u/Euphoric-Eagle1477

What ever sir wants... it the WRONG answer. It should not be like pulling teeth (:you might be the dentist pain pig,) to get a declarative statement out of you guys.

If you are asked "What are your desires, kinks, fetishes, goals and end game?" Fucking give us more than yes sir or what ever sir wants. When I ask for limits, I WANT LIMITS, not NO LiIMITS. Dudes... seriously, we can not know you better if you do not share or open up with more that Yes Sir. I have partners. they wanted to add a pet too the family and seriously the dudes inability to have an opinion pissed me off. I need more tan two or three word responces.

If you ever meet a Dom who is cool with it... run and hide because that dude is an abuser not a Dom... Please learn the difference... PLEASE.

he morality against incest stems from heterosexual sex between relatives causes inbred birth defects in children. Homosexual sex does not cause pregnancies; therefor homosexual sex can not lead to inbred birth defects.

Should CONSENSUAL ADULT homosexual sex be legal? Should we consider CONSENSUAL ADULT homosexual incest morally acceptable within the LGBT Community?

Personal Background: I have never found a relative sexually attractive. I have watched porn and jacked off with male relatives. My cousin and myself did get blowjobs from the same guy (Who is not related to us.)

I do know gay men who have had consensual sex with male relatives and even have romantic relationships with male relatives i.e. Guys in a relationship discovered they are half brothers/ full brothers/ cousins and biological father and son, I have known gay incest long term homosexual lovers. Twin brothers who say they can't live separately and can not imagine a sexual or romantic relationship that does not involve both of them.

I know members of the gay bdsm community that have a bdsm/ kink dynamic with a male relative and experience stigma and legal issues.

It is a complicated discussion, I hope we can have as a community.

I am a Total Top. It took me too long to say that.

It is important to note: I am from San Francisco CA

When I was young, 15-24, I thought that twinks are bottoms, in the 1980s we had a bunch of gay stereotypes. Lie number One... I was never a twink. LoL The truth was All of my gay friends in my age group were bottoms, they assumed I was a bottom also. I HATED bottoming and often ended up fucking the guys who were supposed to top me. I had an almost instinctive talent for finding Top on the streets and submissive pig bottom in the sheets. I felt TOP shame and I was embarrassed of being a top and I attracted guys with bottom shame.

When I was 25-28 I lied and said I was versatile and attracted bottoms who said they were vars. Vers, it was another lie I said because I couldn't admit I was top only, because there was a lot of shaming of gay men who where top or bottom only. I/n San Francisco and other big cities the gay culture have some crazy gay cultural norms,

Did you lie out of shame also? Did you tell the vers lie?

I thought it was obvious, We are looking to travel. This would be a sexcation. We need to book an airline and hotel.

Due to my seniority I have time off around New Years Eve. My partners and myself love going to a bathhouse or Sauna on New Years Eve. This is the first year we all have that time off. I love watching my guys getting fucked and playing with randoms.

Recommend a good Sauna or Bathhouse to celebrate New Years Eve. If you have never done it you are missing out. No worries about what to wear, best chance of getting that midnight kiss, it is fun... no worrying about drunk drivers.

I thought it was obvious... This a sexcation. We need to book an airline and hotel.

Due to my seniority I have time off around New Years Eve. My partners and myself love going to a bathhouse or Sauna on New Years Eve. This is the first year we all have that time off.

Recommend a good Sauna or Bathhouse to celebrate New Years Eve. If you have never done it you are missing out. No worries about what to wear, best chance of getting that midnight kiss, it is fun... no worrying about drunk drivers.

Please help us.

My friends have been having a debate about gay heteronotmative relationships. On one hand heteronormative is bad on the other hand some of us want a gay heteronormative relationship... Some of us like the idea of being the trad top, the dominate king of the house, wanting a trad bottom. Some of us want to be a trad bottom, the more submissive, homemaker, who is the heart of the gay family.
The conclusion we came to is... There is nothing wrong with.wanting that life..would you.want to be a trad top or a trad bottom?