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Late twenties F here. I joined the ABDL community in 2016 in what I would consider the “golden ABDL era.” I know, I know—most generations will say this about their own—but I noticed a true rise in activity online, loads of releases from clothing + diaper shops, and more community meetups offline than ever before (or at least being photographed that way).

I understand, and I’ve learned through others’ experiences, that growing up never gets easier, and no matter how much you try to claw back at the past, things will never be as they once were. I’m learning to accept that, but it doesn’t make it feel any less strange. I just feel a little… indifferent? Proud, but maybe envious, knowing some of the new babies will start off with Little Kings or Premium Nights as their first diaper, meanwhile my age group had to make do with Awww So Cutes or even worse… Crinklz (jokey-joke).

It’s just wild to me that I came into this only a decade ago and have seen so much progression in that time. I wonder what fast-tracked it. I remember a time where hardly anyone showed face—really only paid creators. Now Gen Z boldly showcases themselves and even parts of their personal lives publicly without fear of being found out, or even if they are… some simply just don’t care. It’s strange; I didn’t see this behavior 10 years ago. I am still considered Gen Z after all.

Anywho, I don’t think the newer babies understand just how much they’re living the dream. Anytime I see them in person at events, I have to remind them. They’re so fearless and funny, with all their silly original memes. They make roleplay feel so fun and natural outside of the expected Tumblr-esque story script. They don’t hesitate to reach out to each other. I notice they become FaceTime buddies quickly to verify identity and build trust, and even immerse themselves in their friends’ vanilla lives (when allowed), even hundreds of miles—or even countries—away.

Idk, this is a bit of a ramble, but it’s been interesting to once be part of the youngest group, then grow up and watch the new community come in. I hear (or read) ABDL “boomers” talk about being bound to magazines or newspaper ads back then, with online calls with a domme via phone sex at most. The ones I’ve talked to express a little jealousy: “If these kids knew how good they have it, being able to hop on Fet and meet someone who won’t flake only a few blocks away…”

They’re making history, and it never ceases to amaze me. (Keep going, zoomies!)

I’m happy about the progression in this community, but it feels like it’s only truly just beginning when you think about it. From new replica diaper releases (my favorite—Pampers replicas!) to functional ABDL clothing with authentic infant aesthetics and garment details, my head is spinning trying to keep up.

Crazy to think I’m not that freshly graduated 18-year-old waiting for every release to fill my closet with clothes that finally “felt like me” anymore. Now I wait for drops and cherry-pick items I deem vintage In appearance. *sigh* I see the signs of aging, and I too will become a withering master splitter someday 😔 lol.

All this to say: this community means the world to me, and I guess I’m blessed to age in it. What a wonderful world.