u/BeachEffective3273

Hi, I'm Xavi.

Here's what I'm actually looking for: a second life partner. Someone to fall in love with, have kids with, and share a home with. Not a situationship, not a side thing. A real relationship where we build something together on our own terms.

I'm married and polyamorous. My wife and I love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully on board. We don't have kids together. She'd have a real role in any family we build, at minimum a beloved aunt figure, open to more.

I want to fall in love first. Then, a few years in, start a family. Two or three kids. I'm not rushing toward a due date. I'm looking for the person first.

A little about me: I'm a teacher, a socialist, and an unrepentant nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, trains. I will talk about any of these for an embarrassing amount of time. I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, and I try to show up with real care when things get hard. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly. A lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction, and that distinction matters to me.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

Here's what I'm actually looking for: a second life partner. Someone to fall in love with, have kids with, and share a home with. Not a situationship, not a side thing. A real relationship where we build something together on our own terms.

I'm married and polyamorous. My wife and I love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully on board. We don't have kids together. She'd have a real role in any family we build, at minimum a beloved aunt figure, open to more.

I want to fall in love first. Then, a few years in, start a family. Two or three kids. I'm not rushing toward a due date. I'm looking for the person first.

A little about me: I'm a teacher, a socialist, and an unrepentant nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, trains. I will talk about any of these for an embarrassing amount of time. I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, and I try to show up with real care when things get hard. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly. A lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction, and that distinction matters to me.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, traditions, and values.

I'm married and polyamorous. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive. We don’t have kids together.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, traditions, and values.

I'm married and polyamorous. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive. We don’t have kids together.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, traditions, and values.

I'm married and polyamorous. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive. We don’t have kids together.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, traditions, and values.

I'm married and polyamorous. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive. We don’t have kids together.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, traditions, and values.

I'm married and polyamorous. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive. We don’t have kids together.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, not society’s.

I'm married. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, not society’s.

I'm married. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, not society’s.

I'm married. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, not society’s.

I'm married. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, not society’s.

I'm married. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; a lot of people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water and out of my clothes 😜

Hi, I'm Xavi.

I'm looking for a second life partner — someone to fall in love with, share a home with, and have children with. Not a side relationship. A real partner who wants to build a family according to our own script, not society’s.

I'm married. We love each other deeply, sleep separately, and she's fully supportive.

The timeline I have in mind: build the relationship first, then have kids in a few years. I’d like 2 or 3. I'm not in a rush. I want to fall in love first.

I'm a teacher, a socialist, and a committed nerd — sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, and trains. I'm currently reading Project Hail Mary and genuinely emotional about it.

As a partner: I'm a big communicator, physically affectionate, a real listener, and I try to handle difficult things with care. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology.

You don't need to already identify as poly; many people are monogamous by default rather than by deep conviction.

Maybe I can convince you to rewatch Andor with me 😉 When I'm not doing that, I'm finding any excuse to be in water naked 😜