u/BellaBloomReal

I'm not arrogant. I am aware of the effect I have on people.
It's an effect I've always had.

I have a presence. I stand out.
Whether in real life or the digital world – you will notice my presence as soon as I enter the room.
It must almost feel like a threat.
It often causes insecurity – not just among men.

Yes, this is what I said.
I am self-confident. I know what I am capable of.
I know what I find acceptable and what I dislike.
I know what I want and who I am.
I am strong, confident, genuine and so different from you.

You love that I am creative and open-minded, but also structured and strict.
That I'm funny, but also serious.
That I'm hot, but also intelligent.

You love my energy. My genuine character. My unique personality.
My ability to get into your mind – fast and permanently.
My ability to make you crave and sacrifice more.
You love that I am different from the standards you already know.

This is what makes it unpredictable, exciting and different.
This is what you've been looking for.

You wait for her.
You don't know what's about to happen.
You can hardly stand this uncertainty, but at the same time you love this mystery.

Lately you've lost focus. She doesn't like it when you're too distracted.
The mood has changed.

You have to prove to her again that you really want to serve.
You have to convince her again of how obsessed you are with her.

You send. You text her. You say that you are sorry.
You ask, what else you should do.
You wait.

You really should be working. But you constantly check your inbox for my messages.
You really shouldn't be here. But you are, because you are drawn to my control.
You really shouldn't spend time and money on me. But you love the distraction of my power.

You really should stop thinking.

You want to be dominated, but at the same time you're afraid of losing control.
You want to obey, but you're used to make your own decisions.
You want to gain trust, but you're too critical.
You want to feel alive, but you're too ashamed to release your true self.

Enter your safe space.
Hand over control to me.
Enjoy having your brain emptied. Let me fill it with a new focus.

Let go.

Hello community,

I was told to post something about me before I post something else, so here it is.

I am a 35 years old, clever, sportive and ambitious person, located in Europe. I love nature, animals and chocolate. I am successful at my job and in life in general - people like me and appreciate my presence. I like to be different - to think differently, to post differently, to interact differently. I always want to stick out, I always want to be the best. Mainstream was never my thing and I stopped comparing myself to the society of gnus, because the path of the mass is not always the right one.

I love to be dominant and controlling, because I guess, that's just who I am. I love obedience. A sub who's willing to really submit, to show he's obsessed with me by worshipping me with his words, actions and sends; a sub who shows consistency and effort - that's what makes me excited. I enjoy good talks, substance in sentences, ideas and questions - to me, a (longterm) dynamic is fun, if it doesn't feel like I need to pull every word out of you.

I like the challenge of entering individual minds with different kinks, characteristics and attitudes - I really do love challenges, new input and exploring. I like to have an impact on a sub's life. I want to be in their brains, I want to make them feel addicted, I want to be THERE. In my eyes psychological dominance is so much stronger than the physical one. That's what I am focusing on.

Findom makes me feel strong and powerful. I can't even describe how much I like this feeling. It enhances my life (I am not even talking about the financial part). I've always been a very confident person, but this is giving me an extra boost.

Enough about me. I hope this wasn't too long. Didn't want to copy, what is already there on my profile. Reach out if you're interested to get to know me. If you want to know something, ask - I am honest. I like to talk to different characters - also dommes!

Bye. Bella.

Edit: It was tough to choose a user flair. "Gentle dominatrix" would also have been a fitting description, but I don't like to be called "gentle". I own a good combination of different characteristics, which is hard to classify.

You feel your heartbeat.
You feel the excitement.
You feel so alive.

Possessed but free.
Dominated but safe.

This is you.
This is who you really are.
A serving sub. My obedient slave.

You keep coming back.
Because you're addicted to serving.

You spend your time thinking about me. About my rules. About the last things I've told you.
Because you're addicted to serving.

You spend your money on me.
Because you crave to sacrifice what you've earned.
Because you crave to materialize your words.
Because you're addicted to serving.

So you keep coming back.

You want to escape your daily struggles.
You want to enter a world, where you are led – a world in which you are told what to do.
The world your Goddess rules.

Stop thinking. Start the escape.
Submit – focus. Worship – forget ...

Controlled. Addicted. Mindf()cked.
Manipulated. Intimidated. Dominated.
Craving. Sending. Waiting.
Craving. Serving. Sending.

Oh, this craving ...