u/DrewSonoma

I know that monogamy fills the hopeless romantic side of me … but the reality is that over time and experience, I have come to the conclusion that maybe it’s just not realistic or natural.

Can ONE person meet ALL of another person’s needs, wants and desires ALL of the time FOREVER, or is this expectation unrealistic an a setup for disappointment, dissatisfaction and ultimately failure?

This is something that has been on my mind a lot. Does anyone else find it all a bit of a struggle?

I am finding myself here looking to connect and chat … open to most topics… some laughs… sarcasm…share movies or tv shows… guilty pleasure subreddits…not sure…I’m open and easy :) just be nice… “normal” but want to escape a bit too I guess.

I’m married… professional… open minded, adventurous, yet pretty normal… discrete and respectful.

If you are in a similar mood/situation… DM me and tell me a bit about yourself and your favorite guilty pleasure subreddit :)

I’m not looking for us to drown in our sorrows over it but can discuss from time to time and be there for each other, but mostly help each other escape reality a bit together and enjoy each other and give each other what we both want, need and desire.

Me: Professional, sarcastic, very sexual and open minded, curious and adventurous, yet very normal…Patient, caring, loving, discreet, respectful. I love my family and friends and am a nice guy so the fact that I am posting this seems a bit incongruent.

Exactly what I’m looking for… I’m not exactly sure yet, but open to find out.

I do know that I want this to be low pressure, not a drain for either of us…we deal with that enough in our daily lives. We both are patient and understand the demands of work and family and life so won’t be upset if we can’t always communicate when we are both not free or super busy. We will savor the time we do have together and be a source of fun, escape, pleasure, excitement, joy and understanding.

Well… I have just rambled and not sure any of this makes sense but if you somehow can relate and may be looking for something similar… send me a DM and tell me a little bit about yourself and let’s see where it goes.

Oh… the obligatory “not looking to change your situation or mine…etc” disclaimer but actually AM hoping we can bring some positivity, fun, pleasure, happiness and respite into each other’s lives :)

How often have you found that it’s truly a sign of the lifestyle vs just jewelry?

Do you compliment the anklet or ask if there is a story or meaning behind it?

I know that monogamy fills the hopeless romantic side of me … but the reality is that over time and experience, I have come to the conclusion that maybe it’s just not realistic or natural.

Can ONE person meet ALL of another person’s needs, wants and desires ALL of the time FOREVER, or is this expectation unrealistic an a setup for disappointment, dissatisfaction and ultimately failure?

This is something that has been on my mind a lot. Does anyone else find it all a bit of a struggle?

I know that monogamy fills the hopeless romantic side of me … but the reality is that over time and experience, I have come to the conclusion that maybe it’s just not realistic or natural.

Can ONE person meet ALL of another person’s needs, wants and desires ALL of the time FOREVER, or is this expectation unrealistic an a setup for disappointment, dissatisfaction and ultimately failure?

This is something that has been on my mind a lot. Does anyone else find it all a bit of a struggle?