u/Funny-Effective3416

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The reason I’m in this situation is completely on me. My wife and I had a really great sex life until about 2-3 weeks ago. We were sexting while she was at work and for some reason it just hit me that outside of the bedroom I’m always sexting first or bringing up new ideas or things to try. I realize that I’m initiating every time. So I just let her know how I felt mid sexting. She said she was more reserved than I was and wasn’t as spontaneous as me. This for some reason hit me hard because I like to try new things for her pleasure. If it makes her feel good then I’m all for it. She’s great because 90 percent of the things I bring to spicy up the bedroom she is down for and she loves it. Thinking back, it all hits me. If I don’t bring anything up while having sex, we just stay in missionary until we both finish. It was rare that that happened because I wanted her to have the maximum pleasure so I always used toys or roleplay. This whole time I thought everything we done was for her pleasure and now I’m finding out she was doing just for me. I don’t know why this bothers me so much and it honestly killed my sex drive. We only had sex twice the last 2 weeks because I was able to get out my head and the last time we had sex I lost my erection. Why is this bothering me so much? Just wondering what ppl honestly have to say about this.

My wife and I have been together for over 15 years. She only cums from PIV or with a dildo. I always wanted to make her from just fingering and it never would happen. Everytime she’s gets close to cumming when I finger her she’s says she can’t cum like that and begs me to fuck her to get her off. A couple of nights ago she was laying on her back and I was off to her side finger her while sucking on her boobs. I was taking my time constantly hitting the spot that made her moan and twitch. After like 30mins of this she told me she wanted my dick in her mouth. So I scoot over towards her head and put it in. I had taken my fingers out and she said “no play with my pussy while I suck your dick”. It was such a turn on so I go back in to find the same spot and once I found it again she went to town on me. She grabbed my ass to force my dick deeper into her throat. Everytime I was balls deep in her mouth I would finger her a little harder. She was super wet. She took my dick out her mouth tell me “just like that and don’t stop”. I did what I was told! She was cumming! It’s was so sexy her trying to moan with my dick in her throat and the vibration from it felt amazing. I wish I caught this on video! It was a win win for both of us!

My wife and I were having really hot sex in doggy. Usually we are in doggy position for 5-10 mins. But this time it was the session! She cums and I cum right after. She gets on her back to clean the cum dripping from her pussy and tells me I forgot to give her feet any loving. She had both feet in the air to push out the cum into a towel and I begin sucking and licking her soles and toes like it was a melting popsicle while she’s cleaning herself. It was so hot!

So I below average and I love pleasing my wife. She loves it when I use a penis sleeve from Love Honey the Mega Mighty 3 and she named it after her high school crush. We usually start with it off then she will tell me she’s ready for *his name*. Once she cums from the sleeve, I take it off and she’ll cum again.

I was recording her taking the sleeve from behind and saved it in my vault. The next day I sent her a clip and she loved it and said it was sexy. I told her she takes all of it with ease and asked if she wanted something that would stretch her out more. She said yes! She said something thicker and a little longer. I instantly got turned on!

Now I’m windows shopping for something “thicker and a little longer” for my 5’ 1” wife 🥵