u/Current_Day0815

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that :P

I will keep this ad somewhat (hard emphasis on the somewhat) compact in an effort to make it easier for you to see if me might initially match or not but would be very open to just talk or answer questions if you got any. So feel free to reach out if you are not quite sure or want to clear some things up first.

But lets get on with the important stuff: Basically I am looking for an IRL partner who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in and out of the bedroom (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

SFW:

I am a 28 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a few years now and already lost 50Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that. I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say so if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (really anything but MOBAs and Battle Royals these days), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and really get enjoyment out of taking time to prepare food that tastes great. I would also like to do more "outside" stuff in general, that does not boil down to hearing painfully loud music, with too many people around, while getting drunk (all three not really my thing) but don't really want to do that alone so... you know... let's do it together :D

Also a couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

NSFW:

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch, though i rarely feel dominant at all in an online setting. A large part of the appeal of the dominant side for me is that my partner feels safe and they can let their guard down around me, though i definitely also enjoy the taking control aspect, once in a while, just not all the time.

The submissive side is what i enjoy more often, especially in the bedroom but to a smaller extend also outside of it (i still think a partnership should be on eyelevel, but letting kink bleed into "normal life" can also be fun to an extend). Being able to give someone pleasure and making them feel good and valued is probably my biggest turn on anyway and if you combine that with a power structure both of us agree on and introduce other kinks into it, it makes for a perfect blend of fun, trust and control (or giving that up) that i really enjoy.

Regarding specific kinks, I am very open and can draw enjoyment and fun out of almost anything, be that soft and harder, not found in the limits below. I am relatively inexperienced actually doing kinky stuff IRL but have done a load of reading and research into the topic beyond "watching porn". I am big about consent, safety and mutual enjoyment and the things I did try so far I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. Besides that there is also an even longer list of things i would like to try out. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Mutilation, Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage (bruises and scratches are definitely okay though)

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

I want my partner to be my favorite person and my best friend, realize how tacky that sounds but still believe that it can work. The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in. The "becoming friends" part is really important to me here and connections that did not focus on that enough or tried to rush through that phase exclusively fizzled out in the past. I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

So i think that concludes my "application" or my TED Talk or however you call these things and i hope i could somewhat convince you to reach out.

If that is the case feel free to just send me a chat message telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.

Disclaimer (because the past has shown it is necessary): Climate change is real, the earth is not flat, vaccines work and decades of scientific research are worth more than something you read on Facebook.