u/ChemistryNearby7803

Does anyone have any good tips on keeping potential sugar babies interested a future relationship when your roster is already full?

I’m very happy with my 2 SB’s right now, but I know these sugar relationships have a shelf life, particularly when there is a big age gap. If my current girls don’t work out long term, I don’t want to go back into the sugar sites and start from scratch.

Right now I have a good problem in which I have been texting with 3 other girls who are very attractive and seem down to meet. I probably have room financially to take care of 4 SBs at a time, but I just don’t have the time. I also don’t want to string these new women along with false promises, but I want to keep in touch in case I am looking for a new baby at some point in the future.

Give me your best advice.

Has anybody used a female condom with their girl? I’m asking because one of my babies doesn’t want to do it raw.

I’m older than dirt though, so using a male condom makes me take forever. I went 25 years of married life not using one, and now when I have to, it really subtracts from the pleasure.

I’m thinking that sliding in and out of the female condom would likely give me the sensation that I need, but I’m wondering if any of you guys have tried them?

I’ve been on Secret Benefits for about 5 months now. I’ve had meets with maybe 8 or 9 girls over that time and developed an intimate SB relationship with one of them. She’s very beautiful but I don’t see any real closeness developing. It’s clear she doesn’t want me to know much about her life outside of our little bubble. So, for that reason, I’m still looking for another girl who is willing to open her heart to me and not just her legs.

Here’s my issue: I get favorited by and messaged by a lot of very attractive girls, but when i favorite them back and respond to their initial message, they often never respond. My responses are usually short, friendly, maybe a little flirty (but not overly so), and usually conclude with a quick question to keep the conversation going. So many times I just get ghosted after this.

Does anybody have any advice on how to increase the response rate on messages? Or do other guys experience the same flakiness?