u/Fun_Fennel_567

Since exploring my sissy side more in the past months, I react differently to certain male behavior. Instead of starting to argue, they just bring out pure submissiveness in me.

Yesterday I said something wrong and an older guy corrected me in a patronizing. Instead of arguing, I went rather quiet, felt submissive and strangely attracted to him. I'm 24 and he was probably 50.

At a joke with friends, someone made a mean comment at my expense. Usually, I’d respond, but I just nodded and felt both submissive and turned on.

At the gym, some guys left a mess, and when a gym bro pointed it out, I just said “okay” and cleaned. Again I was turned on.

This little moments of facing masculinity really make me feel submissive. I'm not sure if that is healthy, but it is exciting.

During university, I had this classic alpha roommate: very handsome, charismatic, confident, tall, fit, and very successful with women. We were good friends, but had an interesting dynamic. He was somehow what I would've liked to be. I was a bit jealous, but I also admired him. We were friends, but I basically did everything he asked me to.

For example, when we went out, he often disappeared dancing with women. I often stayed for hours sitting around alone because I was the driver. Whenever I brought a women home, I could tell how their attention immediately shifted to him. It was exhilarating realizing that as long as he was around, I was completely ignored by every woman.

Countless times he asked me to quickly clean the flat because one of his dates was coming, and I always did. I never complained about a sleepless night because I could hear them all night.

Looking back, I very much miss this kind of friendship. I'd love to have a bull as friend to support whatever they are doing, but also be part of the exciting life they are having. I mean this in a completely non sexual way.

To the bulls:

- Do you have these kind of friendships with other men, be it cucks or just vanilla friends?
- Do you like these kind of friendships?

My girlfriend (27) and I (30) are heading to a big city for a trip soon, and we’re seriously considering checking out a swinger or sex club while we’re there. It’s not something we’d dare to try at home, but since we don’t know anyone there and it’s a completely different environment, it feels like a safer place to explore. It would be a first for us. A couple of things are on my mind:

- Would a place like that even be a good fit for a cuckold couple? Are there other couples into that dynamic, or would we stick out as weird?
- We’re both quite shy and probably won’t be ready to jump into anything within minutes (or even the first hour). Is that a problem, or do people take their time?
- Any general advice for first-timers? What should we expect, how does the night usually go, and are there any etiquette tips?

Do you have any male friends that know you are a sissy?

I currently don't but I often fantasize about it. I have one specific fantasy about having a typical masculine alpha bro kind of friend who finds out and then starts treating me very differently. Asks me to clean, bring him a beer, that kind of stuff.

We're all early 20s and in a progressive bubble, so I think even if I told a friend, they would just be supportive :D

Do you have any male friends that know you are a sissy?

I currently don't but I often fantasize about it. I have one specific fantasy about having a typical masculine alpha bro kind of friend who finds out and then starts treating me very differently. Asks me to clean, bring him a beer, that kind of stuff.

We're all early 20s and in a progressive bubble, so I think even if I told a friend, they would just be supportive :D

My girlfriend (23) knows I'm (24) a sissy. I told her. I'm not open about my kinks outside of my relationship, but she knows. She knows I'm submissive, I dress sometimes, I've been out in panties, I have a cage, I love makeup, and I'm turned on by the idea of sucking cock.

She put me in a skirt a few times or put on lip gloss, but I also don't think she knows how deep I'm into this fetish.

I just wonder what are the next steps I don't want her to freak out especially as she already is supportive, but I also don't want to just do everything alone. I'm just looking for kinky sissy things we could do together.

My girlfriend (27) and I (30) are heading to a big city for a trip soon, and we’re seriously considering checking out a swinger or sex club while we’re there. It’s not something we’d dare to try at home, but since we don’t know anyone there and it’s a completely different environment, it feels like a safer place to explore. It would be a first for us. A couple of things are on my mind:

- Would a place like that even be a good fit for a cuckold couple? Are there other couples into that dynamic, or would we stick out as weird?
- We’re both quite shy and probably won’t be ready to jump into anything within minutes (or even the first hour). Is that a problem, or do people take their time?
- Any general advice for first-timers? What should we expect, how does the night usually go, and are there any etiquette tips?

I like to dress up but since I started exploring my sissy side seriously, I realized quickly I love being more feminine in my every day life as well.

I started walking around without any body hair. My eyebrows are done by a professional. I watch tutorials about feminine body language, I changed how I walk. I'm trying to speak softer, but that is difficult. I lost weight.

And I love how I'm treated. I'm kinky so it really might not be for everyone, but guys, strangers and friends alike, just take me less serious. They are not rude or anything, but I get interrupted more often, ignored, even pushed aside a bit. It's like they started seeing me as less of an equal and I love it.

I'm looking for the right kind of weight loss dom. I've done this before and I know what's effective for me, a mix between humiliation, strictness, and creativity. Unfortunately, I can't do it alone without an assertive dom holding me accountable.

If that's something you enjoy, and the control of diet and exercise control is part of your dominance, please message me. Happy to share more.