u/Competitive_Buy896

Thinking about inserting a fleshlight inside the ass of my sub and pegging him, but don't know what kind of fleshlight would be "better" to use.
I'm a bit wary about using a dildo after being inserted in the ass, could it push the fleshlight deep inside ?
I've seen some that are "mini" fleshlights measuring 12.5cm long and some average ones starting from 15cm long.

Has anyone tried this before?
Any tips to insert it, recommendations on brands, material, size and toy, or any thoughts, I'm all ears

Thinking about inserting a fleshlight inside the ass of my sub and pegging him, but don't know what kind of fleshlight would be "better" to use.
I'm a bit wary about using a dildo after being inserted in the ass, could it push the fleshlight deep inside ?
I've seen some that are "mini" fleshlights measuring 12.5cm long and some average ones starting from 15cm long.

Has anyone tried this before?
Any tips to insert it, recommendations on brands, material, size and toy, or any thoughts, I'm all ears

Recently I saw in this community the idea of using a fleshlight inside the ass and would love to try it out, not only for the way it looks, but also to be able to use it with a dildo.
I don't know what to choose in terms of size or material.

Also I'm a bit wary about using a dildo after being inserted in the ass, could it push the fleshlight deep inside ?
I've seen some that are "mini" fleshlights measuring 12.5cm long and some average ones starting from 15cm long.

Any tips to insert it, recommendations on brands, material, size and toy, or any thoughts, I'm all ears

Hi everyone, I’m fairly new to being a Domme and I’d love to bring more humiliation and exhibitionism (exposing him in subtle but thrilling ways) into our dynamic.

We started because of his strong nylon and stockings fetish. What began as a playful dare (him wearing them for me) quickly evolved into a proper Domme/sub relationship. I’ve been progressively feminizing him: stockings → my panties, then his own collection → garter belt, bras, laced bodysuits, full-body suits, heels, long-nail gloves, and lipstick.

Recently he admitted he was curious about wearing one of my dresses, so I made him edge and masturbate in it. It was incredibly hot. I also have a recurring fantasy of being fucked by a princess, so I told him he’ll only get access to my pussy if he’s dressed in a full pink, frilly princess outfit. That’s been a very effective tease.

So far the only public play we’ve done is him wearing panties and stockings under his normal clothes. A few times while shopping I’ve openly measured lingerie on him or asked saleswomen what size would fit “my sub.” I absolutely love how nervous and flustered he gets when I do things like that.

I’m not interested in taking it to full public crossdressing (dress, makeup, heels, wig, etc.) because we’re not 24/7. But I do want to expose and humiliate him more creatively.

My questions:

• Any tips or ideas for incorporating humiliation into the dynamic? I’ve never really done it before and want to do it right.
• How can I add more exhibitionism / exposure play while staying relatively safe and discreet?

Bonus question:
I’ve been reflecting lately — am I doing all this feminization because I genuinely love seeing men in feminine clothes, or is it mostly because it’s him, and I love how much he enjoys being pushed, dared, and used to please his Mistress? Has anyone else questioned their motivations like this?

Thanks in advance! Looking forward to your experiences and suggestions

I never thought I would be telling my partner what to wear, not even buying him feminine lingerie. It all started with his nylon fetish. Using stockings to caress his body, specially his balls. Then, as always, making an object "only for women" made him curious to wear them, feel them, being in them.

When we meet he told me about this fetish and maybe the curiosity of pushing it further. So we did, and everytime in a daring and domme dynamic, which I also started exploring with him. He started using my panties, then I bought his own, garter-belt and more stockings, bra, lace bodies, full body suits, heels, gloves with long nails, even some make up. And yesterday he wore one of my dresses, and even if it didn't close on the back, he still had it on while masturbating.

I do like him wearing feminine sexy lingerie, specially if it's mine. For a while I have been having this fantasy of wanting to dress him as a princess, all in pink, even a wig and domming him like that, pleasing me with that outfit.

I would love some more ideas on how could this evolve, how could I push this play, and him, further. Any suggestion on toys, clothing, activities, etc. anything is welcome here :)