u/Bacon042302

Advice for posting on personals subreddits (had to repost since I censored the name in messages, but not at the top 😭😭😭)

Advice for posting on personals subreddits (had to repost since I censored the name in messages, but not at the top 😭😭😭)

So I was speaking to someone that saw my personals post and wanted to tell me congrats on graduating. I ended up asking them for advice on my personals post, as I wanted a second opinion. They had great advice, but the conversation took a left turn so I wanted to check and see if it's disrespectful to state what you're looking for in a personals post.

They said I was treating personals like ordering off a menu, so I wanted to make sure I'm not being disrespectful towards dommes on the personals subreddit and if anyone here would find it disrespectful to have these requirements.

For context: In my posts I always specify that I'm looking for a relationship so I would think that you would want to include such things to make sure the compatibility is there

This is what I replied with "Well I used to specify within my age range (that's currently 20-28), clingy(to match my own personality), communicative, I would prefer someone that's more extroverted to balance out my introversion but that's not necessary, and either in college or working."

Here's the convo to make sure there isn't a misrepresentation of their words

u/Bacon042302 — 3 hours ago

24 [M4F] #NYC #EST #US #EU - Let me cook for you, spam you with TikToks, and be yours.

Me as a person

Hi, hope you're doing well! My name is Justin, or you can call me JJ if you prefer. I enjoy anime/manga, gaming, listening to music, cooking, and checking out new tech. I will admit that I'm shy at first, but I'm incredibly loyal and pretty clingy once I get to know you.

I'm someone who loves spending my free time on call with my partner. I'm always down for sleep calls, and if you're in another country, I will absolutely add your time zone's clock to my home screen. I love getting into "I love you more" matches, I take note of the little things you mention, and I will spam you with TikToks. (I just get really excited to talk to the person I'm dating, and if I can't call, that excitement turns into texting and sending you videos from whatever app I'm on!)

When it comes to cooking, my main tools are the Instant Pot, rice cooker, and air fryer. I love sharing pics of the food I make, ranging from a cake baked in the rice cooker, to curry in the Instant Pot, to burgers in the air fryer.

I listen to Funeral, Cade Clair, Dante Red/Ericdoa, Skele, Ayowitty, Yeat, and Motionless In White. I can basically listen to anything other than country. Professionally, I graduate from college next week with a degree in Public Accounting and Business Management, and I recently accepted a full-time offer at a Big 4 firm! I start in August, so I'm really looking forward to that.

What I look for in a Partner/Domme + Dealbreakers

I absolutely love quality time and getting to know you, whether that's virtual or in person. I'm looking for someone who gets equally excited to talk and will send a bunch of messages if I can't answer immediately. (Though to be fair, I doubt it would ever get to that point since I always respond to messages the second I have free time!). If you're clingy or possessive, then those are positives in my book, as it's nice to be able to talk to someone that's the same as me

When it comes to dealbreakers: I am strictly monogamous. I also highly value communication; if there's an issue, please be someone who can talk about it openly, as I can't help or fix an issue if I don't know what it is.

Appearance

I'm 5'8"-5'10" (I was told 5'8" in high school, but people that have seen me since then tell me I'm definitely not 5'8 lol), Black, chubby, and I wear glasses.

To celebrate my full-time job offer, the firm paid me to go to Disney. I enjoyed the parks, but honestly, the most fun part was taking pictures. If we hit it off, I have a bunch of pics from the trip I'd love to show you.

Thank you for reading my post! If you're interested, send me your favorite idea for a date—or, if you also enjoy cooking, tell me your favorite idea for a cooking date!

Kinks and Limits

  • Kinks: Corruption, overstimulation, praise, and degradation
  • Limits: Cuckolding, SPH, anything that causes lasting harm, scat, and watersports.
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u/Bacon042302 — 21 hours ago

24 [M4F] #NYC #EST #US #EU - Let me cook for you, spam you with TikToks, and be yours.

Me as a person

Hi, hope you're doing well! My name is Justin, or you can call me JJ if you prefer. I enjoy anime/manga, gaming, listening to music, cooking, and checking out new tech. I will admit that I'm shy at first, but I'm incredibly loyal and pretty clingy once I get to know you.

I'm someone who loves spending my free time on call with my partner. I'm always down for sleep calls, and if you're in another country, I will absolutely add your time zone's clock to my home screen. I love getting into "I love you more" matches, I take note of the little things you mention, and I will spam you with TikToks. (I just get really excited to talk to the person I'm dating, and if I can't call, that excitement turns into texting and sending you videos from whatever app I'm on!)

When it comes to cooking, my main tools are the Instant Pot, rice cooker, and air fryer. I love sharing pics of the food I make, ranging from a cake baked in the rice cooker, to curry in the Instant Pot, to burgers in the air fryer.

I listen to Funeral, Cade Clair, Dante Red/Ericdoa, Skele, Ayowitty, Yeat, and Motionless In White. I can basically listen to anything other than country. Professionally, I graduate from college next week with a degree in Public Accounting and Business Management, and I recently accepted a full-time offer at a Big 4 firm! I start in August, so I'm really looking forward to that.

What I look for in a Partner/Domme + Dealbreakers

I absolutely love quality time and getting to know you, whether that's virtual or in person. I'm looking for someone who gets equally excited to talk and will send a bunch of messages if I can't answer immediately. (Though to be fair, I doubt it would ever get to that point since I always respond to messages the second I have free time!). If you're clingy or possessive, then those are positives in my book, as it's nice to be able to talk to someone that's the same as me

When it comes to dealbreakers: I am strictly monogamous. I also highly value communication; if there's an issue, please be someone who can talk about it openly, as I can't help or fix an issue if I don't know what it is.

Appearance

I'm 5'8"-5'10" (I was told 5'8" in high school, but people that have seen me since then tell me I'm definitely not 5'8 lol), Black, chubby, and I wear glasses.

To celebrate my full-time job offer, the firm paid me to go to Disney. I enjoyed the parks, but honestly, the most fun part was taking pictures. If we hit it off, I have a bunch of pics from the trip I'd love to show you.

Thank you for reading my post! If you're interested, send me your favorite recipe—or, if you also enjoy cooking, tell me your favorite idea for a cooking date!

Kinks and Limits

  • Kinks: Corruption, overstimulation, praise, and degradation
  • Limits: Cuckolding, SPH, anything that causes lasting harm, scat, and watersports.
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u/Bacon042302 — 1 day ago

Made Chile Colorado

Made Chilè Colorado, these pics were taken over two days. One is with rice made with beef broth, lime juice, and harissa. The other is with rice made with saffron, lime juice, and harissa

u/Bacon042302 — 14 days ago