u/Competitive-Term-759

47 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Fit, respectful man seeking cute woman to please over and over (can host)

I genuinely love the simple pleasure of going down on a woman and making her feel amazing. I enjoy the taste, the texture, the sounds of a woman moaning, the building tension as she gets closer and closer to orgasm. If you enjoy a man who takes his time and pays attention, we’ll get along well.

I am Caucasian with brown eyes and short brown hair with some salt and pepper. Conventionally handsome face with a few days of stubble. I workout regularly and keep myself in pretty good shape. Outside the bedroom, I am grounded, intelligent, laid back, and easy to talk to. I enjoy live music, basketball, Formula 1, good dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

In the bedroom I typically have a dominant, rough, and primal energy, but for this my focus will be on taking my time and making you feel amazing.

I’m seeking women with a slim to average figure and have a preference for shaved, or neatly trimmed.

Safety and consent are very important to me. We will talk about boundaries and comfort levels beforehand and they will always be respected.

I live alone in SF (aside from a very friendly and cute dog) and can host in a clean, comfortable space where we can relax and take our time. Happy to grab a quick drink first to make sure the vibe is right.

If this sounds appealing, send a chat with your age, location, and a physical description. Include the code word “scuba” so I know you read the whole post.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 4 days ago

47 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Fit, grounded man seeking a fun, feminine woman for dates (and hopefully more)

Fun, chill, intelligent man looking for a a vibrant and cute younger woman for fun dates and real chemistry. Open to something more if it naturally builds.

If you've been looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here. 

About me:

College-educated, successful, and take good care of myself. Caucasian, brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper. Fit, active, and told I look younger than my age.

Grounded, easygoing, and fun to be around. I enjoy live music, Warriors games, Formula 1, hitting the gym, dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

There’s a masculine edge to me - not loud or domineering, but calm, confident, and intentional. I like a dynamic with some polarity, where I take the lead and where you feel comfortable being soft, playful, and feminine.

About you:

- Feminine, fun, and easy to talk to

- Fit/active and take care of yourself

- Enjoys a confident, masculine presence

- Values consistency and open communication

I am looking for something consistent and enjoyable with someone I genuinely like spending time with, and seeing where things go.

If this resonates, send a message with a bit about you (age, location, vibe) and include the words “good girl” so I know you’ve read this. Effort stands out. I don’t respond to “hey.”

u/Competitive-Term-759 — 4 days ago

[47/48][MF4F][San Francisco] Fit and kinky FWB looking for a good girl to join the fun (June 19-21)

Hi! We are Piper (48F) and J (47M) - fit, and kinky play partners with a D/s dynamic seeking a fit woman to join in our sexy excapades. J lives in San Francisco, and Piper comes to visit. (Next play date is June 19th-21st)

J is a Daddy Dom with a kind heart and a filthy mind. He will make you feel safe and cared for even when he’s being rough.

Piper is a submissive good girl with a huge praise kink who loves rough play and pleasing Daddy. She is bisexual and is eager to meet another good girl to play with and to please Daddy with.

Select couples will be considered. No single men.

Women 25+ and must be bisexual. Men 30+. Please be in the Bay Area, willing to travel, or within a 2’ish hour flight.

Please put some effort into your initial message. Include your ages, location, and a physical description or a photo (no face is okay to start) Let’s have some fun!

u/Competitive-Term-759 — 6 days ago

47 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Chill, respectful man seeking a good girl looking to become a deep throat queen

This is a call to all the cute, inexperienced, women who most people see as innocent, though you don’t want to be. You often fantasize about a dominant man taking the lead, having his way with you while you’re down on your knees. You haven’t found the right, comfortable, safe outlet for that, until now!

**About me:**

I am grounded, easygoing, and fun to be around. I enjoy live music, Warriors games, Formula 1, hitting the gym, dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

Physically, I am Caucasian, with brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper. Fit, active, and told I look younger than my age.

I have a dominant edge that is not loud or domineering, but calm, confident, and intentional. The kind of vibe where you feel comfortable and safe exploring your slutty side.

**About you:**

Cute, slim, fun, open minded, eager to learn. It doesn’t matter what your previous experience level is, I am happy to guide and to teach. I will provide a safe, comfortable, consensual environment for you to explore your desires and become the dirty little throat goddess you’ve been aching to be. (Or anything else you’ve been wanting to explore)

I’ve got a clean, comfortable place to myself (aside from a cute and friendly dog) where we can take our time.

Send me a chat with your age, location, a physical desription, and the code word “pickle” to show you read to the end.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 11 days ago

47 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Fit, respectful man seeking cute younger woman to please over and over (can host)

I genuinely love the simple pleasure of going down on a woman and making her feel amazing. I enjoy the taste, the texture, the sounds of a woman moaning, the building tension as she gets closer and closer to orgasm. If you enjoy a man who takes his time and pays attention, we’ll get along well.

I am Caucasian with brown eyes and short brown hair with some salt and pepper. Conventionally handsome face with a few days of stubble. I workout regularly and keep myself in pretty good shape. Outside the bedroom, I am grounded, intelligent, laid back, and easy to talk to. I enjoy live music, basketball, Formula 1, good dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

In the bedroom I typically have a dominant, rough, and primal energy, but for this my focus will be on taking my time and making you feel amazing.

I’m seeking women with a slim to average figure and have a preference for shaved, or neatly trimmed.

Safety and consent are very important to me. We will talk about boundaries and comfort levels beforehand and they will always be respected.

I live alone in SF (aside from a very friendly and cute dog) and can host in a clean, comfortable space where we can relax and take our time. Happy to grab a quick drink first to make sure the vibe is right.

If this sounds appealing, send a chat with your age, location, and a physical description. Include the code word “scuba” so I know you read the whole post.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 11 days ago

47 [M4F] #SFBayArea - Kind, confident, kinky man seeking a good girl who enjoys pleasing her Daddy

Handsome, fit, and fun 47 year old man, seeking a younger woman (24 - 34) to be my "good girl” and explore an age gap dynamic. If you're looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here.

About Me:

College educated, smart, successful, and adventurous. I've been told that I am attractive and I look younger than my age. I am Caucasian, with brown eyes, a full head of short brown hair, with some sexy salt and pepper. I take good care of my body and exercise regularly.

I'm a big music lover, and really enjoy going to live shows. Some of my other interests include basketball, Formula 1, working out, going on long walks, and playing with with my dog.

About You:

You are a smart, fun, slim, and pretty woman (24-34) who is looking for a kind but firm Daddy. Nothing makes you happier than when you are satisfying Daddy's needs and you love receiving praise and being called a good girl. You crave a man who will treat you with kindness and respect, and who inspires your devotion.

What I'm looking For:

I am in San Francisco, and would love to meet someone local but would be open to starting online and exploring D/s, DD/lg, or M/s dynamics. I value consistency, effort, and direct, open communication. Consent and safety are important to me. This will be a safe space for you to explore and talk about your kinks and desires. Prior experience is not necessary, as long as you're open and eager to learn!

Bonus points for: Glasses, tattoos extra petite, music lovers, dog lovers, nerds, bi-sexual

If you’re interested, please send me a chat request with your age, location, and physical description, and the code word “sparkles”!

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 11 days ago

[47/48][MF4F][San Francisco] Fit and kinky FWB looking for a good girl to join the fun (June 19-21)

Hi! We are Piper (48F) and J (47M) - fit, and kinky play partners with a D/s dynamic seeking a fit woman to join in our sexy excapades. J lives in San Francisco, and Piper comes to visit. (Next play date is June 19th-21st)

J is a Daddy Dom with a kind heart and a filthy mind. He will make you feel safe and cared for even when he’s being rough.

Piper is a submissive good girl with a huge praise kink who loves rough play and pleasing Daddy. She is bisexual and is eager to meet another good girl to play with and to please Daddy with.

Select couples will be considered. No single men. Please put some effort into your initial message. Let’s have some fun!

u/Competitive-Term-759 — 13 days ago

47 [M4F] #SFBayArea - Kind, confident, kinky man seeking a good girl who enjoys pleasing her Daddy

Handsome, fit, and fun 47 year old man, seeking a younger woman (24 - 34) to be my "good girl” and explore an age gap dynamic.

If you're been looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here.

About Me:

I am college educated, smart, successful, and adventurous. I've been told that I am attractive and I look younger than my age. I am Caucasian, with brown eyes, a full head of short brown hair, with some sexy salt and pepper. I take good care of my body and exercise regularly.

I'm a big music lover, and really enjoy going to live shows. Some of my other interests include basketball, Formula 1, working out, going on long walks, and playing with with my dog.

About You:

You are a smart, fun, slim, and pretty woman (24-34) who is looking for a kind but firm Daddy to obey. Nothing makes you happier than when you are satisfying Daddy's needs and you love receiving praise and being called a good girl. You crave a man who will treat you with kindness and respect, and who earns your submission.

What I'm looking For:

I am in San Francisco, and would love to meet someone local but would be open to starting online and exploring D/s, DD/lg, or M/s dynamics. I'd like to communicate daily, or near daily, but I am pretty busy with my career and hobbies so someone who needs constant attention may not be the right fit. In addition to chatting, I would enjoy giving you various tasks for you to fulfill. This would also be a safe space for us to explore and talk about our kinks. Prior experience in all these kinks is not necessary, as long as you're open and eager to learn!

Bonus points for: Glasses, tattoos extra petite, music lovers, dog lovers, nerds, bi-sexual

If you’re interested, please send me a chat request with your age, location, and physical description, and the code word “sparkles”!

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 15 days ago

This is a call to all the cute, inexperienced, women who most people see as innocent, though you don’t want to be. You often fantasize about a dominant man taking the lead, having his way with you while you’re down on your knees. You haven’t found the right, comfortable, safe outlet for that, until now!

About me:

I am grounded, easygoing, and fun to be around. I enjoy live music, Warriors games, Formula 1, hitting the gym, dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

Physically, I am Caucasian, with brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper. Fit, active, and told I look younger than my age.

I have a dominant edge that is not loud or domineering, but calm, confident, and intentional. The kind of vibe where you feel comfortable and safe exploring your slutty side.

About you:

Cute, slim, fun, open minded, eager to learn. It doesn’t matter what your previous experience level is, I am happy to guide and to teach. I will provide a safe, comfortable, consensual environment for you to explore your desires and become the dirty little throat goddess you’ve been aching to be. (Or anything else you’ve been wanting to explore)

I’ve got a clean, comfortable place to myself (aside from a cute and friendly dog) where we can take our time.

Send me a chat with your age, location, a physical desription, and the code word “pickle” to show you read to the end.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 18 days ago

Handsome, fit, and fun 47 year old man, seeking a younger woman (24 - 34) to be my "good girl” and explore a delicious age gap dynamic.

If you're been looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here.

About Me:

I am college educated, smart, successful, and adventurous. I've been told that I am attractive and I look younger than my age. I am Caucasian, with brown eyes, a full head of short brown hair, with some sexy salt and pepper. I take good care of my body and exercise regularly.

I'm a big music lover, and really enjoy going to live shows. Some of my other interests include basketball, Formula 1, working out, going on long walks, and playing with with my dog.

About You:

You are a smart, fun, slim, and pretty woman (24-34) who is looking for a kind but firm Daddy to obey. Nothing makes you happier than when you are satisfying Daddy's needs and you love receiving praise and being called a good girl. You crave a man who will treat you with kindness and respect, and who earns your submission.

What I'm looking For:

I am in San Francisco, and would love to meet someone local but would be open to starting online and exploring D/s, DD/lg, or M/s dynamics. I'd like to communicate daily, or near daily, but I am pretty busy with my career and hobbies so someone who needs constant attention may not be the right fit. In addition to chatting, I would enjoy giving you various tasks for you to fulfill. This would also be a safe space for us to explore and talk about our kinks. Prior experience in all these kinks is not necessary, as long as you're open and eager to learn!

Bonus points for: Glasses, tattoos extra petite, music lovers, dog lovers, nerds, bi-sexual

If you’re interested, please send me a chat request with your age, location, and physical description, and the code word “sparkles”!

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 18 days ago

I am a 47M in San Francisco looking for a submissive woman to build a consistent, ongoing dynamic, something that’s fun, exciting, and grounded in genuine chemistry.

I identify as a Daddy Dom with a calm, confident presence. My dominance isn’t loud or domineering. It’s steady, intentional, and rooted in care, safety, and trust. I enjoy guiding, leading, and creating a space where you can relax, let go, and be your most playful, feminine self.

If you are looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here.

I value consistency, open communication, respect and consent.

Outside of a dynamic, lead a full and active life: I work in tech, love live music, Warriors games, F1 weekends, staying fit, long walks with my dog, and good drinks in the right company.

Physically: Caucasian, brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper, fit, and told I’m easy on the eyes.

If this resonates, send your age, location, physical description, and one thing a man could do that would instantly make you melt.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 21 days ago

I am a 47M in San Francisco looking for a submissive woman to build a consistent, ongoing dynamic, something that’s fun, exciting, and grounded in genuine chemistry.

I identify as a Daddy Dom with a calm, confident presence. My dominance isn’t loud or domineering. It’s steady, intentional, and rooted in care, safety, and trust. I enjoy guiding, leading, and creating a space where you can relax, let go, and be your most playful, feminine self.

If you are looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here.

I value consistency, open communication, respect and consent.

Outside of the dynamic, lead a full and active life: I work in tech, love live music, Warriors games, F1 weekends, staying fit, long walks with my dog, and good drinks in the right company.

Physically: Caucasian, brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper, fit, and told I’m easy on the eyes.

https://imgur.com/a/JHeGt2I

Dynamic-wise, I’m drawn to:

- Ongoing D/s or M/s with rules, rituals, and structure, but not overly rigid

- DD/lg energy focused on protection, praise, warmth (not heavy age regression)

- A mix of rough and soft — praise and a bit of degradation in the right moments

You are a fun, fit woman who enjoys being submissive to a man who has earned it. You are the kind of woman who has her life together - smart, capable, independent - but enjoys letting a man take the lead when it feels right. There’s a softness there you don’t show everyone.

I’m looking for something consistent and real in the present. Fun dates, strong chemistry, and a dynamic we both look forward to.

If this resonates, send your age, location, physical description, and one thing a Dom could do that would instantly make you melt.

u/Competitive-Term-759 — 24 days ago

This is a call to all the cute, inexperienced, women who most people see as innocent, though you don’t want to be. You often fantasize about a dominant man taking the lead, having his way with you while you’re down on your knees. You haven’t found the right, comfortable, safe outlet for that, until now!

About me:

I identify as a Dom, but I’m just a normal, chill guy. Educated, grounded, easygoing, and fun to be around. I enjoy live music, Warriors games, Formula 1, hitting the gym, dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

Physically, I am Caucasian, with brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper. Fit, active, and told I look younger than my age.

My dominant side is not loud or domineering, but calm, confident, and intentional. The kind of vibe where you feel comfortable and safe exploring your slutty side.

About you:

Cute, slim, fun, open minded, eager to learn. It doesn’t matter what your previous experience level is, I am happy to guide and to teach. I will provide a safe, comfortable, consensual environment for you to explore your desires and become the dirty little throat goddess you’ve been aching to be. (Or anything else you’ve been wanting to explore)

I’ve got a clean, comfortable place to myself (aside from a cute and friendly dog) where we can take our time.

Send me a chat with your age, location, a physical desription, and the code word “pickle” to show you read to the end.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 25 days ago

I genuinely love the simple pleasure of going down on a woman and making her feel amazing. I enjoy the taste, the texture, the sounds of a woman moaning, the building tension as she gets closer and closer to orgasm. If you enjoy a man who takes his time and pays attention, we’ll get along well.

I am Caucasian with brown eyes and short brown hair with some salt and pepper. Conventionally handsome face with a few days of stubble. I workout regularly and keep myself in pretty good shape. Outside the bedroom, I am grounded, intelligent, laid back, and easy to talk to. I enjoy live music, basketball, Formula 1, good dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

In the bedroom I typically have a dominant, rough, and primal energy, but for this my focus will be on taking my time and making you feel amazing.

I’m seeking women with a slim to average figure and have a preference for shaved, or neatly trimmed.

Safety and consent are very important to me. We will talk about boundaries and comfort levels beforehand and they will always be respected.

I live alone in SF (aside from a very friendly and cute dog) and can host in a clean, comfortable space where we can relax and take our time. Happy to grab a quick drink first to make sure the vibe is right.

If this sounds appealing, send a chat with your age, location, and a physical description. Include the code word “scuba” so I know you read the whole post.

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u/Competitive-Term-759 — 25 days ago
▲ 5 r/AgeGapPersonals+2 crossposts

Successful, intelligent man looking for a consistent FWB for fun dates and real chemistry. Open to something more if it naturally builds.

If you've been looking for a man who plans things, follows through, and makes you feel genuinely taken care of, you’ll likely feel that here. 

About me:

College-educated, successful, and take good care of myself. Caucasian, brown eyes, short brown hair with some salt & pepper. Fit, active, and told I look younger than my age.

https://imgur.com/a/ms1jkEO

Grounded, easygoing, and fun to be around. I enjoy live music, Warriors games, Formula 1, hitting the gym, dive bars, and long walks around the city with my dog.

There’s a natural dominant edge to me - not loud or domineering, but calm, confident, and intentional. I like a dynamic with some polarity, where I take the lead and where you feel comfortable being soft, playful, and feminine.

I have a nice, comfortable apartment to myself, and am happy to host. 

About you:

- Feminine, fun, and easy to talk to

- Takes care of yourself (fit/active)

- Enjoys a confident, masculine presence

- Values consistency and open communication

- Local to SF or close enough to meet regularly

- Sexually adventurous, attentive, and submissive

I am looking for something consistent and enjoyable with someone I genuinely like spending time with, not just physical, but good conversation and energy too.

Not looking to rush into anything serious, but open to more if it naturally develops.

If this resonates, send a message with a bit about you (age, location, vibe) and include the words “good girl” so I know you’ve read this. Effort stands out. I don’t respond to “hey.”

u/Competitive-Term-759 — 7 days ago