u/Appropriate-Pea-5380

I am a responsible, smart, and charismatic woman with a passion for personal growth, self improvement, and meaningful connections. I tend to keep fairly busy with work, but in my downtime, I lead a quiet life and usually prefer a night cozy on the couch over a night out. So I love to read, watch horror/thriller movies, video games (just getting into it)
I am a good looking, long blonde hair, blue eyes, average height, curvy, white woman

Kinks aspects:
I’ve come to realize that fantasies change and evolve depending on our emotional life at the time, and would be influenced by whatever relationship develops between us, but as a general tendency my idea of domming is to take over responsibility and control with the sub's best interest at heart, in order to give them the privilege of letting go and experiencing pleasure in the knowledge that they're safe. My needs are therefore more about loving, doting, sensual, pushing vulnerability, giving praises.
My Limits: scat, kids, animals, scarring, anything illegal

My ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which my partner and I look absolutely vanilla to the outside world, he presents as a doting partner, but when we’re all alone he is there to serve, please and be used by me.

My Ideal submissive:
A worthy, confident and obedient man who is eager to evolve, learn and grow
19+ obviously
I don't care about your weight or height, so far you can submit to me
Someone comfortable with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and open communication
Someone who understands that this is not just a kink, but a lifestyle
Someone who is confident and competent in daily life, but who once I earn the trust and right, melts in my hands

Instructions for messaging me:
No honorifics until I tell you to
At the beginning of your message, include your age, time zone (or location, if you're comfortable), and one word to describe yourself.
In the body of your message, include information about your vanilla life. How do you spend your days? What do you enjoy doing to relax? Things like that.
Give me a list of your kinks and limits

You will not get a reply if ANY of the following apply:
You haven't put effort into your message.
You haven't followed all of my instructions.
You want to top me.
You don't fit my ideals.

P.S. While I welcome any level of sexual/relationship/dynamic experience, I do have a soft spot/preference for those that are fairly inexperienced in any/all of the above. I also find shyness very cute, so if you fit the bill, be brave and reach out!

I am a responsible, smart, and charismatic woman with a passion for personal growth, self improvement, and meaningful connections. I tend to keep fairly busy with work, but in my downtime, I lead a quiet life and usually prefer a night cozy on the couch over a night out. So I love to read, watch horror/thriller movies, video games (just getting into it)
I am a good looking, long blonde hair, blue eyes, average height, curvy, white woman

Kinks aspects:
I’ve come to realize that fantasies change and evolve depending on our emotional life at the time, and would be influenced by whatever relationship develops between us, but as a general tendency my idea of domming is to take over responsibility and control with the sub's best interest at heart, in order to give them the privilege of letting go and experiencing pleasure in the knowledge that they're safe. My needs are therefore more about loving, doting, sensual, pushing vulnerability, giving praises.
My Limits: scat, kids, animals, scarring, anything illegal

My ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which my partner and I look absolutely vanilla to the outside world, he presents as a doting partner, but when we’re all alone he is there to serve, please and be used by me.

My Ideal submissive:
A worthy, confident and obedient man who is eager to evolve, learn and grow
19+ obviously
I don't care about your weight or height, so far you can submit to me
Someone comfortable with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and open communication
Someone who understands that this is not just a kink, but a lifestyle
Someone who is confident and competent in daily life, but who once I earn the trust and right, melts in my hands

Instructions for messaging me:
No honorifics until I tell you to
At the beginning of your message, include your age, time zone (or location, if you're comfortable), and one word to describe yourself.
In the body of your message, include information about your vanilla life. How do you spend your days? What do you enjoy doing to relax? Things like that.
Give me a list of your kinks and limits

You will not get a reply if ANY of the following apply:
You haven't put effort into your message.
You haven't followed all of my instructions.
You want to top me.
You don't fit my ideals.

P.S. While I welcome any level of sexual/relationship/dynamic experience, I do have a soft spot/preference for those that are fairly inexperienced in any/all of the above. I also find shyness very cute, so if you fit the bill, be brave and reach out!

I am a responsible, smart, and charismatic woman with a passion for personal growth, self improvement, and meaningful connections. I tend to keep fairly busy with work, but in my downtime, I lead a quiet life and usually prefer a night cozy on the couch over a night out.
I am a good looking, long blonde hair, average height, curvy, white woman

Kinks aspects:
I’ve come to realize that fantasies change and evolve depending on our emotional life at the time, and would be influenced by whatever relationship develops between us, but as a general tendency my idea of domming is to take over responsibility and control with the sub's best interest at heart, in order to give them the privilege of letting go and experiencing pleasure in the knowledge that they're safe. My needs are therefore more about loving, doting, sensual, pushing vulnerability, giving praises.
My Limits: scat, kids, animals, scarring, anything illegal

My ideal scenario would be a FemDom household in which my partner and I look absolutely vanilla to the outside world, he presents as a doting partner, but when we’re all alone he is there to serve, please and be used by me.

My Ideal submissive:
A worthy, confident and obedient man who is eager to evolve, learn and grow
19+ obviously
Someone comfortable with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and open communication

Instructions for messaging me:
No honorifics until I tell you to
At the beginning of your message, include your age, time zone (or location, if you're comfortable), and one word to describe yourself.
In the body of your message, include information about your vanilla life. How do you spend your days? What do you enjoy doing to relax? Things like that.
Give me a list of your kinks and limits

You will not get a reply if ANY of the following apply:
You haven't put effort into your message.
You haven't followed all of my instructions.
You want to top me.
You don't fit my ideals.

P.S. While I welcome any level of sexual/relationship/dynamic experience, I do have a soft spot/preference for those that are fairly inexperienced in any/all of the above. I also find shyness very cute, so if you fit the bill, be brave and reach out!