
Advice for posting on personals subreddits (had to repost since I censored the name in messages, but not at the top 😭😭😭)
So I was speaking to someone that saw my personals post and wanted to tell me congrats on graduating. I ended up asking them for advice on my personals post, as I wanted a second opinion. They had great advice, but the conversation took a left turn so I wanted to check and see if it's disrespectful to state what you're looking for in a personals post.
They said I was treating personals like ordering off a menu, so I wanted to make sure I'm not being disrespectful towards dommes on the personals subreddit and if anyone here would find it disrespectful to have these requirements.
For context: In my posts I always specify that I'm looking for a relationship so I would think that you would want to include such things to make sure the compatibility is there
This is what I replied with "Well I used to specify within my age range (that's currently 20-28), clingy(to match my own personality), communicative, I would prefer someone that's more extroverted to balance out my introversion but that's not necessary, and either in college or working."
Here's the convo to make sure there isn't a misrepresentation of their words