u/Ambitious_Coat7629

Hi all! New keyholder here. My Bf and I have been experimenting with longer lock ups (2-4 days so far). He begs and begs to get let out, and will do the tasks I require to get the key, but then pout when I let him go? I’m a bit confused, is the begging just part of the kink, with no real desire to be set free? Or are my tasks not challenging enough? Just curious on your thoughts/experience with not really wanting an unlock? Thanks!

Hi all! Finally convinced the BF to try a cage! Shocker he likes it lol

First week was simple, putting it on for a bit and getting teased heavily before release.

Going to do the first overnight tonight, and if it goes well, I’m thinking three days 😈 depending on how that goes I’m going to give an ultimatum every day and he can either do it for a release, or go another day. First few ideas are:

Inquire about chastity with a friend
Plug overnight
Ask the local shop owner for cage recommendations
Etc.

I’m hoping to get a gauge of how desperate the lockup makes him. Great community thanks for all the advice and all the threads! 💋

Hi all! Finally convinced the BF to try a cage! Shocker he likes it lol

First week was simple, putting it on for a bit and getting teased heavily before release.

Going to do the first overnight tonight, and if it goes well, I’m thinking three days 😈 depending on how that goes I’m going to give an ultimatum every day and he can either do it for a release, or go another day. First few ideas are:

Inquire about chastity with a friend
Plug overnight
Ask the local shop owner for cage recommendations
Etc.

I’m hoping to get a gauge of how desperate the lockup makes him. Great community thanks for all the advice and all the threads! 💋

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Hi all!

After many years of interest I 27F have finally gotten my BF 29M a cage! Being new to key holding I don’t want to put too much stress on him and make him not enjoy it. Is there a rule of thumb for beginner lock up times, newbie tasks, etc? Any tips and tricks would be appreciated as we explore! He seems super interested I just don’t want to push too hard or make a mistake. Thanks!