
u/CountessBathory79

Value yourself
I need to remind myself of this too. Value yourself. When you do you'll attract people that value you too. Regardless if you are a dancer, OF model, escort or any kind of sex worker, even when it's purely transactional, that has a priceless value. People are willing to spend money on things that have little lasting value at all, so don't ever undersell yourself just because a a loud crowd demands free or cheap. Those are the kind of people that don't see any value when they look at themselves in the mirror. Happy Monday 😘
So much fun!
I’m a little drunk and high lol so I’ll probably remove this when I wake up but I had too much fun tonight! it’s been a while since I’ve done this 🤪🖤
Suburban mentality...
I live in a wealthy suburb with a population of over 30k just about an hour and a half west of Chicago. I'm tied to the area for another 7 to 8 years due to my work, kids and what not but are counting down the days where I can move somewhere that isn't so closed and small minded when it comes to sex. Don't get me wrong, there's people around here that are part of certain groups (swingers, BDSM, Hotwife and so on) but it's all treated like some kind of secret society, as if you are part of some satanic cult. Being ethically non monogamous is frowned upon around here, enough to warrant being shunned like in an amish community, yet infidelity and cheating (which is prevalent also in the area) is apparently just part of life.
Someone my husband knows recently found out about us enjoying the Hotwife lifestyle. The reaction was as if we killed babies, burned churches and killed kittens in our spare time.
You'd think that being somewhat in proximity to a big city it wouldn't be this bad, or maybe I'm just noticing it more? Anyway besides my rant, who else experiences where they live? And if you don't I'd love to know anywhere in the USA that is more openminded to sex in general.
It was his idea...
It was my husbands idea that I try being a Hotwife. I didn't want to at first and only did it because it was a fantasy of his. Now he's complaining I enjoy it too much and he's going to have to deal with it because I'm not going back and I enjoy way too much making him my cuck 😜 As they say, be careful what you wish for...