u/Confident_Public5309

40 M4F Anywhere Austin. I have a fantasy on my bucket list.

Im married and have never cheated but I’ve never had the opportunity to give anal. She’s just not into it one bit. I’m hoping to meet a woman(all types-a woman is a woman) that would that be interested in helping me fulfill this fantasy and doing it discreetly. We can potentially have an ongoing FWB thing as well 🙂

If you’re interested please don’t be shy! Reach out to me on here or tele @itbelikethatsometimes8 or even sc Austex85

😘

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 5 days ago

40 [M4F] #Austin - Do you miss being needed, wanted, desired, praised, and pleased?

Married dad in a dead-bedroom situation looking to reconnect with passion, desire, and genuine chemistry that’s been missing for a long time.
My home life is stable, we coparent well, and I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s world or change my situation — just seeking connection, excitement, and mutual satisfaction between consenting adults who value discretion and honesty.

I’m very giving, attentive, and take a lot of pride in making my partner feel wanted, comfortable, and thoroughly appreciated. Especially skilled orally, enthusiastic about pleasing, and attracted to confident, feminine energy in all forms.

Not here for drama, games, or fake bravado. I respect boundaries, communication, privacy, and chemistry above all else. Looking for someone who misses being desired as much as I miss desiring someone.

If you’ve made it this far, shoot me a message on here or Snap: austex85

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 7 days ago

40 M4F South ATX - Is there a real woman in this group?

40 M4F South Austin- Are there actually women in this group?

Married dad in a long-term dead bedroom situation, missing the feeling of being wanted and desired. I’m not looking to change anyone’s life or create drama — just genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and honest connection.

Open-minded and attracted to all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. I value discretion, communication, and respecting the fact that we both have real lives outside of this.

I’ve been told my oral skills are far too good to be going to waste, and I definitely enjoy making a woman feel appreciated and satisfied. No pressure, no strings required — though ongoing fun with the right person is absolutely welcome.

If you’re craving attention, affection, laughs, and someone who knows how to listen and please, let’s chat and see if we vibe.

Here’s my ghost name if you’d rather chat there austex85

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 12 days ago

M4F South Austin- Are there any actual women in this group?

40-year-old married dad in a long-term dead bedroom situation, missing the feeling of being wanted and desired. I’m not looking to change anyone’s life or create drama — just genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and honest connection.

Open-minded and attracted to all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. I value discretion, communication, and respecting the fact that we both have real lives outside of this.

I’ve been told my oral skills are far too good to be going to waste, and I definitely enjoy making a woman feel appreciated and satisfied. No pressure, no strings required — though ongoing fun with the right person is absolutely welcome.

If you’re craving attention, affection, laughs, and someone who knows how to listen and please, let’s chat and see if we vibe.

Here’s my 👻 if you’d rather chat there: austex85

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 12 days ago

[M4F] 40 #Austin - Are there any real women in this group? DM or Snap me 🙂

40-year-old married dad in a long-term dead bedroom situation, missing the feeling of being wanted and desired. I’m not looking to change anyone’s life or create drama — just genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and honest connection.

Open-minded and attracted to all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. I value discretion, communication, and respecting the fact that we both have real lives outside of this.

I’ve been told my oral skills are far too good to be going to waste, and I definitely enjoy making a woman feel appreciated and satisfied. No pressure, no strings required — though ongoing fun with the right person is absolutely welcome.

If you’re craving attention, affection, laughs, and someone who knows how to listen and please, let’s chat and see if we vibe.

Here’s my Snap if you’d rather chat there: austex85

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 12 days ago

40 [M4F] #Austin I miss being needed and desired. Do you too? Let me desire and need you.

40-year-old married dad in a long-term dead bedroom situation, missing the feeling of being wanted and desired. I’m not looking to change anyone’s life or create drama — just genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and honest connection.

Open-minded and attracted to all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. I value discretion, communication, and respecting the fact that we both have real lives outside of this.

I’ve been told my oral skills are far too good to be going to waste, and I definitely enjoy making a woman feel appreciated and satisfied. No pressure, no strings required — though ongoing fun with the right person is absolutely welcome.

If you’re craving attention, affection, laughs, and someone who knows how to listen and please, let’s chat and see if we vibe.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 15 days ago

[M4F] 40 - #Austin - In search of being desired and needed. Let me desire and need you.

40-year-old married dad in a long-term dead bedroom situation, missing the feeling of being wanted and desired. I’m not looking to change anyone’s life or create drama — just genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and honest connection.

Open-minded and attracted to all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. I value discretion, communication, and respecting the fact that we both have real lives outside of this.

I’ve been told my oral skills are far too good to be going to waste, and I definitely enjoy making a woman feel appreciated and satisfied. No pressure, no strings required — though ongoing fun with the right person is absolutely welcome.

If you’re craving attention, affection, laughs, and someone who knows how to listen and please, let’s chat and see if we vibe.

Snap: austex85

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 15 days ago

[M4F] Austin - Do you miss feeling desired and needed like I do?

40-year-old married dad in a long-term dead bedroom situation, missing the feeling of being wanted and desired. I’m not looking to change anyone’s life or create drama — just genuine chemistry, mutual attraction, and honest connection.

Open-minded and attracted to all shapes, sizes, races, and backgrounds. I value discretion, communication, and respecting the fact that we both have real lives outside of this.

I’ve been told my oral skills are far too good to be going to waste, and I definitely enjoy making a woman feel appreciated and satisfied. No pressure, no strings required — though ongoing fun with the right person is absolutely welcome.

If you’re craving attention, affection, laughs, and someone who knows how to listen and please, let’s chat and see if we vibe.

Snap: austex85

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 15 days ago

I know I do.
40, married dad. Not looking to change my current status/life. I miss affection. I miss being wanted. My oral skills are just withering away and not being used. I’m DDF and respect complete discretion. Let’s light a passionate adult fire.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 17 days ago

I know I do.
40 Austin, dad. Not looking to change my current status/life. I miss affection. I miss being wanted. My oral skills are just withering away and not being used. I’m DDF and respect complete discretion. Let’s light a passionate adult fire.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 17 days ago

I’m unseen, no affection shown to me, 100% dead bedroom. My desire to please is going unused.

I’m 40, 6’3, white, tattoos, dad bod, short and beard. I would love to chat and see where things go.

With that being said, I don’t do drama. I respect discretion. As far as I’m concerned, what I do in my spare time with another consenting adult is no ones business.

For the record I’m also drug and disease free.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 24 days ago

Probably the same reason I wrote this. You’re in a dead bedroom relationship. You’re not feeling special. Needs aren’t being met. You want to be pleased. You want to feel like you’re being wanted. Your partner doesn’t make you feel attractive. You’re in the same boat that I am.

I respect discretion, and no drama here.

If you’re still reading…

I’m 6’3, white, have a dad bod, tattoos, short/clean beard.

Let’s have a chat and see if we click.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 24 days ago

Im an open book and have nothing to hide other than my face on here because of work.

I’m married. I’m unseen, no affection shown to me, 100% dead bedroom. We get along great but were roommates raising a kid. All flames have burnt out and I can’t leave because I love my kid.

My desire to please a woman isn’t being wanted, used or appreciated. Im a huge fan of pleasing orally. I’m not even looking for reciprocation unless you’re up for it.

With that being said, I don’t do drama. I respect discretion. As far as I’m concerned, what I do in my spare time with another consenting adult is no ones business.

For the record I’m also drug and disease free.

I’m 40, white, 6’3. I have a dad bod with short clean beard and full head of hair.

I do not have a “type”. I find beauty in all women.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 26 days ago

Im an open book and have nothing to hide other than my face on here because of work.

I’m married. I’m unseen, no affection shown to me, 100% dead bedroom. We get along great but were roommates raising a kid. All flames have burnt out and I can’t leave because I love my kid.

My desire to please a woman isn’t being wanted, used or appreciated. Im a huge fan of pleasing orally. I’m not even looking for reciprocation unless you’re up for it.

With that being said, I don’t do drama. I respect discretion. As far as I’m concerned, what I do in my spare time with another consenting adult is no ones business.

For the record I’m also drug and disease free.

I’m 6’3. I have a dad bod with short clean beard and full head of hair.

I do not have a “type”. I find beauty in all women.

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u/Confident_Public5309 — 27 days ago