Being overpowered and tickle tortured

Few weeks ago I saw one gif where woman was using tringle choke position (she wasn't choking him, but they were in that position) to tickle a man, and it was so hot to see strong helpless man who is being tickled by woman.

Although I'm Ler-leaning switch, the idea of being helpless while woman is torturing me with tickles without using restrains is so hot and appealing. Of course I would enjoy being tickled by woman when I'm restrained, but it would be so much better if she overpowers me..

I'm really strong and muscular guy, I'm competitive powerlifter, so it's not much likely that I could be overpowered by other person, male nor female. The only possible way that I could be physically unable to defend without restrains is if the girl is training bjj (which isn't common) and knows how to take me. When I find next gf, I consider literally taking us in triangle choke or some other positions and explaining her how to exactly hold me so I could maybe be unable to defend myself.

I really don't know how it feels when you are physically overpowered and being tickle tortured, and tbh it would be so great to have magic power to make my girl stronger than me only when we are tickling each other.

DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA OR KNOW ANY POSITION where physically stronger person can't defend himself from being tickled? Thank you! AND WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT OVERPOWERING/BEING OVERPOWERED in tickling? Write it down ⬇️😄

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 4 days ago

How much are you okay with people knowing that you have belly button kink?

I was really really insecure and ashamed because I have this kink. Like, once I thought that I will never say it to my partner. And I had 2 girlfriends and I never told them. However, as the years progressed, I just wanted to admit it to one person. And there was one girl I was friend with, she once shared one her secret with me, and it was something she was a little insecure about, so I knew that she is open minded and that she wouldn't judge me, so I told her about my secret. She encouraged me, and she was totally okay with that. 😄

BUT, when I was admitting her that I have belly button kink, I was literally shaking, and I panicked, but just needed to take one step and to finally tell someone. After converastion with her, I was a little less asmahed about my kink, but still I would be shaking even when I was writing some belly button posts on this subreddit. But, as time progressed, I was more and more confident with it. Few months ago I had ONS with one girl who was visibly attracted to me, and I told her about my kink. It lasted just for one night, but it helped me a lot, and I can say that today I'm totally chill about my kink. 😌

I don't want my family and close friends to know about it, but I just like the idea that someone knows about my kink. AND I GOT SOME INTERESTING ASPECT OF NAVEL FETISH. Like. i want to give hints or to imply to someone that I have belly button kink. However, I still don't know how to do it, but tommorrow I will start to work as lifeguard on the beach, and it would be interesting if I could give someone of my colleagues hints that I'm attracted to belly buttons. Don't get me wrong, safety of people on the beach is my focus, but it would be very interesting and it would increase adrenalin if I imply someone that I have belly button kink. It doesn't need to be with my lifeguard colleagues, but I seriously consider giving hints to someone that I have belly button fetish.

AND QUESTUON FOR YOU, how much are you okay with people knowing about your secret?

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 11 days ago

Poll #3: How many tickle partners you had so far?

Pol #2 results:

Extroverted Ler/Introverted Lee 63%

Introverted Ler/Extroverted Lee 37%

If you want to write your favourite tickle experience, write it down ☺️⬇️

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 11 days ago

Pol #2: Which dynamics do you preffer?

POL #1 RESULTS:

Older Ler/Younger Lee 65%

Younger Ler/Older Lee 35%

POL #2: This could be more interesting than last one. For me, seeing some introverted person becoming "evil" and tickle torturing some extroverted person is so hot. Especially if the Lee is talkative while being tickled. What are your prefferences? If you want to explain why you like certain dynamics, write it down! 😄⬇️

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 13 days ago

Being cuck as traditionally masculine man, and how to find balance?

I confessed to myself that I have cuckold fantasies recently. I was rejecting to confess it to myself in my head, but then one day I just needed to tell the truth to myself. And sometimes I just can't believe it, and really have no idea why and how I got these fantasies, but it's so hot for me.

Currently I'm single, but I seriously consider to tell this to my next girlfriend. But I have no idea how it would affect our dynamics and regular life. I'm PE teacher (I'm graduating next year), and I was pretty much whole my life in different sports. Also, I was great student with excellent grades, so I can definetly say that I was competitive whole my life. Currently I'm preparing for powerlifting competition, that will be my third time competing in this sport, which is labbeled as hypermasculine sport. Also, since whole my life I was in sport and in different social circles, I gained some leadership qualities, and I'm a little bit scared that my next gf will look at me with different eyes once I tell her. I need a partner with high social intelligence. Like, I want to still be seen as leader and competitive, energic guy althoigh I want to see my gf with other guy. IF ANYONE IS IN THE SAME SITUATION, I would like to hear some advices.

Being masculine can even add more to my kink, and I would definetly like to see some very liberal or nerdy man to be with my girl and to see that she clearly enjoyes it. However I don't know would I be ashamed after that and how would I feel. Like, the more nerdy that guy is, the more joy I would feel.

Also the problem is that I want to be mocked by that guy, and to have both of them teaming up to verbally tease me. So I need a partner who will see me as competitive and energic leader, but also a bull who will know boundaries and who will repsect me outside cuckold world. So the vetting part would be very important. The more correct he is outside our room, and the more he makes fun of me inside, the better it will be. So, how long your vetting part was? After how much time you confessed it to your partner? Any advices?

AND THANK YOU FOR READING! ☺️

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 14 days ago

What do you think about belly button cuckold?

I don't know how common is this, although I remember some posts here about this, so I just want to know how many of you are into belly button cuckold. I recently confessed to myself that I have some cuckold fanatsies, and I'm seriously considering to get my next gf know about this fantasies. Definetly I would like to try this sometimes. What are you thoughts about this? Have you tried some kind of belly button cuckold already?

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 15 days ago

Poll #1: Which dynamics do you preffer?

I made two games where I tried to guess are you Ler, Lee or switch, and I just got idea to start posting polls. So the first poll is, do you preffer older Ler and younger Lee or younger Ler and older Lee.

If you want to describe why you like certain dynamics, write it down! ☺️⬇️

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 15 days ago

23 [M4A] #Online - there is solid chance that I will become famous, and I fantasize about being blackmailed

So, I have very very big potentional in my job, and there is a chance that I will become famous. Some very succesful people from my job already follow me on Instagram, and I'm just 23.

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I just need to mention that irl, people often describe me as dominant, loud, vigorous etc. I have been going to the gym for like 6 years, and even started competing in powerlifting in my country (I will not get famous for that). So I believe that because I'm always in control I just need to have someone who has control over me.

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The idea of being famous and masculine, but having some girl or nerdy guy (he can be younger, physically weaker, but I would accept literally anyone) who has complete control over me is so hot. Like, he/she could humilate me, verbally tease and blackmail me whenever he/she wants.

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Also, I have belly button and tickling kink, and I was so ashamed of that for years (I'm still, but not that much), and I just can't imagine how humilating it would be if everyone knows that famous masculine guy likes belly buttons or to be tickle tortured.

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In my mind, I go even further, since sometimes I even imagine being forced to be cucked and watch my girl with my blackmailer. But, maybe it's too much, but I enjoy fantasizing about it.

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I'm a little bit scared, like it's dangerous kink, but maybe it's better to try it now, when I'm not still famous and to see if I really like it. And maybe one day, I will have blackmailer who could completely control me...

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 16 days ago

I just confessed to myself that I have cuckold fantasies...

So, I'm completely new to all of this, so I will shortly introduce myself. I'm 23 years old M, I'm often described as naturally dominant guy, people often say to me that I have strong energy... I'm vigorous, been training in the gym for like 6 years, and even started competing. However, I just confessed to myself that I would like to try cuckolding.

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Currently I don't have a girlfriend, but guess that I will find gf in the near future. I also need to mention that I have belly button kink and also tickling kink. And, whenever there is tickling, also there is humiliation, so after few years of being into tickling, I started liking when someone verbally teases me or humilates me (with my consent, of course). And I guess that I got cuckold fantasies because of my prefferences for being humiliated.

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I would like to see my girfiend with other guy who is younger then me (like 18-20, since I'm 23), or with the guy who is physically weaker than me or with some nerdy guy... Like, it would be so hot to see young handsome muscular guy who is allowed just to watch some skinny or younger guy with his gf. And it would be even hotter if they team up and make fun of me.

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So, I know literally nothing about this world, I was just searching some cuckold related subreddits, and have a lot of questions... After how much time did you confess it to your partner? How actually you found other man (or women)? What should I know about this kink? How long it took to create good dynamics? Also maybe I like it just in fantasy, but irl I wouldn't like it...

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 18 days ago

Unpopular preference: I would like to have a partner who never heard of this kink, and who thinks that belly button kink is a little bit comic but cute

So hear me out, I would not prefer to find gf who has belly button kink, because for me it's much more funny and exciting to have a partner with different kinks, so we could explore more things. Also, I like a lot more parts of the body, not just belly button, however I just adore whole female belly!

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I'm not judging anyone, if you prefer to have partner with belly button kink, go for it!

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And for some reason, it's so interesting when someone never heard of this kink, cause than you can be like "teacher" or "introducer". And if she is right person, I guess that she would like to know a lot about my kink (and vice versa). Plus we could try to combine our kinks, it would also be funny if we are both creative 😂

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Maybe I am the only one, but I just like when someone thinks this is comic (in a good, cheeky way; sorry I can't find better word, it's not my first language), but when that person thinks it's cute. Like, she could playfully tease me in flirty way, and I could do the same if she has some preferences.

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In the end, it would be very fun dynamics with person who never heard of it, but doesn't judge. So, does anyone likes my preference? Would you add something? What are your preferences?

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 24 days ago

Let's play one more game: You say famous person with whom you would have tickling activities, and I will try to guess are you Lee, Ler or switch! (I hope you understand)

English isn't my first language, sorry!

So, I guess that a lot of you have participated in previous game, where I tried to guess your role based on your gender, age and profession/job.

Now, you write one famous person with whom you would have tickling activities, and based on that person (her/his looks, vibe etc.) I will try to guess are you Lee, Ler or switch!

Let's have some fun again! 😊⬇️⬇️

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 1 month ago

Being submissive as traditionally masculine man?

So first of all, I was competitive whole my life, always been into sports. I'm working as lifeguard on the beach (that job requires being in complete control 8 hours a day), I'm vigorous and naturally loud, also I'm powerlifter (5'7 and 200 lbs/ 171 cm and 90 kg) and have started competing this year. I will graduate next year as PE teacher. Also I need to mention that whole my life I had very big pressure from my patents, cause I always needed to have best grades, and I was one of the best students in my generation, and I think that pressure I got from my parents gave me subtle submissive tendencies.

It all started in october last year. I need to mention that I have one specific kink, and I was really, really shy about it, especially with my previous partners. However, for some reason, I got fantasy to be kink shamed by people. It would give me adrenaline (even if I imagined), I just craved that someone is "socially superior than me", with my consent.

As time progressed, I got humiliation kink, and I started literally craving to be verbally destroyed. The problem is that it's really hard to explain to someone that being submissive in kinky world doesn't mean that you are not dominant irl. I just want to find someone who will understand it. I imagine and hope that with my future wife, I will create dynamics where I'm her protector and that she can always rely on me, but that she will be the only person who can torment me.

And one more thing. Today I saw one post in one politics kink subreddit, where liberals where making fun of conservative men, how they can't find sexual partners (although it's not the case), while liberal men don't need to do anything, cause women are all over them.That gave me some new fantasies, like how hot would be if some liberal made fun of traditionally masculine man. I even started considering to find some alt group, cause they are much more creative when we are talking about kinks and all this stuff.

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. Should I live it before marriage, how should I tell it to my partner, how that would effect out relationship, how to balance two sides of me, how to find alt people, and would they accept me. I never really tried anything in this kinky world, I had just vanila relationships...

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 1 month ago

Let's play one game: You write your profession, and I will try to guess are you Lee, Ler or switch

There was one post on other tickling subreddit, where OP asked about profession, age and role. She actually gave me an idea to play this game.

I'm 23 years old male, next year I'm graduating as PE teacher, and also I'm personal trainer in the gym.

So, the rules are simple: you write your age, gender and profession, and I will try to guess are you Lee, Ler or switch based on your profession/job. Also you can try to guess my tickling role. And please don't take this too seriously.

Let's have some fun 😄⬇️⬇️

Edit: I'm really happy that this post has so much comments. I consider making some other similar games in the future

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 1 month ago

Question for people who are in long term relationships (or married): Does your partner's belly button became "monotonous"?

First of all, I had 2 girlfriends, and that were shorter relationships. Today I just started wondering, when I get into long relationship, will my partner's belly become "boring"?

I'm attracted to whole belly, not just to navel, and there are definetly a lot of different types of bellies and navels which I like. Today I saw new type of belly, and that intrigued me to think about how possibly is that my future partner's belly button becomes boring.

The girl I saw was in the gym, she was wearing crop top, and she was a little bit skinnier, but had little belly fat, I don't know how to explain that, and she had lower belly pooch, and her waist was really hot. I don't need to mention that her belly button was perfect. And I never saw this type of belly before, I just can't describe it better, English is not my first language.

And, the question is, does your partner's belly/belly button became monotonous? Like, I will always love and be with my wife, but I'm a little bit "scared", cause I don't know will her navel drive me crazy after a lot of years.

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 1 month ago

I will work as lifeguard on the beach this summer, and you know what it means

I worked as lifeguard on the beach once, and it's much likely that I will do it again. Of course that people's safety is on the first place, but there would be belly buttons everywhere... And I'm thinking about how lucky we are... We don't need to see girls topless, we can see our favourite part of the body (for me it's whole belly, not just belly button)...

Anyways, I will talk about the work. Tere are like 5-6 bosses there, since that lake is very big. And one of the bosses worked with me (she was lifeguard, as me) few summers ago, and it was clear that she flirted with me, once I sawher turning red when she saw me when she didn't expected me... However I wasn't interested back than, but I think that I could still pull her easily. I look better than last time we worked together, so...

She is little bit chubby (not so much), she's really strong and has deep innie which is taller than wider (you get me, English is my second language).

Also I don't know if she is kinky, but we could make some deal. For example, if she needs to correct me on the work, she will tell someone on the work for my kink (there are usually like 80 us overall). Also, again, people's safety is on the first place, but if she's kinky we could make a deal that if I work full working day without any single mistake, I could touch her belly button on the beach (it's maybe exibitionism)...

I just can't wait summer. Also, if you have some ideas for games or deals with my female boss, I would like to hear it!

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 2 months ago

Little vent, I have no idea what do to now

First of all, I'm 22 M, turning 23 in a few days, and I have zero experiences in tickling. So far I had 2 girlfriends, but it lasted shortly, and I was never comfortable enough to confess to them that I love being tickle tortured. That was few years ago, and now I feel much more confident with my kink, however, I just can't find girlfriend. Literally I'm single for years now, and it frustrates me.

I need to mention that I look above average, my face is pretty solid, slightly above average, and I'm really muscular, been going to the gym for 6 years, and I even started competing this year. Also currently I'm at University and have big ambitions with my career. And, for some reason, it's still not enough to find someone. I guess that people think that I have a lot of options, and if someone finds out that I can't find someone to tickle me, it would be humiliating.

I seriously started considering to pay for tickling session, just to feel that, although it's much better to engage in tickling activities with someone I love. But on the other side, I guess that pro domme would be better at verbal teasing.

Also one thing I had in my idea (but there are really small chances that I would do) is to get tickled by other male. I'm straight, and can get turned on just by female, but like I just want to be tickled.

I have no idea what to do now, since I don't want to waste my 20s, I really want to experiment with tickling, and don't know what to do next. Maybe the best idea is to pay to be tickled. And one good thing is that actually it's much easier to confess to domme, fwb or other male that I want to be verbally teased and dominated, than to confess that to future wife. What would you do if you were in my place?

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 2 months ago

Maybe a little bit old question, but - What is the most attractive belly button you have seen?

I guess that this question was asked a lot in this subreddit, but it's always funny to talk about belly buttons.

Actually, I can't decide between 3 belly buttons I saw, so I will write 3 shorter stories.

First one - I study on University from other city, so I was going home with the bus. Behind me there was one girl and her male friend. She was constantly talking for more than hour, the guy literally couldn't say anything 🤣😭. She was pretty much annoying, and don't get me wrong, I really like to have long converastions with the people, but she was annoying and loud and talking some absolute nonsenses. After bus arrived to city where she lives (one city before my town), she got up and started walking to the exit (or door, sorry English isn't my first language), and she was turned to the side of bus where I was seating. And I had something to see. That girl was wearing crop top, and her belly was fully exposed. HER BELLY WAS SO HOT, AND HER NAVEL WAS EVEN BETTER. It was big, deep, round innie on perfect belly. I thing that you could comfortably insert 3 fingertips in. In my head, I was like SORRY QUEEN, YOU HAVE ABSOLUTE AUDACITY TO BE ANNOYING AND LOUD WHEN YOU HAVE THAT BELLY AND BELLY BUTTON.

Second one - I was at one chess tournament, few years ago. There was one girl who went to the same elementary school as me, but I'm one year older. We knew each other, and to be honest, she isn't physically attractive (nor unattractive), and I always saw her as a friend. It was the beggining of the summer, and after every match she lifted her shirt up. Her belly was so hot. Her skin was great, also she had a little fat, just to make her belly more sexy. She had deep round innie, just like the previous girl, but little smaller navel. I didn't wanted to stare, or to be seen as creep (although we know each other), but I just needed to glance at her belly (guess it was pretty much frequently). Maybe she noticed, but it's more likely that she enjoyed attention.

Third one - I will just write that her belly was similar to previous one, with clear skin, sexy curves, deep round innie. It was a girl from my class, and after we finnished middle school (it's from 14 to 18 years old), we went to Kusadasi, Turkey on like vacation, and then I saw her belly and navel when we were on the beach.

I hope you enjoyed, and if you have some stories, share it!

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u/Existing-Bonus888 — 2 months ago