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I know that I can’t complain based off of how some other couples lack intimacy but I may have figured out the secret to more blow jobs from my wife. She somewhat regularly gives them to me, maybe 2-3 a month, but she has made some comments about how long I last during them. On average, it takes me anywhere from 20-45 minutes to cum during a blow job and she has said that if I came faster that she would be able to do them more often.

I brought up trying a morning BJ thinking that my morning wood might be a chance to change it up. This morning she gave it a try and within 5 minutes I was cumming into her mouth, much to her delight. When I was done, she was pleasantly surprised with how quick I was and told me that she could see herself doing it daily if I could continue cumming that quick. A deal I would happily make

My wife bought an anal training kit with the intention of getting her ass ready for comfortable anal. I was more than happy to help with this process but I think I was going too slow in her progressions. Ass play was not something we did a bunch of for years and I didnt want to get too excited and give her a bad experience.

I started with a lot of my tongue at first and slowly introduced a lubed finger. After a few weeks of that, I gradually introduced the four sizes of plugs in the kit. But I would stay at the same sizes for too long. It was a lot of fun for both of us but we have yet to make the move to my dick. Her body had responded well and she had a nice little gape going. But life got in the way and we stopped working her ass all together.

We are ready to start up again but she told me to not be so timid this time around and that she can handle moving up the sizes a little faster. I still don’t want to rush her but we will be getting her ass ready much quicker this time around.

Early this morning I was awoken by the most vivid sex dream I have had in a long time and it left me incredibly turned on. After gently kissing and touching my wife until she woke up, I began to tell her about my dream. By the time I got to the scene of her and I in a bathtub joined by a mysterious woman, she was quite engaged in my dream. When I described how I had both women on either side of me, fingering each of their pussies, she was ready to fuck. We both slept well after that

My wife and I have been together for 18 years and our sex life has had its ups and downs over the years and a pattern has began to emerge. Due to work schedules, social responsibilities, and mostly her health challenges we have stretches where sex doesn’t really match up. Because her health is my priority, I don’t pressure her and has to be careful about initiating any sex because it makes her guilty about having to turn me
Down. I’ve learned to read the room pretty well and she is great at giving what intimacy she feels comfortable with so I don’t go too long without.

But after sex continues to elude us, we both feel the need arise, the frustration build,
And the stars align when sex is both necessary and an option. I have today off of work, she is having a good health day, we have been flirting and touching all day,
And the evening is all ours. And the sex that breaks these streaks tends to be more eventful than our regular routine when the sex is more frequent.

She has already hinted at a few toys she is curious to break out, letting me record
Some, and wanting me to be a little rougher with her. And when we have a night like this,
It typically leads to a better stretch, health permitting.

Was it fireworks at the jump or did you develop your sexual chemistry?

My wife and I had our first date seeing a midnight showing of High School Musical and we went back to our respective dorm rooms and had our first sexting session. It went pretty well at first but then I scared her off and went way too dirty for her. That’s
When I discovered I had met a good little girl. Over the years she has opened up quite a bit and grown from that shy vanilla girl

Although she doesn’t have much to tell, I thought I had heard all about my wife’s previous sexual experiences but apparently she has selective amnesia. We have been together 18 years, so these past experiences don’t come up often but yesterday a scenario came up where I decided to ask about some specifics.

She started with “I don’t think you want to hear about this” and went on to share some details that she had either glossed over or just remembered. She saw I was enjoying hearing about them and she was enjoying thinking about them again. Once we got home, she was all over me like a feral cat in heat. I am thinking one is related to the other and I’m not complaining.

How often are you and your partner breaking out something new or different in bed? When you do, who is initiating and is it discussed before hand?

Over the years my wife and I have tried new positions, different sex acts, or introduced new toys plenty but as of recently we have been sticking to the tried and true things we like. Nothing wrong with that, we are efficient and very good at what we like and neither of us are bored.

But after seeing a video on Reddit of a couple trying something new, being silly about it and laughing together at the attempt it made me want to bring it up again. I don’t have anything specific in mind I want to try but my wife agreed that we have let too much time past since we tried something new and she is up for whatever I want to try tonight. Now I have to think about what my…heart… wants.

How often are you and your spouse breaking out something new or different in bed? When you do, who is initiating and is it discussed before hand?

Over the years my wife and I have tried new positions, different sex acts, or introduced new toys plenty but as of recently we have been sticking to the tried and true things we like. Nothing wrong with that, we are efficient and very good at what we like and neither of us are bored.

But after seeing a video on Reddit of a couple trying something new, being silly about it and laughing together at the attempt it made me want to bring it up again. I don’t have anything specific in mind I want to try but my wife agreed that we have let too much time past since we tried something new and she is up for whatever I want to try tonight. Now I have to think about what my…heart… wants.

Not complaining or bragging but acknowledging a reality that passed my mind today. Due to a physical disability that my wife was born with we have had to adapt quite a bit of our sex life. It hasn’t been a huge deal but it has had its impacts.

But a nice result of it has been plenty of practice for my wife’s “skills”. When she isn’t feeling up to sex, she makes a huge effort to making sure my needs are met and she offers plenty of blow jobs and hand jobs. I’ve noticed that she has always put forth the effort to make them memorable and she has gotten quite good at them. She makes sure that I don’t miss her pussy too often.

My wife and I have been discussing inviting another man to join us and she has been responding very positively to it. While looking through Pornhub together the other night we came across a video I thought she would respond well to. A husband and wife had a man join them and as he was fucking the wife from behind, the husband laid on the bed under his wife and they had a several minute long, passionate make out session.

The intimacy combined with the sensuality and raw energy of getting fucked has stayed with her. Two nights in a row now it has been brought up in our foreplay as something she wants to try. She has started to include names of men we know to have fuck
Her as we share the moment together.

It’s been a rough stretch for my wife and I from an intimacy standpoint due to some ongoing health challenges that she has been facing. It’s taken a toll on both of us and neither one of us are happy with where things stand but we have tried to remain supportive of one another. Over the past 90 days she has only been able to handle a little bit of physical intimacy but she is starting to feel up to more.

This morning before I left for work she sent me a few kink related reels that were heavy on choking, spanking, and submission. Right as I walked out the door she came as close as she could to me, told me she was going to miss me, and grabbed my hand to place on her neck. With a smirk, wink, and a kiss goodbye she left me to think about it for 8 hours. Hopefully she continues to have a good day and we can reconnect to end our streak.

This morning we woke up to a message out of the blue from a friend of hers that she hasn’t heard from in over a month. We recently relocated to California, although we are still 5 hours away from him, and he was checking in.

The message started with a bang, “how has your sex life been with you and your husband? Now that you are back in California and are looking to spice things up, you are welcome to come to my house to fuck. I won’t join in unless asked, but I’d love to sit and play video games and watch you guys.” No other context, just the offer. We are a little shocked, a little turned on, a little cautious and unsure how to respond.

This question is driven from a stupid conversation with my wife: how often are you seeing your SO’s butthole? Are there really couples out there who can say they have never seen their spouse’s asshole?

I have seen my wife’s a 100x more than she has seen mine but it has to happen for everyone, right? I can damn well assume that many husbands, myself included, have pictures of their wife’s ass on their phone but I do not want to meet the woman who keeps her mans asshole in her phone

I’ve been talking about eating my cum out of my wife for awhile but normally lose interest after I nut. But after today it’s going to become part of our routine. Our normal nights go with a lot of foreplay with at least a few orgasms for her before my cock makes an appearance. Once I cum in her, she normally stops me because she is getting sore or the dogs start causing a problem.

Today I made sure to get to the penetration earlier and after i came, I was able to continue fingering her clit and she was feeling it. I felt that she would love the feeling of my tongue against her freshly fucked pussy. She was caught off guard when I slid my face between her legs but she immediately laid back and leaned into me.

After a minute of my licking her clean, she asked me if I had already cum in her. When I looked up at her, told her “yes “ and went back to her pussy, she let out the loudest moan, her body spasmed, and her pussy gushed cum. In 18 years, I can’t remember such an intense orgasm out of her.