u/Fit_Trash_4422

are we actually giving access to our “secret folder” pictures? & do y’all actually have anything “”interesting”” there because I just added crap since it was required 🤔 just a thought

im just over it 😭😭😭 i had given a guy my instagram after a lap dance, and he sent some weirdo messages. i told my manager, she said she personally just wasnt gonna do anything … okay. but to come to her again if things bother me ?? why would i? lmao. the guy was my only customer all day and that put me at a whopping $20. another loser comes along and hes sooo… unbearable. i had to dissociate around him but he offered me a drink so i hoped that would help, on my way to the bar another custie stopped me, i chatted then went back. yall. the loser CANCELED THE DRINK ORDER BC HE SAW ME CHATTING LMFAOOOOO DOING MY JOBBB BRO😭😭😭 and basically told me to go away. okay cool. i sit with the table i was at, until i have to go on stage. at that table, there were 3 guys and 1 gurl. i was only really talking to the one guy, he left to “go to the bathroom” and didnt come back at all… and his friends magically didnt know where he went. right. right. 🤦🏽‍♀️ i go on stage and end up being genuinely the only girl to not have a single soul at the stage and not a dollar thrown 😭😭😭 honestly this was my first bad/“crazy” night so im just proud of myself for not breaking down and leaving super early on. but jesus christ. i even checked the moon phases bc this was the most madness i’ve experienced in a while.

so naturally i went back to audition again and THEY TOLD ME YOURE ONLY ALLOWED ONE AUDITION EVER LMAOOO im so sad, i rly liked that club and i wish they told me that the first time around 😭😭

i wanna add: no i dont think it was management being personal to me, it was the doorman who let me know. and i trust his word bc he was the same doorman the last time i went to the club’s amateur night.

but yea, sad news 💔 is it worth trying to sneak a second audition in😭

so i recently moved to a new area. its way more populated and lively than the town im from. its also within 30-50 miles of other metro areas. i recently updated my Seeking to reflect the new market and luckily i’ve had quite a few matches. but i’m noticing this rly annoying, recurring pattern. every guy who lives in those other metro areas that are 30+ miles away (which is also at LEAST an hour drive with little to no traffic 🫩 and traffic gets badd) are asking me to drive to them for the meet and greet and seemingly throughout the arrangement with no given accommodation… not even an offer of meeting halfway?? (also these guys are offering lowww $$$ ppm😭😭🫩)
to the point that when i bring up accommodations (not asking for gas money btw! just earnestly suggesting a compromise on transportation/meeting that isnt solely putting 100 miles on my car and costing hourss of my time every meet…) they refuse and are almost offended?? I’m flabbergasted 😶 is this normal for anyone? i’ve been in the bowl for 2+ years on and off and arranging transportation was alwayss the bare minimum especially for long distance, it was almost a given..