u/AsianActivistGF

Hey everyone, College girl here. i had some past trauma i wanna escape from. Is Molly or Gummies better for that? those are the two i kinda prefer but i kinda wanna daily dose.

I’ve been thinking about how different my life is now compared to the past. I’m college-aged, Asian, living with my boyfriend, and our relationship has gotten really serious. Like… we literally live together now?? And honestly I love the little life we’re building.

I also have this new group of friends who are actually kind and supportive and seem to have their shit together, and being around them has made me realize how much I’ve changed.

There’s this part of my past I basically never talk about because tbh I’m still ashamed by it.

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I was still occasionally getting invited to parties by this popular guy at school, Vincent. We weren’t officially together yet because Vincent never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would text me super late, like 1am after parties, and I’d go.

There was always alcohol, gummies, random people coming and going, and eventually I became someone they expected to go down on them for, like what? Which is so weird to think about because it honestly wasn’t even what I wanted. I just wanted to belong. I wanted to be part of that cool crowd and feel like I was finally somebody people wanted around.

Sometimes things got way beyond what I was comfortable with. Vincent’s uncle or random people connected to the drugs would show up and suddenly I’d be expected to “hook them up” or be involved in shit I absolutely did not want to be involved in. I remember feeling uncomfortable and still going back anyway.

I think I was just desperate for approval. They were the cool people. I wanted their attention so badly that I confused being wanted with actually being accepted.

And the funny/sad part is my boyfriend is basically the complete opposite of that world. He’s quiet and introverted and could not care less about being popular. And honestly… that’s way more like me when I’m not desperately trying to impress everyone.

I remember him dropping me off after dates and then later that same night Vincent would text me asking me to come over. Looking back on that version of myself is honestly surreal.

I don’t see any of those people anymore. I’ve tried really hard to leave that whole part of my life behind.

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how different my life feels now compared with a few years ago.

I’m college-aged, Asian, and recently moved in with my boyfriend. Our relationship has become really serious, and I genuinely love the life we’re building together. I’ve also made a new group of friends who are kind, supportive, and seem to have their lives together. Being around them has made me realize how much I’ve changed.

There’s a part of my past that I rarely talk about because I still feel embarrassed and guilty about it. When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I was still occasionally getting invited to parties by a popular guy at school named Vincent. We weren’t officially together at the time because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would get at me late at night, sometimes around 1 a.m., after parties.

There was usually alcohol and drugs around, and I gradually became someone they expected sexual favors from. The strange part is that sex was never really what I was looking for. More than anything, I wanted to feel like I belonged. I wanted to be included in that social circle and accepted by people who seemed to have the kind of life everyone wanted.

Sometimes things went further than I was comfortable with. Vincent’s uncle or random people involved with drugs would show up, and I would find myself in situations where I was expected to “hook them up.” I remember feeling deeply uncomfortable, but I kept going back anyway.

Looking back, I think a lot of it came from wanting approval. Vincent and his friends were considered the cool crowd, and I desperately wanted to feel like I belonged somewhere. At the time, I confused being wanted with being accepted.

My boyfriend is almost the complete opposite of that world. He’s quieter, more introverted, and has never cared much about being popular. Ironically, that’s much closer to who I am when I’m not trying to impress anyone.

Before we moved in together, there were times when my boyfriend would drop me off after a date, and later that same night Vincent would ask me to come over.

I dont see any of them anymore and tried to leave that part of my life in the past

Hey all, 19 f in college here. Asian. Diversity student when sober by day, but have a dark party past serving the popular white guys on campus especially when intoxicated. Gummy molly drinking preference lol

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how different my life feels now compared with a few years ago.

I’m college-aged, Asian, and recently moved in with my boyfriend. Our relationship has become really serious, and I genuinely love the life we’re building together. I’ve also made a new group of friends who are kind, supportive, and seem to have their lives together. Being around them has made me realize how much I’ve changed.

There’s a part of my past that I rarely talk about because I still feel embarrassed and guilty about it. When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I was still occasionally getting invited to parties by a popular guy at school named Vincent. We weren’t officially together at the time because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would get at me late at night, sometimes around 1 a.m., after parties.

There was usually alcohol and drugs around, and I gradually became someone they expected sexual favors from. The strange part is that sex was never really what I was looking for. More than anything, I wanted to feel like I belonged. I wanted to be included in that social circle and accepted by people who seemed to have the kind of life everyone wanted.

Sometimes things went further than I was comfortable with. Vincent’s uncle or random people involved with drugs would show up, and I would find myself in situations where I was expected to “hook them up.” I remember feeling deeply uncomfortable, but I kept going back anyway.

Looking back, I think a lot of it came from wanting approval. Vincent and his friends were considered the cool crowd, and I desperately wanted to feel like I belonged somewhere. At the time, I confused being wanted with being accepted.

My boyfriend is almost the complete opposite of that world. He’s quieter, more introverted, and has never cared much about being popular. Ironically, that’s much closer to who I am when I’m not trying to impress anyone.

Before we moved in together, there were times when my boyfriend would drop me off after a date, and later that same night Vincent would ask me to come over.

I dont see any of them anymore and tried to leave that part of my life in the past

Hi everyone! I'm a college Asian F and recently moved in with my boyfriend, and we're in a really committed relationship now. He's seriously such an amazing guy, and I love being with him so much. I've also made a new group of friends who are super positive, really supportive, and just genuinely have their lives together.

The only thing is...I have a past that I don't really talk about, because of a lot of shame and hurt but of course trauma that im trying to move past.

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I got invited to party with this really popular white guy at school named Vincent. We weren't actually dating because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would hit me up really late at night, usually around 1 a.m., after parties and ask me to come over and hang out. Major regret number one is often i ditched my real friends for these new cooler guys.

There would usually be alcohol and drugs, and they mostly had me going down even tho what i wanted to do was be one of the gang. most traumatic for me was when his unk or random drug dealers I'd never even met before would show up and i'd be expected to "hook them up". Those situations were honestly the most uncomfortable.

That whole thing went on for a while. I think a big reason I kept going back was because Vincent and his friends were considered the "cool" crowd, and I really wanted to fit in and feel accepted by the more mainstream social scene.

It finally ended because i realized they never saw me as one of them. Even in public they would act like they didn't know me and at the formal they brought their blonde cheerleader girlfriends and didn't even think of me until after.

My boyfriend is honestly the complete opposite. He's quieter, more introverted, and not really into the whole popularity thing. That's actually more my personality too when I'm being myself.

Back then, before we moved in together, my boyfriend would drop me off after our dates, and sometimes later that same night I'd get a text from Vincent asking me to come over.

Thankfully, that's all behind me now. I don't see any of those people anymore—not my old friends, not Vincent, and not anyone from that group. My life is completely different now, but that did feel like a fever dream. i'm tryin to move from this being a dark and depressing time in my life that triggers me to i can hold my head up high and move forward as a lesson learned. still working on it.

Hi everyone! I'm a college Asian F and recently moved in with my boyfriend, and we're in a really committed relationship now. He's seriously such an amazing guy, and I love being with him so much. I've also made a new group of friends who are super positive, really supportive, and just genuinely have their lives together.

The only thing is...I have a past that I don't really talk about, because of a lot of shame and hurt but of course trauma that im trying to move past.

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I got invited to party with this really popular white guy at school named Vincent. We weren't actually dating because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would hit me up really late at night, usually around 1 a.m., after parties and ask me to come over and hang out. Major regret number one is often i ditched my real friends for these new cooler guys.

There would usually be alcohol and drugs, and they mostly had me going down even tho what i wanted to do was be one of the gang. most traumatic for me was when his uncle or random drug dealers I'd never even met before would show up and i'd be expected to "hook them up". Those situations were honestly the most uncomfortable.

That whole thing went on for a while. I think a big reason I kept going back was because Vincent and his friends were considered the "cool" crowd, and I really wanted to fit in and feel accepted by the more mainstream social scene.

It finally ended because i realized they never saw me as one of them. Even in public they would act like they didn't know me and at the formal they brought their blonde cheerleader girlfriends and didn't even think of me until after.

My boyfriend is honestly the complete opposite. He's quieter, more introverted, and not really into the whole popularity thing. That's actually more my personality too when I'm being myself.

Back then, before we moved in together, my boyfriend would drop me off after our dates, and sometimes later that same night I'd get a text from Vincent asking me to come over.

Thankfully, that's all behind me now. I don't see any of those people anymore—not my old friends, not Vincent, and not anyone from that group. My life is completely different now, but that did feel like a fever dream. i'm tryin to move from this being a dark and depressing time in my life that triggers me to i can hold my head up high and move forward as a lesson learned. still working on it.

hey all, im kinda new here and a bit confused. someone told me there are no UBs in this group and that people here don't like to be called ugly but the sub is called uglybastards? Will the real UBs please stand up then? lol

Hi everyone! I'm a college Asian F and recently moved in with my boyfriend, and we're in a really committed relationship now. He's seriously such an amazing guy, and I love being with him so much. I've also made a new group of friends who are super positive, really supportive, and just genuinely have their lives together.

The only thing is...I have a past that I don't really talk about, and sometimes it still makes me feel guilty.

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I got invited to party with this really popular white guy at school named Vincent. We weren't actually dating because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would hit me up really late at night—usually around 1 a.m.—after parties and ask me to come over and hang out.

There would usually be alcohol and drugs, and they mostly had me going down even tho what i wanted to do was be one of the gang. most traumatic for me was when his uncle (the UB!) or random drug dealers I'd never even met before would show up and i'd be expected to "hook them up". Those situations were honestly the most uncomfortable.

That whole thing went on for a while. I think a big reason I kept going back was because Vincent and his friends were considered the "cool" crowd, and I really wanted to fit in and feel accepted by the more mainstream social scene.

My boyfriend is honestly the complete opposite. He's quieter, more introverted, and not really into the whole popularity thing. That's actually more my personality too when I'm being myself.

Back then, before we moved in together, my boyfriend would drop me off after our dates, and sometimes later that same night I'd get a text from Vincent asking me to come over.

Thankfully, that's all behind me now. I don't see any of those people anymore—not my old friends, not Vincent, and not anyone from that group. My life is completely different now, but that did feel like a fever dream. I do sometimes wonder if I should come clean and tell my bf but worried it will hurt our relationship. He's the jealous type and i dont think it will go over well.

Hi everyone! I'm a college Asian F and recently moved in with my boyfriend, and we're in a really committed relationship now. He's seriously such an amazing guy, and I love being with him so much. I've also made a new group of friends who are super positive, really supportive, and just genuinely have their lives together.

The only thing is...I have a past that I don't really talk about, and sometimes it still makes me feel guilty.

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I got invited to party with this really popular white guy at school named Vincent. We weren't actually dating because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would hit me up really late at night—usually around 1 a.m.—after parties and ask me to come over and hang out.

There would usually be alcohol and drugs, and they mostly had me going down even tho what i wanted to do was be one of the gang. most traumatic for me was when his uncle or random drug dealers I'd never even met before would show up and i'd be expected to "hook them up". Those situations were honestly the most uncomfortable.

That whole thing went on for a while. I think a big reason I kept going back was because Vincent and his friends were considered the "cool" crowd, and I really wanted to fit in and feel accepted by the more mainstream social scene.

My boyfriend is honestly the complete opposite. He's quieter, more introverted, and not really into the whole popularity thing. That's actually more my personality too when I'm being myself.

Back then, before we moved in together, my boyfriend would drop me off after our dates, and sometimes later that same night I'd get a text from Vincent asking me to come over.

Thankfully, that's all behind me now. I don't see any of those people anymore—not my old friends, not Vincent, and not anyone from that group. My life is completely different now, but that did feel like a fever dream. I do sometimes wonder if I should come clean and tell my bf but worried it will hurt our relationship. He's the jealous type and i dont think it will go over well.

Hi everyone! I'm a college Asian F and recently moved in with my boyfriend, and we're in a really committed relationship now. He's seriously such an amazing guy, and I love being with him so much. I've also made a new group of friends who are super positive, really supportive, and just genuinely have their lives together.

The only thing is...I have a past that I don't really talk about, and sometimes it still makes me feel guilty.

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I got invited to party with this really popular white guy at school named Vincent. We weren't actually dating because he never wanted anything serious, but he and his friends would hit me up really late at night—usually around 1 a.m.—after parties and ask me to come over and hang out.

There would usually be alcohol and drugs, and they mostly had me going down even tho what i wanted to do was be one of the gang. most traumatic for me was when his uncle or random drug dealers I'd never even met before would show up and i'd be expected to "hook them up". Those situations were honestly the most uncomfortable.

That whole thing went on for a while. I think a big reason I kept going back was because Vincent and his friends were considered the "cool" crowd, and I really wanted to fit in and feel accepted by the more mainstream social scene.

My boyfriend is honestly the complete opposite. He's quieter, more introverted, and not really into the whole popularity thing. That's actually more my personality too when I'm being myself.

Back then, before we moved in together, my boyfriend would drop me off after our dates, and sometimes later that same night I'd get a text from Vincent asking me to come over.

Thankfully, that's all behind me now. I don't see any of those people anymore—not my old friends, not Vincent, and not anyone from that group. My life is completely different now, but that did feel like a fever dream.

A bit confused about this page. Are there legit MAGA guys here from the Southern Red States? Or are people just in fantasy that they are MAGA?

Legit Gen Z Liberal Asking

Hey! college Asian F here. I've been partying pretty hard all summer because i study hard during the school year. Usually my boyfriend and friends crash before I do, and when I'm still drunk and wired, but i want to keep raging! lol i end up laying in bed scrolling Reddit and DMing random people.

After a long week of classes and studying, im off for the rest of the week! Thinking of starting the weekend off with some drinks! Anybody wanna join me and get slushed? lol

Hey im trying to understand the motivation behind the people who comment and post here a bit. So two days i shared an experience I had drunk DMIng a white guy and how he made me "worship" him while my bf was asleep.

I got a few messages from some asian guys here and they seemed to really promote the idea that I should unblock the guy who threatened to dox me and apologize and that they really feel like what i did isnt wrong and is in fact right. then i see lots of them kind of diss themselves too. and even encourage me to diss them? So my question is is that just a fantasy for you guys or do you really believe what you are telling me as advice and feedback?

College Asn F here.

I've basically been partying all summer after grinding through the school year. My bf and our friends usually pass out way before I do, and I always wanna keep the night going lol. When I'm drunk I do dumb stuff like scrolling Reddit and Dming random people because I get bored.

The other night I ended up talking to this random YT guy. We were actually vibing for a while, then he started trying to convince me to "worship" him. I kept saying nah at first, but he wouldn't let it go and I was drunk enough that I eventually just thought whatever, not a huge deal.

Woke up the next morning feeling kinda embarrassed and wished I hadn't done it.

Then he hit me up again wanting me to do it another time. I told him no thanks, I'm good. He kept asking, I kept saying no, and eventually he got all pissed off and started threaten to share our private talk.

Like... seriously? I thought what happened between us stayed between us. That was a pretty crappy thing to do.

hey all, college Asian F here. Been partying all summer and usually my bf and friends crash and i want to still keep raging so I been drunk dming people on reddit while in bed. I drunk DMed this white guy the other day who talked me into "worshipping him." next day i regretted it but is using my drunk mistake against me. so much for safe place between us. :(