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I know that a cash tip is much more preferred, and I always give a 20% tip (no matter what). I'd like to try and stand out as a nice, respectful client and therefore try to give a small thoughtful gift. The small handful of providers I have seen in the past always had something mentioned on their website or social media something they liked. However, I am seeing someone in a couple weeks that has nothing mentioned at all. My best guess would be a giftcard, but that seems really lame.

Any suggestions? Or should I just stick with the tip and leave it since I would be largely grasping at straws.

I've seen ~10 providers but have never been asked to freshen up and shower before the activities began and I suspect I will someday be asked based on how frequently I hear its a staple of encounters. How do the clients usually exit the bathroom after showering? Do they just walk out naked, put their underwear (and/or undershirt) back on, or re-dress fully? It feels weird to walk out with Mr. Peeps on full display, like I'm skipping consent of the companion to bare it all.

Curious what providers expect or most often have their clients do.

Of the 5 encounters I have had, 3 times the companion has asked for extra time (~10-20 minutes) to finish getting ready. This was absolutely no big deal, and like appointments in my "real life" I was more than happy to accommodate. Things happen, prior appointments run late, etc.

But I read somewhere on reddit that companions will sometimes double book, and whoever shows up first gets priority and other appointments are delayed. This seems like crazy nonsense, right? Or is there something to this?

I have an upcoming hang out with a companion that - because of my own tight schedule - will be a major pain if things run behind schedule. Is there any way to avoid this? Or should I just surrender myself to the nature of these things and not stress?

I am still pretty new to the scene and I have been too timid to ask for anything beyond what the provider explicitly guides me towards. This means that all of my "finishes" have been inside the condom.

Except for 1. This provider was very enthusiastic about me finishing on her (she specifically called out a facial). At first I didnt think she was serious, but she was emphatic. So when the time came, I pulled out and sprayed it all over her chest and stomach and it was one of the best moments of my life.

I'd like to POLIETLY try and ask future companions if its possible to do the same thing, specifically something like "may I finish on your chest and/or stomach when the time comes?" but I am petrified about putting the companion on the spot or offending them, thereby ruining the experience.

If I lived in a place with good regular providers, I could establish a repour with someone and then it would be easier to ask. But where I live the professional companions only visit on tour 1-2 times a year, so I never really get a chance to hang out with the same person.

Whats the best way to talk to a provider about this? Is it really just best to do it like we all do in our real life and, moments before orgasm, simple say "Can I finish on your tits?" or "where do you want me to finish?"

Thank you

Hello,

I have seen a small handful of providers over the last couple years and every experience has been really positive, in large part because of the excellent advice I have read on this community. I'm trying to upgrade myself as a client to ensure that the providers have an equally positive experience as well. One of the things I have read over and over again is how to be a good client, and the overwhelming advice falls into 2 categories:

1. Good hygiene
2. Be respectful

Other than the obvious stuff (wash your ass, brush your teeth, treat the provider like a human, dont do anything without consent, etc) are there some specific tips or suggestions you'd wish more clients - even the good ones - would consider? Something I recently started doing was to bring mouth wash with me in the car and the very last thing I do immediately before walking up to the room is give a quick mouth wash, so that I enter the room minty fresh. That combined with dressing a little professionally and greeting the provider with a handshake seems to set the vibe to be the friendly flirty encounter I so love.

What else would be good to do? Moisturize my hands, arms, and legs? Should I offer to shower or freshen up when I arrive without being prompted (I have never been asked and have just followed the professionals lead)? Take my shoes off at the door? Anything else?

Hello,

I have scheduled an appointment with a provider I have not seen before. She is a professional, well established provider that has been around for several years. She has her prices listed on 3 different ad websites in addition to one review site (TER). None of the prices are the same, though they are all in the same "ball park". How do I go about determining which price to use for her hourly rate? Since I have booked a multi-hour hang out, the difference will add up to a couple 100 dollars.

Part of me wants to just go with the highest price because I would be horrified if I accidentally under paid (and would be much much less bothered if I accidentally "over pay"), but I was wondering if there is some appropriate way to ask? Generally speaking I dont bring up money at all because I dont want the providers to feel like I am looking to haggle or cause trouble, so I am unsure how to broach this topic.

Thank you for your insight.