u/Forward_Dog4329

Hey, wandering subs seeking a Domme, let’s talk about approaching ✨

I created a short helpful guide for if you actually want your prospective Domme to answer your chat request.
I’ve been getting a lot of eye-rolling, low-effort approaches lately. Do I answer them?

Never.

For the sake of this post, let’s say you’re interested in becoming my plaything. I won’t assume to know what other Dommes want, but if you want to find your way into my lap, your first few messages don’t need to be complicated. They should show some thought.

DO:

✨ Read my profile and pinned posts first
✨ Be prepared to offer age verification via Yoti
✨ Introduce yourself and tell me what specifically caught your attention
✨ Ask thoughtful questions
✨ Be clear about what you’re looking for
✨ Be respectful of my time and boundaries
✨ Understand that you’re going to have to earn my trust

ABSOLUTELY DO NOT:

✨ Just send “Hey” or “Hi”
✨ Immediately demand a task
✨ Lead with your fantasies, a list of kinks, or with your submissive resume
✨ Assume a title or level of familiarity I haven’t invited
✨ Send photos
✨ Keep messaging when I haven’t responded
✨ Reach out while your dick is in your hand ready to pop 😒
✨ Have your post or comment history hidden

And remember:
You’re approaching a person for a conversation, not applying for a position as my submissive.
You haven’t earned the title, the attention, or the dynamic yet.
Your first message is your opportunity to give me a reason to want to know more about you, so make it worth answering.

Good luck, be sharp 🖤✨

I prefer to be approached a specific way and I'm basically giving you the answers here. All you have to do is read them and follow through with them.

Step 1️⃣
Must Do: All subs must age verify in
their first message. A verified adult platform account or proper ID verification is required before interacting with me.

Step2️⃣
also important: is my tribute of
$50.00 It's how I also know you are serious and not here to waste my time. I usually expect subs to get the welcome gift on my Throne https://throne.com/kdodson899

final step3️⃣: I expect you subby's to message me after with proof of at least my tribute would be nice of both, but not necessary. Send a polite message with it explaining that you are wanting to serve.

I’m still finding my style and figuring out exactly what kind of Domme I want to be. I’ve had a short-term sub who introduced me to some pretty kinky territory, and honestly… I’m hooked on the dynamic. 😉
I’m looking for an obediant , respectful sub who actually enjoys making his Domme happy, following instructions, and giving plenty of praise. I’m new to the game, so I’m looking for something genuine with someone who’s willing to build a real dynamic with me not just a quick conversation that goes nowhere.
My page is pretty bare right now I’m still working on getting everything posted and giving you more to know about me. In the meantime, feel free to DM me and introduce yourself.
And if you’ve been around the scene for a while, I’m all ears. 👀🖤