u/Daddy-Mike-4u

Ok, here goes….I have tried, I have tried to find just the “flavor of the day” or the play partner of the week and while I have had more than my fair share of success it just isn’t me….

Full transparency, I lost my partner a few years back to a heart defect. I have mourned, I have yelled, I have bargained with the powers that be and nothing….

It is time, I am ready for, and desperately miss having someone, knowing that person better than they know themselves, the moments most take for granted, I need that!

Now, I am a Dom, have been since before I knew what a Dom was. So yes, I am wired a bit differently than maybe most guys on here BUT I also think that part of me gives me a lot to offer that maybe some one may want (masculine, old fashioned, I know what side of the side walk to walk on, you won’t ever touch a door handle or pick up a check and on and on)

So yeah, I tried being Mr. Cool guy, it didn’t fit. I want what I want and am hoping (even though it is the longest of long shots) to find that ONE…

Ok now the stats:

47, built, very broad shoulders and chest, veiny arms, bearded (not Santa Clause), 6’2”, 240 pounds, wicked sense of humor and have lived enough to have the scars to show for a misspent youth and adult hood that took me awhile to figure out….

Anyways, there it is and hope this works….

Ok, here goes….I have tried, I have tried to find just the “flavor of the day” or the play partner of the week and while I have had more than my fair share of success it just isn’t me….

I NEED my someone (full transparency I actually found that on here last August and completely screwed it up, like royally screwed it up and kick myself every day for that). I am tired of the same old chit chat small talk what is your favorite food conversations. I want someone who has some depth, a sense of humor, who wants to enjoy the world around them and participate in life…I am at the point in life where I am done wasting time, trying to make a square leg fit a round hole etc.

Me:

Dom (won’t change, have been wired this way since before I knew what that even meant and isn’t going to change).

Traditional, I open doors, pay the bill, walk on the “right side” of the sidewalk etc.

Driven, I know what I want, won’t settle and don’t know how to “throw in the towel”

I will challenge you, I won’t blindly agree, I will push limits and boundaries, I won’t “give in”, I will be there (learned how important that is after maybe forgetting for awhile).

I am not a soft man, if you want one of those I am sure there are plenty around. I am the man who will drag you into a dressing room while shopping, who will make you squirm sitting in a booth at a restaurant, who will wake you up in the middle of the night because he has to have you right then, I will adjust your attitude if need be on the spot, will be your biggest fan, will put you first, will earn and not expect your submission and affection…..

I am not looking for online or long distance or whatever else doesn’t involve us being in the same place at the same time.

Ok now the stats:

47, built, very broad shoulders and chest, veiny arms, bearded (not Santa Clause), 6’2”, 240 pounds, wicked sense of humor and have lived enough to have the scars to show for a misspent youth and adult hood that took me awhile to figure out….

Anyways, there it is and hope this works….

Ok, here goes….I have tried, I have tried to find just the “flavor of the day” or the play partner of the week and while I have had more than my fair share of success it just isn’t me….

I NEED my someone (full transparency I actually found that on here last August and completely screwed it up, like royally screwed it up and kick myself every day for that). I am tired of the same old chit chat small talk what is your favorite food conversations. I want someone who has some depth, a sense of humor, who wants to enjoy the world around them and participate in life…I am at the point in life where I am done wasting time, trying to make a square leg fit a round hole etc.

Me:

Dom (won’t change, have been wired this way since before I knew what that even meant and isn’t going to change).

Traditional, I open doors, pay the bill, walk on the “right side” of the sidewalk etc.

Driven, I know what I want, won’t settle and don’t know how to “throw in the towel”

I will challenge you, I won’t blindly agree, I will push limits and boundaries, I won’t “give in”, I will be there (learned how important that is after maybe forgetting for awhile).

I am not a soft man, if you want one of those I am sure there are plenty around. I am the man who will drag you into a dressing room while shopping, who will make you squirm sitting in a booth at a restaurant, who will wake you up in the middle of the night because he has to have you right then, I will adjust your attitude if need be on the spot, will be your biggest fan, will put you first, will earn and not expect your submission and affection…..

I am not looking for online or long distance or whatever else doesn’t involve us being in the same place at the same time.

Ok now the stats:

47, built, very broad shoulders and chest, veiny arms, bearded (not Santa Clause), 6’2”, 240 pounds, wicked sense of humor and have lived enough to have the scars to show for a misspent youth and adult hood that took me awhile to figure out….

Anyways, there it is and hope this works….

Ok, here goes….I have tried, I have tried to find just the “flavor of the day” or the play partner of the week and while I have had more than my fair share of success it just isn’t me….

I NEED my someone (full transparency I actually found that on here last August and completely screwed it up, like royally screwed it up and kick myself every day for that). I am tired of the same old chit chat small talk what is your favorite food conversations. I want someone who has some depth, a sense of humor, who wants to enjoy the world around them and participate in life…I am at the point in life where I am done wasting time, trying to make a square leg fit a round hole etc.

Me:

Dom (won’t change, have been wired this way since before I knew what that even meant and isn’t going to change).

Traditional, I open doors, pay the bill, walk on the “right side” of the sidewalk etc.

Driven, I know what I want, won’t settle and don’t know how to “throw in the towel”

I will challenge you, I won’t blindly agree, I will push limits and boundaries, I won’t “give in”, I will be there (learned how important that is after maybe forgetting for awhile).

I am not a soft man, if you want one of those I am sure there are plenty around. I am the man who will drag you into a dressing room while shopping, who will make you squirm sitting in a booth at a restaurant, who will wake you up in the middle of the night because he has to have you right then, I will adjust your attitude if need be on the spot, will be your biggest fan, will put you first, will earn and not expect your submission and affection…..

I am not looking for online or long distance or whatever else doesn’t involve us being in the same place at the same time.

Ok now the stats:

47, built, very broad shoulders and chest, veiny arms, bearded (not Santa Clause), 6’2”, 240 pounds, wicked sense of humor and have lived enough to have the scars to show for a misspent youth and adult hood that took me awhile to figure out….

Anyways, there it is and hope this works….

Ok, here goes….I have tried, I have tried to find just the “flavor of the day” or the play partner of the week and while I have had more than my fair share of success it just isn’t me….

I NEED my someone (full transparency I actually found that on here last August and completely screwed it up, like royally screwed it up and kick myself every day for that). I am tired of the same old chit chat small talk what is your favorite food conversations. I want someone who has some depth, a sense of humor, who wants to enjoy the world around them and participate in life…I am at the point in life where I am done wasting time, trying to make a square leg fit a round hole etc.

Me:

Dom (won’t change, have been wired this way since before I knew what that even meant and isn’t going to change).

Traditional, I open doors, pay the bill, walk on the “right side” of the sidewalk etc.

Driven, I know what I want, won’t settle and don’t know how to “throw in the towel”

I will challenge you, I won’t blindly agree, I will push limits and boundaries, I won’t “give in”, I will be there (learned how important that is after maybe forgetting for awhile).

I am not a soft man, if you want one of those I am sure there are plenty around. I am the man who will drag you into a dressing room while shopping, who will make you squirm sitting in a booth at a restaurant, who will wake you up in the middle of the night because he has to have you right then, I will adjust your attitude if need be on the spot, will be your biggest fan, will put you first, will earn and not expect your submission and affection…..

I am not looking for online or long distance or whatever else doesn’t involve us being in the same place at the same time.

Ok now the stats:

47, built, very broad shoulders and chest, veiny arms, bearded (not Santa Clause), 6’2”, 240 pounds, wicked sense of humor and have lived enough to have the scars to show for a misspent youth and adult hood that took me awhile to figure out….

Anyways, there it is and hope this works….