Secret Benefits messaging problem
I’ve been on Secret Benefits for about 5 months now. I’ve had meets with maybe 8 or 9 girls over that time and developed an intimate SB relationship with one of them. She’s very beautiful but I don’t see any real closeness developing. It’s clear she doesn’t want me to know much about her life outside of our little bubble. So, for that reason, I’m still looking for another girl who is willing to open her heart to me and not just her legs.
Here’s my issue: I get favorited by and messaged by a lot of very attractive girls, but when i favorite them back and respond to their initial message, they often never respond. My responses are usually short, friendly, maybe a little flirty (but not overly so), and usually conclude with a quick question to keep the conversation going. So many times I just get ghosted after this.
Does anybody have any advice on how to increase the response rate on messages? Or do other guys experience the same flakiness?