitation, but who has the personal presence to say "no" when they need to. If I want your ass, you bend over, but there is always respect for your agency. My goal isn't to force, my goal is to lead a willing subject, and anything less than a "Hell yeah!" is a soft "no".

That's Dr. Jekyll. Mr. Hyde is in there as well. He's well under control, but with the right cocktail of brain chemicals he comes out to play. I've been told that's fun.

The kinks that matter to me:
Large and deep insertions. Power exchange.

The kinks that I enjoy alongside those, pick your poison: free use, pet play, DD/lg, dollification, sadism, humiliation / degradation, enemas, inflation, edging / orgasm control, breath play using my dick, fuck machines and in general all sorts of toys, remote controlled toys, ovipositors, inflatable toys, fantasy cock sleeves, improvised toys, did I mention toys yet?

I'm getting into building my own toys from medical grade silicone, it's actually not that hard. Fun fact: you're not massively overpaying for all the pricey toys, good raw silicone is really that expensive.

Limits: I avoid scat, blood, and (and this is vague and up for discussion) most forms of roleplayed physical or mental abuse. Beyond those, "Die Gedanken sind frei", your mind is free to go wherever fantasy takes us, as long as we both understand that some stuff will remain a fantasy.

My thinking is not heavily bound by common moral or ethical concerns, and you will inevitably take part in this unhindered exploration of our brains weird neurological connections when interacting with me. I only really connect deeply with people who enjoy these sort of explorations, in any context.

Who am I looking for?
People of similar age with similar interests.
Experience is optional, I'm willing to teach.
Younger is fine, depending on your maturity.
From around Germany or neighbouring countries.

Be sensible, put some effort in, mind your manners and be willing gradually escalate into an IRL meeting if we vibe.

Vet me. Agency, my dear toy!
I need you to demonstrate that you have thought this through.
Check my knowledge on consent, ask me which safety systems I plan to implement, you should know this.
I'm a big fan of unprompted consent, meaning if I suggest something and you only vaguely agree, it will not happen until you express self-motivated, unprompted desire for it. If you do not bring up the idea again, I consider that a soft no. I absolutely will not force anyone into anything they do not want to do.

Who am I?
A 35 year old lifelong nerd and massive pervert. Somewhat sportive, able bodied and lean, but a homebody. Introverted nerd with introvert hobbies and a nerd job. Quite some experience in what I want kink wise, and for what it's worth, a previous partner is a registered nurse and trusted my judgement and knowledge on medical/anatomical/physiological questions.
I enjoy reading, mostly non-fiction currently, gaming, vinyl (and I feel pretentious about it), building my own stuff, my cats, good clothing (good, not brand), second hand shopping, and being kinky while enjoying these things.

Hit me up if you want your holes permanently altered in fun ways.

Heya kinky people!

I am an experimentalist Dom looking for subs with the lofty, idealistic end goal of establishing a stable and loving monogamous relationship centred around kink. I value a deep, loving, stable connection, and kink and sex are extremely important to me. They are the way I (we, hopefully) express that connection.
How we get there is pretty open, the process is called searching, not finding.

The Dynamic:
Human Toy / Test subject as a label fits what I am looking for better than submissive. I am not a switch, and I prefer clear, established roles. I’m looking for someone who wants to be my toy, to obey my commands without hesitation, but who has the personal presence to say "no" when they need to. If I want your ass, you bend over, but there is always respect for your agency. My goal isn't to force, my goal is to lead a willing subject, and anything less than a "Hell yeah!" is a soft "no".

That's Dr. Jekyll. Mr. Hyde is in there as well. He's well under control, but with the right cocktail of brain chemicals he comes out to play. I've been told that's fun.

The kinks that matter to me:
Large and deep insertions. Power exchange.

The kinks that I enjoy alongside those, pick your poison: free use, pet play, DD/lg, dollification, sadism, humiliation / degradation, enemas, inflation, edging / orgasm control, breath play using my dick, fuck machines and in general all sorts of toys, remote controlled toys, ovipositors, inflatable toys, fantasy cock sleeves, improvised toys, did I mention toys yet?

I'm getting into building my own toys from medical grade silicone, it's actually not that hard. Fun fact: you're not massively overpaying for all the pricey toys, good raw silicone is really that expensive.

Limits: I avoid scat, blood, and (and this is vague and up for discussion) most forms of roleplayed physical or mental abuse. Beyond those, "Die Gedanken sind frei", your mind is free to go wherever fantasy takes us, as long as we both understand that some stuff will remain a fantasy.

My thinking is not heavily bound by common moral or ethical concerns, and you will inevitably take part in this unhindered exploration of our brains weird neurological connections when interacting with me. I only really connect deeply with people who enjoy these sort of explorations, in any context.

Who am I looking for?
People of similar age with similar interests.
Experience is optional, I'm willing to teach.
Younger is fine, depending on your maturity.
From around Germany or neighbouring countries.

Be sensible, put some effort in, mind your manners and be willing gradually escalate into an IRL meeting if we vibe.

Vet me. Agency, my dear toy!
I need you to demonstrate that you have thought this through.
Check my knowledge on consent, ask me which safety systems I plan to implement, you should know this.
I'm a big fan of unprompted consent, meaning if I suggest something and you only vaguely agree, it will not happen until you express self-motivated, unprompted desire for it. If you do not bring up the idea again, I consider that a soft no. I absolutely will not force anyone into anything they do not want to do.

Who am I?
A 35 year old lifelong nerd and massive pervert. Somewhat sportive, able bodied and lean, but a homebody. Introverted nerd with introvert hobbies and a nerd job. Quite some experience in what I want kink wise, and for what it's worth, a previous partner is a registered nurse and trusted my judgement and knowledge on medical/anatomical/physiological questions.
I enjoy reading, mostly non-fiction currently, gaming, vinyl (and I feel pretentious about it), building my own stuff, my cats, good clothing (good, not brand), second hand shopping, and being kinky while enjoying these things.

Hit me up if you want your holes permanently altered in fun ways.