Extremely painful and traumatizing sexual encounter. What went wrong?

I had sex today after consuming Cialis 2.5mg but it was an extremely traumatizing episode.

Major painful episodes were that I felt her vagina being sharp and hurting me. This hurt me a lot. Especially the right side of my penis due to which I had to stop. As soon as I would enter her vagina, I would find it sharp and painful and every thrust was painful.

The other episode was when my penis was in her vagina, I felt her vagina contracting and it hurt my penis due to which I pulled out immediately before my penis would snap.

Third episode, not major painful was when my softish penis inside her vagina bent slightly. It did hurt but I pulled out on time.

Later on, masturbated once gently and it wasn't painful.

Please guide as to what went wrong and how to heal myself?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 1 day ago

Penis bent during sex. Will I 100% get Peyronies now?

I am 30.

While having consumed Tadalafil, I was having sex with a woman discreetly.

During intercourse, my penis accidentally bent. It bent in upward direction. It pained slightly. There was no loss of erection or bruising.

Later that night during nocturnal Erections felt pain in upper shaft.

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Will I 100% get Peyronies now? How to prevent it?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 4 days ago

What exactly is the problem with my penis? Seeking guidance.

What exactly is the problem with my penis? Seeking guidance.

Prior to November, 2025 - my penis worked fine and would get erect all night long.

November 2025, I had an anxiety attack after visiting a sex worker and consumed multiple antibiotics, antifungals and HIV PEP medicine.

Sometime in that period, realized my penis would get elongated but not hard and would swing from left to right in bed while I changed position. The swinging has reduced considerably, but still moves position when I move when 60-70% erect.

3-4 months ago Consumed Tadalafil 5mg. First time worked wonderfully. I wore two tight underwears and tight scrotal support as I fear dog bite in my penis region and got an erection then which was compressed. It pained for sometime and also burned and compression kind of pain. That went away. Could this have caused any permanent damage? (Question 1)

Later (3-4 weeks ago) I once masturbated 5 times and then consumed Tadalafil at night. My upper top right side of my penis pained during erection. That pain has also reduced slightly but still there when I strain a lot. Could this have caused any permanent damage? (Question 2)

Have visited 3 Urologists, the 3rd being a renowned Andrologist/Urologist. He examined my penis at flaccid, said it was normal at flaccid with no fibrosis.

When I am with girls, during foreplay, I do get erections, though not extremely hard, but when it's time to penetrate, I get off.

After taking tadalafil 2.5mg twice in a two days, yesterday, I was with a girl and we had planned intercourse. I couldn't get hard at all. Personally, I never found her attractive too. But later on, was with another girl and I got an erection. The erection was pointing up towards the sky.

Symptoms faced by me are when I sleep straight, on my back, my penis when slightly aroused goes left and right. To get it up, I have to put pressure/strain. When I sleep on the side, I do get partial erections which become 90% erect when I turn and become straight. On arousal, I do get slight erections which turn left and right. I also feel pain just above my penis/base of penis region. I feel something in my bladder region/pelvic region is weak and unstable and prevents blood entering my penis sometimes. (question 3 - what could be my problem and how to solve/resolve it and what is your overall opinion?)

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 12 days ago

What exactly is wrong with my penis? Seeking guidance.

What exactly is the problem with my penis? Seeking guidance.

Prior to November, 2025 - my penis worked fine and would get erect all night long.

November 2025, I had an anxiety attack after visiting a sex worker and consumed multiple antibiotics, antifungals and HIV PEP medicine.

Sometime in that period, realized my penis would get elongated but not hard and would swing from left to right in bed while I changed position. The swinging has reduced considerably, but still moves position when I move when 60-70% erect.

3-4 months ago Consumed Tadalafil 5mg. First time worked wonderfully. I wore two tight underwears and tight scrotal support as I fear dog bite in my penis region and got an erection then which was compressed. It pained for sometime and also burned and compression kind of pain. That went away. Could this have caused any permanent damage? (Question 1)

Later (3-4 weeks ago) I once masturbated 5 times and then consumed Tadalafil at night. My upper top right side of my penis pained during erection. That pain has also reduced slightly but still there when I strain a lot. Could this have caused any permanent damage? (Question 2)

Have visited 3 Urologists, the 3rd being a renowned Andrologist/Urologist. He examined my penis at flaccid, said it was normal at flaccid with no fibrosis.

When I am with girls, during foreplay, I do get erections, though not extremely hard, but when it's time to penetrate, I get off.

After taking tadalafil 2.5mg twice in a two days, yesterday, I was with a girl and we had planned intercourse. I couldn't get hard at all. Personally, I never found her attractive too. But later on, was with another girl and I got an erection. The erection was pointing up towards the sky.

Symptoms faced by me are when I sleep straight, on my back, my penis when slightly aroused goes left and right. To get it up, I have to put pressure/strain. When I sleep on the side, I do get partial erections which become 90% erect when I turn and become straight. On arousal, I do get slight erections which turn left and right. I also feel pain just above my penis/base of penis region. I feel something in my bladder region/pelvic region is weak and unstable and prevents blood entering my penis sometimes. (question 3 - what could be my problem and how to solve/resolve it and what is your overall opinion?)

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 12 days ago

Urologist visit has turned into a moment of agony into me.

Age: 29

I have been having penile instability issues and Erectile Dysfunction.

I visited a Urologist to examine my penis about 3 days ago.

He first stretched and pulled it. Then asked, does it hurt? I said no. He stretched and pulled it more to its fullest capacity. I felt stretch kinda pain and burning thereafter. Thereafter, I did feel some pain for 24-36 hours.

He said on flaccid examination of my penis, it appears normal.

I do have some amount of morning wood but not strong. I feel some slight pain on and off the base region of my penis.

Is it normal for Urologists to stretch and pull the penis?

Do you think the Urologist damaged my penis or penile structures?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 17 days ago

Do Urologists stretch and pull the penis to examine it?

Age: 29

I visited a Urologist today as I suspected some issues with my penis.

I was standing while he was seated.

During examination, he said there is no fibrosis on my penis. Thereafter, he stretched and pulled my penis. He asked me whether it pained to which I replied "no". Thereafter, he pulled a little bit more.

I am feeling a stretching like burning sensation in my penis (30-45 minutes) post the examination.

Do Urologists stretch and pull the penis during penile examination?

Would my penis have been damaged by the Urologist?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 20 days ago

Penile damage. Could this episode have caused me penile damage?

On one occasion, about 3 months ago, I had worn two tight underwears and a super tight scrotal support underwear. I had consumed Tadalafil 5mg then and my erections were super hard. I was getting an erection which was being stopped, suppressed and compressed by the two tight underwears and scrotal support. I did get pain in my penis and even after I removed it. Could that episode have damaged my penis or penile structures or supportive structures of my penis?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 22 days ago

Penile damage

On one occasion, about 3 months ago, I had worn two tight underwears and a super tight scrotal support underwear. I had consumed Tadalafil 5mg then and my erections were super hard. I was getting an erection which was being stopped, suppressed and compressed by the two tight underwears and scrotal support. I did get pain in my penis and even after I removed it. Could that episode have damaged my penis or penile structures or supportive structures of my penis?

Penis when erect points straight up, except little bit towards right and when I squeeze it gets up at centre. Also for morning wood and nocturnal erections, penis falls on left and right and I have to squeeze to get it up.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 23 days ago

Penile Suspensory Ligament tear, anybody?

Anyone here that has suffered from Penile Suspensory Ligament tear

Did you undergo surgery or living without surgery?

Can you still have sex or you cannot have sex?

Do you still get Erections or no erections?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 23 days ago

Penile and erection problems. Seeking guidance.

About 9 months ago - Earlier my erections would be rock hard. But due to an extreme anxiety episode and consuming multiple antibiotics and HIV drugs going paranoid, I developed an issue then wherein my penis would get elongated completely but would not get hard and when I turned, it would swing violently giving me immense pain at the base.

Later on, the swinging stopped and erections returned, though not fully strong and firm and though not like before.

About 4 months ago - I consumed Cialis 5mg once. Thereafter, while the drug was working I had worn two tight underwears, including a scrotal supporter. I got an erection which was being suppressed. It did hurt to some extent. Would I have caused any long term permanent damage to my penis from this episode?

About 15-20 days ago - I masturbated 4-5 times using edging and thereafter consumed Cialis 5mg before bed. Got nocturnal erections but got pain in my penis upper/middle right side. It felt like a strain kinda sharpish pain during the erections affecting the erection quality.

This pain happened again few days later during nocturnal erections.

About 3 days ago, while having nocturnal erections, the left side hurt.

Last night, I realized that my penis when erect, slightly leans towards the right and less stable and I have to squeeze the muscles in my pelvic region to centre it and make it firm and when I release, again slight towards right and less firm. I also realized that to get an erection, I have to do a mini bridge sometimes to get it up. I have realized many times on slight arousal, it falls on right and rotates on right.

I have visited 3 Urologists. 1 prescribed Cialis. The other two, without any physical examination but on just seeing my penis told me that I do not have a Penile Suspensory Ligament tear. However, I feel the issue could be mechanical.

From your experience - can the penile tissues heal by themself with time? What could be my issue and can it resolve with time?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 27 days ago

Penile issues and erection related problems. Can they resolve with time?

About 9 months ago - Earlier my erections would be rock hard. But due to an extreme anxiety episode and consuming multiple antibiotics and HIV drugs going paranoid, I developed an issue then wherein my penis would get elongated completely but would not get hard and when I turned, it would swing violently giving me immense pain at the base.

Later on, the swinging stopped and erections returned, though not fully strong and firm and though not like before.

About 4 months ago - I consumed Cialis 5mg once. Thereafter, while the drug was working I had worn two tight underwears, including a scrotal supporter. I got an erection which was being suppressed. It did hurt to some extent. Would I have caused any long term permanent damage to my penis from this episode?

About 15-20 days ago - I masturbated 4-5 times using edging and thereafter consumed Cialis 5mg before bed. Got nocturnal erections but got pain in my penis upper/middle right side. It felt like a strain kinda sharpish pain during the erections affecting the erection quality.

This pain happened again few days later during nocturnal erections.

About 3 days ago, while having nocturnal erections, the left side hurt.

Last night, I realized that my penis when erect, slightly leans towards the right and less stable and I have to squeeze the muscles in my pelvic region to centre it and make it firm and when I release, again slight towards right and less firm. I also realized that to get an erection, I have to do a mini bridge sometimes to get it up. I have realized many times on slight arousal, it falls on right and rotates on right.

I have visited 3 Urologists. 1 prescribed Cialis. The other two, without any physical examination but on just seeing my penis told me that I do not have a Penile Suspensory Ligament tear. However, I feel the issue could be mechanical.

From your experience - can the penile tissues heal by themself with time? What could be my issue and can it resolve with time?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 27 days ago

Penile pain during erection

14-20 days ago, I masturbated 4-5 times doing edging. Thereafter before bed consumed Cialis 5mg. During nocturnal erections felt pain/strain on right upper/middle underneath shaft region. It pained sharp then.

Last night I got strong nocturnal erections and again that region pained badly. The Erections were strong but so was the pain which was a strain kinda pain throughout. It pained like as if tube inside was shattered.

What's gone wrong? Will this heal with time?

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 29 days ago

Penile pain

I had a form of ED wherein my penis would fall on left and right but not get up. Been suffering from this since 11 months.

I visited Urologists who said they didn't find anything structurally wrong but prescribed Tadalafil and Penile Doppler test.

A few weeks ago I masturbated 4-5 times and then consumed Tadalafil 5mg before bed. During the night, during nocturnal erections I felt a strain on the upper/middle region of my penis slightly underneath side. It hurt.

Today, 15-20 days later, during the strongest nocturnal erection I have had since months without consuming anything except L Citrulline and Pomegranate juice, I felt strain on right side of my penis (upper/middle region) and it was painful.

Can this strain heal with time? What could have gone wrong.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 30 days ago

Painful Erections. What could have gone wrong?

I had a form of ED wherein my penis would fall on left and right but not get up. Been suffering from this since 11 months.

I visited Urologists who said they didn't find anything structurally wrong but prescribed Tadalafil and Penile Doppler test.

A few weeks ago I masturbated 4-5 times and then consumed Tadalafil 5mg before bed. During the night, during nocturnal erections I felt a strain on the upper/middle region of my penis slightly underneath side. It hurt.

Today, 15-20 days later, during the strongest nocturnal erection I have had since months without consuming anything except L Citrulline and Pomegranate juice, I felt strain on right side of my penis (upper/middle region) and it was painful.

Can this strain heal with time? What could have gone wrong.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 30 days ago

Erectile Dysfunction and a difficult depressing phase. Life feels empty from within.

Recently I was with a girl. While I was wearing my underwear and we were having foreplay, I had some erections. The moment I removed my pant, my erections disappeared.

In November, 2025, while I was with a sex worker, I didn't get erect at all, when throughout the night I would be erect and just speaking with a girl who I would like would get me erect.

I went paranoid and took tons of antibiotics like ceftrioxone, cefixime, doxycycline, fluconoze, itraconozole and HIV prevention medicines. I realized, that my penis would pain immensely in the night as it would get completely elongated but not hard and while turning and twisting in bed, it would swing giving me immense pain.

Sometime in January, the issue got resolved slightly only to come back. In February I visited a Urologist who put me on Tadalafil 5mg. It worked good but did have immense side effects. I visited a Urologist again recently who told me by just looking at my penis that I don't have Penile Suspensory Ligament tear and suggested a Penile Doppler. He also said I might be having hormonal issues when my testosterone test appeared fine. However, I have some issues with that Urologist as I noticed he crossed professional barriers by asking me for certain favors.

Symptoms at present are -

Nocturnal erections are soft. When I am reaching early morning, I have to do a mini bridge in bed to get it erect and it remains erect for sometime. In the night, it will be erect only for sometime and throughout it will be soft. No spontaneous erections anymore and even if I do, I feel blood rushing in there but it won't get hard and erect. The hardness and firmness is gone. When I am excited or aroused, my penis will get elongated and fall on the left and on the right. But it won't come up straight and get hard and firm. During my recent sexual encounter with a girl, it was erect when I was wearing my underwear, although not very erect but when I removed my pants, the erections went away.

I don't know what to do and I am confused. I wish there is a natural non-invasive cure. Please guide if anyone can guide.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 1 month ago

Erectile problems and a difficult depressing phase. Life feels empty.

Recently I was with a girl. While I was wearing my underwear and we were having foreplay, I had some erections. The moment I removed my pant, my erections disappeared.

In November, 2025, while I was with a sex worker, I didn't get erect at all, when throughout the night I would be erect and just speaking with a girl who I would like would get me erect.

I went paranoid and took tons of antibiotics like ceftrioxone, cefixime, doxycycline, fluconoze, itraconozole and HIV prevention medicines. I realized, that my penis would pain immensely in the night as it would get completely elongated but not hard and while turning and twisting in bed, it would swing giving me immense pain.

Sometime in January, the issue got resolved slightly only to come back. In February I visited a Urologist who put me on Tadalafil 5mg. It worked good but did have immense side effects. I visited a Urologist again recently who told me by just looking at my penis that I don't have Penile Suspensory Ligament tear and suggested a Penile Doppler. He also said I might be having hormonal issues when my testosterone test appeared fine. However, I have some issues with that Urologist as I noticed he crossed professional barriers by asking me for certain favors.

Symptoms at present are -

Nocturnal erections are soft. When I am reaching early morning, I have to do a mini bridge in bed to get it erect and it remains erect for sometime. In the night, it will be erect only for sometime and throughout it will be soft. No spontaneous erections anymore and even if I do, I feel blood rushing in there but it won't get hard and erect. The hardness and firmness is gone. When I am excited or aroused, my penis will get elongated and fall on the left and on the right. But it won't come up straight and get hard and firm. During my recent sexual encounter with a girl, it was erect when I was wearing my underwear, although not very erect but when I removed my pants, the erections went away.

I don't know what to do and I am confused. I wish there is a natural non-invasive cure. Please guide if anyone can guide.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 1 month ago

Visited a senior Urologist today and he said that Penile Suspensory Ligaments don't tear or get damaged or break easily.

I suspected I tore my Penile Suspensory Ligament as my penis would be rotated and also point at an angle and softer erections.

Visited a senior Urologist who was having a high patient volume and countless surgeries and he told me that Penile Suspensory Ligaments don't tear easily and it would require great force to break or tear or damage your suspensory ligament.

He further told me that my issue is due to hormonal imbalance. So for those who feel they tore their suspensory ligaments, it could be that the issue is something else.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 2 months ago

Visited a senior Urologist today and he said Penile Suspensory Ligaments don't break or tear or get damaged that easily.

I suspected I tore my Penile Suspensory Ligament as my penis would be rotated and also point at an angle and softer erections.

Visited a senior Urologist who was having a high patient volume and countless surgeries and he told me that Penile Suspensory Ligaments don't tear easily and it would require great force to break or tear or damage your suspensory ligament.

He further told me that my issue is due to hormonal imbalance. So for those who feel they tore their suspensory ligaments, it could be that the issue is something else.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 2 months ago

Penile Suspensory Ligament tear and Erectile Dysfunction.

30 year old South Asian Male here.

I had an anxiety episode and popped in multiple antibiotics in November, 2025. When I was asleep and changed positions, my penis which was completely elongated as if erect but just not hard or firm or erect swung like a whip from left to right multiple times giving me immense pain.

As time progressed, the swinging stopped but I noticed pain on the left side base region of Penis and slightly above it and also deep inside. My penis would be angled towards the right and also rotate towards the right. Erections were weak. Sometime in February, 2026, I took Tadalafil 5mg and it worked great.

But now as time has progressed, I find it difficult to get it up. It's angled towards the right and rotated towards the right and feels like it has come out of my body, no firmness. Erections do happen but are weak. At night, to get morning wood, I have to fold my legs and do a mini bridge to get it up. Still pains on the left base region. Pain is like sharp pain. Last night consumed Tadalafil 5mg and it didn't work like before, though gave me nocturnal erections. When erect, my penis points slightly up towards the sky but from left side, it feels like it comes out more and angles towards right. Erections are weak even when I am making out with girls. When lying down, erection is right towards my body. I feel at the base there is some weakness or the base can't hold my penis hard and firm any more.

I suspect a PSL tear. Anyone suffered from it in the past and got it healed without surgery?

I visited a Urologist and he just didn't care. Just gave me Tadalafil and told me not to think about it. No other good Urologist specialising in such cases where I am from as most urologists deal with kidney and prostrate issues.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 2 months ago

Anyone here that suffered from Penile Suspensory Ligament tear and anyone here that had it healed without surgery?

30 year old South Asian Male here.

I had an anxiety episode and popped in multiple antibiotics in November, 2025. When I was asleep and changed positions, my penis which was completely elongated as if erect but just not hard or firm or erect swung like a whip from left to right multiple times giving me immense pain.

As time progressed, the swinging stopped but I noticed pain on the left side base region of Penis and slightly above it and also deep inside. My penis would be angled towards the right and also rotate towards the right. Erections were weak. Sometime in February, 2026, I took Tadalafil 5mg and it worked great.

But now as time has progressed, I find it difficult to get it up. It's angled towards the right and rotated towards the right and feels like it has come out of my body, no firmness. Erections do happen but are weak. At night, to get morning wood, I have to fold my legs and do a mini bridge to get it up. Still pains on the left base region. Pain is like sharp pain. Last night consumed Tadalafil 5mg and it didn't work like before, though gave me nocturnal erections. When erect, my penis points slightly up towards the sky but from left side, it feels like it comes out more and angles towards right. Erections are weak even when I am making out with girls. When lying down, erection is right towards my body. I feel at the base there is some weakness or the base can't hold my penis hard and firm any more.

I suspect a PSL tear. Anyone suffered from it in the past and got it healed without surgery?

I visited a Urologist and he just didn't care. Just gave me Tadalafil and told me not to think about it. No other good Urologist specialising in such cases where I am from as most urologists deal with kidney and prostrate issues.

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u/Friendly_One7147 — 2 months ago