u/Big_Olive5922

To the sweetheart who’s been buying my coffee anonymously everyday.. it’s cute.. ur driving me insane!! Keep it up ♡

I wanna yap about something anything I’m not used to having a free Friday night and just opened a bottle of wine and am feeling particularly chatty tonight x so what’s on ur mind?

I realized the other day I lowkey have a findom bucket list and I’ve been unintentionally checking things off like it’s a side quest system 😭
– flip a dom/me (done… and it was kinda funny watching it happen)
– catch a whale (still pending… where are you hiding)
– build a long, long term dynamic that actually lasts and evolves
– take a sub-funded trip somewhere pretty just because I felt like it
– have a silent sender phase where money just… appears and I don’t ask questions
– accidentally ruin someones day bc they couldn’t stop lurking my pages 🤭
– have a sub that’s low maintenance but weirdly obsessed at the same time
– get one of those “I saw this and thought of you” surprise spoils consistently
– create a dynamic that feels more like a lifestyle than a kink
at this point I’m literally only missing the whale and it’s starting to feel personal
what’s on everyone else’s bucket list though? dommes and subs — I know y’all have some unhinged goals lurking 👀

I think the funniest part is that no one ever really knows how much I have going on

like to most people I’m just… put together, a little busy, always moving

but in reality I’m juggling a full course load finishing my bachelor’s, working two jobs, and somehow still showing up looking like I had time to breathe

it’s very “she’s calm but you have no idea what she’s balancing behind the scenes”

student

server

sonographer

and then… well I’m here haha ;P

I don’t feel overwhelmed though, I actually kind of thrive in it!! It’s kinda fun to have all these different “personas” for each aspect of my life!!

I like having layers, different versions of me depending on where I am

and I won’t lie… there’s something a little fun about knowing I’m doing all of this quietly while still looking soft and effortless on the outside

like it almost feels unfair.. it makes day to day less boring!! And I love to just yap here bc freaks make the best company lmao

anyway I’m curious—

dommes: do you like having that separation between your “real life” and your domme side, or do you blur it on purpose?

subs: is it more appealing when someone clearly has their own full life… or when you feel like you’re part of it?

Someone tell me something good!! I’m going to bed and those of you who garden or have adult gummies.. have/hit one for me pls!! Godspeed all ♡