u/ElegantlyLethal

Hi baby 😊🥰

A bit about me:

\\-I'm 5'10

\\-Very physically active (one might say I'm a muscle mommy 🤭)

\\-I have brown hair, brown eyes, and I'm pretty tan

\\-I love working out, mostly lifting

\\-I love gardening/taking care of my house plants.

\\-I'm an absolute animal lover! I own multiple pet arachnids.

\\-I also making bioactive terrariums.

\\-Nature in general is awesome. Long walks with nature surrounding me could never ever bore me.

\\-I enjoy learning about neuroscience and psychology. I wanna hear about your childhood and then analyze how it's affected you into adulthood 😂😭

Here's what I like in relationships:

I'm a dom-leaning switch. In a relationship I'm the nurturer, someone you can cry with, be goofy with, seek for comfort/reassurance, and just be vulnerable with. I genuinely enjoy being a sweet boys safe space.

I love a boy with a sense of humor. Even if your jokes aren't even that funny, I'd still like to hear you be all silly and goofy.. It's so precious!

I'm loyal as absolute fuck, and I'm a very good communicator. There's a lot of people who struggle with communication because they're afraid of expressing their needs/wants. Worried their partner will think they're being too needy or that they'll be judged. I am not that way at all! Tell me what you're thinking :)

As far as my type, I'd like someone who has a somewhat similar body type to me. Either some muscle or a bit skinnier.

Here are my kinks that aren't really negotiable, if you're not into these things, (respectfully) we're simply just not compatible. If so, that's okay :)

\-Being calling mommy/mama

\-Breast play (Such as sucking)

\-Edging

\-Orgasm control/denial

\-Spanking (I'm super flexible with the intensity of this FYI. If you want mommy to be rough with you, don't be shy honey, tell me. Orrr if you just want light little bum smacks, that's totally fine and I think it's super cute)

\-Pegging

\-Fingering (prostate play in general)

Sooo yeah, your little butt is gonna get a lot of attention 👀

Here are some of my other kinks that I enjoy, but I am totally fine if my partner is not into them:

\-CNC

\-Hardcore BDSM

\-Bondage

\-Tickling

There might be more that I just can't remember lol

Anyway, with all of that said- sex is not the only thing I care about ♥️ I want to hear about who you are and what you like. I want to see your personality and be your safe place to feel protected and cared for.

Slight side note- I find shyness so adorable 🥰 And if what you need is patience and reassurance, I'm happy to do that for you :) Buttttt, if you like all your embarrassing little fantasies and thoughts to be teased out of you, I love that too 🤭

I (as a dom) have noticed a theme where girls sometimes really struggle to admit what they want at first. I always gently let a girl I'm with know there's zero judgement coming from me and they can tell me anything they're into. Not pressuring them of course, but simply a little reminder they can be vulnerable in front of me without judgement.

In several cases, a girl I'm with is really shy at first, and when I respect that and give it time, some sort of switch flips. Then suddenly she's telling me everythinggg she's into and begging me to be rough with her.

A huge mistake I see in a lot of other "doms", is trying to force a girl to open up. A lot of girls need some time to ease into revealing that side of themselves. That needs to be respected.

Being pressured to open up (especially if you're a sub) doesn't make anyone feel safe. It usually just makes that person feel used.

When a dom shows they respect your limits and you can progress at your own pace, that actually helps the sub feel safer, and actually WANT to open up more.

If so- how did you get into it and how do you explore it?