u/GrayWytch

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59 [F4M] #OnlineOnly #USA- Searching for my Strict, Controlling Dom (28-60+)

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About me:

  • I am an older slave in my 50's.

  • I have long hair, deep blue eyes

  • I have a petite yet slightly curvy build with pale skin and freckles h

  • I am married and he is very aware of my being here and supports my choices

  • I have been in this lifestyle for over 30 years off and on

My kinks:

  • Psychological Control, Service, High Protocol, Tasks, Impact, Bondage,Tit and nipple play, Choking, Forced Orgasms, Denial, Light Humiliation, Sensory Play

My Limits:

  • Degradation, Shock Play, Water Sports, Blood, Spit, Vomit, Scat, Anything Illegal, Hoods, Needles, Age Gap, Pet Play, Rimming

About You:

  • Must be in the US and 28-60+ (Not bald)

  • Must be Strict, Confident, Controlling

  • Must be more into the Psychological aspect of a dynamic

  • Must want a long term dynamic

  • Must be willing to give tasks, daily check ins, video or voice calls, Sessions.

So if this resonates with you, please be thinking about more than just if I'm a dripping needy slave and how quickly you can keep me there. I want to get to know you, develope a level of trust all while you exert immediate control. If you think you can do this, then please feel free to send me a response. I look forward to hearing from you.

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u/GrayWytch — 1 day ago

59 [F4M] #Online Only US Time zones -Submissive in search of a more Psychologically Structured dynamic

About me:

- I am an older slave in my 50's.

- I have long hair, deep blue eyes

- I have a petite yet slightly curvy build with pale skin and freckles h

- I am married and he is very aware of my being here and supports my choices

- I have been in this lifestyle for over 30 years off and on

My kinks:

- Psychological Control, Service, High Protocol, Tasks, Impact, Bondage,Tit and nipple play, Choking, Forced Orgasms, Denial, Light Humiliation, Sensory Play

My Limits:

- Degradation, Shock Play, Water Sports, Blood, Spit, Vomit, Scat, Anything Illegal, Hoods, Needles, Age Gap, Pet Play, Rimming

About You:

- Must be in the US and 28-60+ (Not bald)

- Must be Strict, Confident, Controlling

- Must be more into the Psychological aspect of a dynamic

- Must want a long term dynamic

- Must be willing to give tasks, daily check ins, video or voice calls, Sessions.

So if this resonates with you, please be thinking about more than just if I'm a dripping needy slave and how quickly you can keep me there. I want to get to know you, developed a level of trust all while you exert immediate control. If you think you can do this, then please feel free to send me a response. i look forward to hearing from you.

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u/GrayWytch — 1 day ago

The use of a safeword to pause the dynamic to speak normally

I have been speaking with a Dom and it was going well when he brought up using a safeword to pause the dynamic so we could speak outside of the Master/slave space and just speak as friends. This was so odd to me. Now I'm old school bdsm and a safeword was only used during a problem in a scene

Please don't get me wrong, I am not naysaying this choice of the use of a safeword here. Do as you like. But to me it makes the dynamic feel like roleplay. He also stated I could use my Safeword any time a punishment felt uncomfortable for me. It again felt like I didn't have to take any of it seriously.

I have seen a few posts now when it has been mentioned that the poster should speak to their Dom outside of the day namic and I get doing that. But are they using a safeword there to? Have I just gotten so out of the loop? Please feel free to school me on this because I don't want to get it wrong.

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u/GrayWytch — 4 days ago
▲ 8 r/MasterSlavePersonal+1 crossposts

59[F4M]#USA #Online - Broken slave Seeks Strong Dominant for Structured Dynamic

I want a strong, unapologetic natural Alpha. I am not looking for a soft Dom or a Daddy Dom. I do apologize. I don't want to waste anyone's time. Unless you know how to deal with a brat, please don't bother replying.

I have been a bit of a brat in my past and I want to stop that with your help. But I need a Dom who is patient but won't call me sweetie in the next sentence. This also isn't role play for me.

About me:

I am a married woman in a very happy marriage. He will know about this but won't interfere. Outside of bdsm I love to cook, read, play video games, watch kdramas, camp, hike, explore new places, road trip.

I am a petite white woman with pale skin, blue eyes and curves. I am have a little bit of extra padding on me

I have over 30 years off and on experience in the lifestyle. I have only about 6 months experience on reddit with one long term Master and two short term. I've had many beginnings of dynamics that always ended because of my behavior. I am very honest. I'm not proud. I am a slave. I want to serve the right Dom.

Kinks are:

Impact

Bondage

Tit play

Sensory Play

Psychological Play

Service

High protocol

Humiliation

Forced Orgasm

Denial

Limits are:

Degradation

Hard slapping

Water Sports

Shock Play

Blood

Vomit

Spit

Hoods

Encasement

Soft limits:

Anal

Name Calling

I am betting you've gotten this far because you're interested. Please don't respond with one sentence asking how I am or a Hey! Tell me who you are.

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u/GrayWytch — 10 days ago

59[F4M] #Us time zones Only- Online Only- Bratty slave seeks Humbling and Training from Strict Dom

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Me:

I am a pretty lady with long hair and blue eyes. I have gentle curves I would like your help to mold into a more delectable frame through a daily task of exercise and water intake.

I am married, that won't change. I'm not looking for irl right now.

He won't interfere so don't call him a cuck. Life and work just keep us from having a stable dynamic. Moving on..

I love cooking, household chores and organizing, reading, hiking, entertaining, PC games, music, movies, concerts, exploring old towns.

I'd like daily tasks and check ins. Communication via phone calls, video (I have to be pushed to do this but will) structure and rules please. Slow burn is really boring to me. People say they want it but you end up bored and going nowhere.

You:

Dominant, naturally so. Dark, a little twisted, charming, patient, above average IQ. Know what you're doing when it comes to this lifestyle. I don't have the time nor desire to teach you.

\*Kinks:

Impact

Bondage

Tit play

Forced orgasms

Denial

Service

Obedience

Protocols

Sensory play

Choking

Hair pulling

Limits:

Degradation

Water Sports

Vomit

Blood

Spit

Scat

Anything illegal

Shock Play

Needles

Age play

Soft limit:

Anal

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u/GrayWytch — 13 days ago
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59[F4M] #Online US-timezones -Brazen Desireable Servant Mortificator seeks Boundless Daring Steadfast (Man)tle-

I have run the Gambit here and have come across so many different types of men. Too many who have claimed to be dominants but weren't. But in that same breath, I wasn't always the best girl. I have come to realize that what I need is a strong, capable, patient, sadistic Dominant who doesn't give up and ghost when a girl gets bratty on them which I have done in the past. I have been working very hard to change that behavior. I haven't been putting up post after post because of me, but because I am seeking the Right Dom for me and I have to believe You could be him. You just haven't spoken to me yet. Please do now.

Me:

I am a pretty lady with long hair and blue eyes. I have gentle curves I would like your help to mold into a more delectable frame through a daily task of exercise and water intake.

I am married, that won't change. I'm not looking for irl right now.

He won't interfere so don't call him a cuck. Life and work just keep us from having a stable dynamic. Moving on..

I love cooking, household chores and organizing, reading, hiking, entertaining, PC games, music, movies, concerts, exploring old towns.

I'd like daily tasks and check ins. Communication via phone calls, video (I have to be pushed to do this but will) structure and rules please. Slow burn is really boring to me. People say they want it but you end up bored and going nowhere.

You:

Dominant, naturally so. Dark, a little twisted, charming, patient, above average IQ. Know what you're doing when it comes to this lifestyle. I don't have the time nor desire to teach you.

*Kinks:

Impact

Bondage

Tit play

Forced orgasms

Denial

Service

Obedience

Protocols

Sensory play

Choking

Hair pulling

Limits:

Degradation

Water Sports

Vomit

Blood

Spit

Scat

Anything illegal

Shock Play

Needles

Age play

Soft limit:

Anal

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u/GrayWytch — 13 days ago
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They say the third time's the charm so here goes nothing.

I'm Gray. I'm a submissive who wants nothing more than to learn to be a most obedient slave. I need rules and structure to do that.

I am married. That won't change. I'm not Poly. He knows I'm here and supports my need to serve. He is neither a cuck nor wants to interfere. I have long silvery white hair with purple ombre tips and sky blue eyes. I have soft cur ves that I'm working daily to improve, pale skin and freckles. I can be a bit of a brat but I am eager to learn not to be.

My KINKS: Impact, Bondage, Obedience, Protocols, Psychological Play, Forced/Ruined Orgasms, Tit play, Wax/Ice, Sensory Play

My LIMITS: Degradation, Water Sports, Spit/Drool, Scat, Vomit, Blood, Needles, Shock Play, Age Play, Pet play, Knives, Anything Illegal

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u/GrayWytch — 17 days ago
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Rewriting this because too many wanna be Doms were thinking I just wanted to share nudes or hook up IRL

I am Gray. I am a mature slave who has a bit of a brat running through her veins. I want to learn to be a more behaved slave and that is where You come in. I need a naturally strict and dominant man. I am not seeking a soft Dom nor a pleasure Dom. I need guidance and I want tasks, both daily And weekly please.

I am very happily married but he is not involved in this. He will know of it and supports me in my desire. If this is a deal breaker for you, I respect your decision.

What I need from you:

Please be strict.

Please be direct in what you will give me and what you expect

Don't message me with hey little lady or Hi! Or call me sweetie right off the bat

Don't expect nudes on day one

Be willing to give me normal daily tasks as well as NSFW tasks as trust builds

Be willing to communicate in via phone/video calls

Be willing to be there for me

What I will give:

Obedience

Trust

Loyalty

Kindness

Communication

Respect

Intimacy

Servitude

Patience ( this one I am working on)

*Kinks:

Impact play

Bondage

Tit play

Orgasm denial and ruin

Forced Orgasms

Wax/Ice

Sensory play

Choking

Hair

Service/Protocols

Obedience

Hair pulling

Light Humiliation

*Limits:

Degradation

Water sports

Drool

Spit

Vomit

Blood

Needles

Mummification

Age Gap Play

Slapping

Role play

Shock Play

Hoods

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u/GrayWytch — 17 days ago
▲ 2 r/MasterSlavePersonal+1 crossposts

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I am looking for a Dominant who isn't roleplaying. This is who you are. You don't start off by calling me beautiful or sweetie. That's not your style. You know exactly what you're looking for when you respond to me. You are strict, demanding, goal oriented, patient, and Dom from your dark side. I would like You to teach me to be the good girl I long to be.

I am a mature slave with long silver hair with purple ombre tips. I have blue eyes a softly curved figure. I am happily married. He will know about You. He will not interfere. We don't have a dynamic due to work demands.

Please don't respond if you are under 30 years of age, not in the States, or think it's okay to make a submissive wait for a word from you for days on end. Please don't message me because You think the age gap between us is hot. I don't want a hook up. I am looking for an online dynamic that could possibly go IRL but not immediately.

*My kinks are:

Impact play

Bondage

Tit play

Forced Orgasms

Denial

Service

Psychological Play

Choking

Wax/ice

Sensation play

Tasks

*My limits are:

Degradation

Humiliation

Water Sports

Drool

Spit

Blood

Vomit

Scat

Face Slapping

Shock Play

Needles

Encasement

Age play

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u/GrayWytch — 18 days ago