u/Efficient_Time_1638

[REQUEST] 39 looking for someone special

Hello there!
I tried this a few times but its always the same, everybody is super sweet until the payment, then you get one or two messages a day.
I want someone fun, nice, pretty, with reasonable expectations who is willing to really know each other. If this is a job for you, keep looking please

Also please, I am not looking for mother Teresa nor Mia K, lets keep it balanced

Update: also please reply with more than 3 words

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u/Efficient_Time_1638 — 4 days ago

40 [M4F] #Orlando Lookinh for my baby

Hey all, I am looking for a special girl to talk, share our days and hopefully meet in person soon.
I am 40, latino, not bad looking, with an amazing career and quite smart. I keep myself kinda well for my age.
I do go to the gym, I am learning to play guitar and I am a bit workaholic.
If you want to meet a sweet guy, hit me up!

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u/Efficient_Time_1638 — 10 days ago

39 [m4f] looking for my special girl

Hey all,
First and foremost, I am married so if that is an issue, you can choose to stop reading now.
I am looking for someone special, a potential crush. Even when I’m not in Orlando, I’m not that far
I am 39, Latino, not bad looking and a bit nerdy
Looking forward to reading from you!

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u/Efficient_Time_1638 — 10 days ago

39 [M4F] Trying this after a long time away

Hello there!

I noticed that the last times I posted here I got basically no responses, so apparently character development was needed.

Let’s start with realistic expectations. We are probably not running away together to Mexico tomorrow, although honestly that would make for a great story.

Also, let’s be honest with ourselves for a second. I’m not Brad Pitt, and you’re probably not Sydney Sweeney either. This is Reddit, not Hollywood. But maybe that’s actually a good thing.

What I can offer is good conversation, random humor, late night nonsense discussions, sarcasm, consistency, and maybe, if the Reddit gods allow it, we’ll even want to talk again tomorrow.

No pressure though. Life is exhausting enough already, so I’d rather keep things easy and natural instead of treating this like a corporate interview process.

About me, I’m 39, latino, 6'0, somewhere in dad bod territory but still in decent shape. Nerdy enough to spend time on Reddit, learning guitar, and disappearing into random rabbit holes at 2 AM.

Before you judge me too hard, my profile is blocked because I enjoy trolling political fanatics from time to time. A man needs hobbies.

See you in my DMs. Or not. Free will is important.

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u/Efficient_Time_1638 — 11 days ago

Hello there!

First and foremost, I am married, so now if your choice if continue reading or not.

I know a lot of people here are just looking for something quick or surface-level, but that is not really what I am after. I want a crush. I miss caring about someone, getting excited to wake up and see a good morning message, and building something that feels real, even if it lives online.

I would describe myself as sweet, attentive, and someone who actually shows up. I like making people feel valued and heard.

Life already asks us to wear enough masks, so I would love to build a space where we can just be ourselves and enjoy each other’s company without all that pressure.

We can talk about anything. Conspiracy theories, quantum mechanics, or very serious debates like what kind of cat is the coolest.

As for hobbies, I enjoy reading and learning new things. Lately I have been doing some tech writing for a blog. I cannot share it for confidentiality reasons, but I am always happy to talk about it. Fair warning, it leans into math and computer science, so it can get a bit nerdy.

I know attraction matters here, so for what it is worth, I have been called handsome once or twice. I think I hold up pretty well unless your standards are completely unreasonable.

If you are tired of empty conversations and want something that actually feels good to come back to, I would love to hear from you.

I do enjoy chemistry and attraction, but I prefer that side of things to build naturally and stay between us rather than being the whole point from the start.

I am also happy to move to Telegram once we are comfortable talking, but I do not use Snapchat.

If you are also looking for something real and a little exciting again, send me a message.

Edit: West palm beach area (30 minutes)

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u/Efficient_Time_1638 — 17 days ago

Hello there!

First and foremost, I am married, so now if your choice if continue reading or not.

I know a lot of people here are just looking for something quick or surface-level, but that is not really what I am after. I want a crush. I miss caring about someone, getting excited to wake up and see a good morning message, and building something that feels real, even if it lives online.

I would describe myself as sweet, attentive, and someone who actually shows up. I like making people feel valued and heard.

Life already asks us to wear enough masks, so I would love to build a space where we can just be ourselves and enjoy each other’s company without all that pressure.

We can talk about anything. Conspiracy theories, quantum mechanics, or very serious debates like what kind of cat is the coolest.

As for hobbies, I enjoy reading and learning new things. Lately I have been doing some tech writing for a blog. I cannot share it for confidentiality reasons, but I am always happy to talk about it. Fair warning, it leans into math and computer science, so it can get a bit nerdy.

I know attraction matters here, so for what it is worth, I have been called handsome once or twice. I think I hold up pretty well unless your standards are completely unreasonable.

If you are tired of empty conversations and want something that actually feels good to come back to, I would love to hear from you.

I do enjoy chemistry and attraction, but I prefer that side of things to build naturally and stay between us rather than being the whole point from the start.

I am also happy to move to Telegram once we are comfortable talking, but I do not use Snapchat.

If you are also looking for something real and a little exciting again, send me a message.

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u/Efficient_Time_1638 — 17 days ago