u/Heavy-Okra-9292

I 26M have been with my girlfriend 27F for 3 years. Recently, she has been talking about wanting to embrace her “dark feminine energy” but she’s not sure if I can handle her “evil side”. I told her she has no idea how much I would actually love that. I’ve aways loved spoiling her and worshipping her especially when she teases me and fucks with my head a little bit. She knows this about me and we’ve explored this a little bit but a couple nights ago was definitely the hottest experience we’ve had.

Anyway, we went to the club with our friends and multiple men approached her and tried to hit on her. She turned them down and told them she has a boyfriend, but when we got back home, she was teasing me saying things like “you don’t even know how lucky you are to have a bad bitch like me” and “you should be spending more of your money on me so I can get sexy clothes, Botox , get my nails done, etc.” It really turned me on because I low-key spend a lot of money on her already and I loved she felt entitled to even more. She definitely had a playful, bratty tone, but I was feeding into it so she would know I was loving it. I kept telling her things like “you’re so right. I love spending my money on you” and “It turned me on knowing that other guys want you too”. She took off her pants and she looked sooo sexy in her black G string. She was doing sexy poses and was teasing me so bad. I started kissing her ass and feet and I said “what if I send you $250 right now?” and she said she wouId love that. I typed out the venmo request and I held my phone up to her so she could press send herself.

As soon as she pressed send it felt like something shifted. The mood was still playful but it was the first time I ever made a an actual sacrifice for her. Things felt very real instead of just like role playing. I’ve bought many things for her before, but allowing her to take something directly from me simply because she wanted it made the power dynamic crystal clear and unavoidable. I could tell she really got a rush from it and it turned me on too. I pulled her panties to the side and started eating her pussy while she grabbed my head. Then I asked, “do you wanna send yourself more money while you sit on my face” and she said yes. So I laid down on the couch and gave her my phone. I could hear her typing while I was eating her pussy from beneath her. After a few seconds I hear the venmo sound effect and I feel her phone vibrate next to me. In between moans she said “fuck I love draining you”. My mind was going crazy because I had no idea how much money she sent herself but I didn’t even care. In that moment she could have drained my whole account and I would have let her.

After about 10-15 minutes she came hard and then got off me. She laid down on her stomach and told me to fuck her. It was the hottest experience of my life. After we both finished I asked her how much she sent herself and she said $300. The post nut clarity made me realize damn $550 is low-key a lot but the slight angst I felt made it even hotter to me. I definitely didn’t regret it and I just kept telling her how much I loved it.

We were kinda drunk so the next morning she said she could send some money back but I told her I wanted her to keep it. I loved her attitude the night before and I didn’t want to do anything to make her second guess that, but the offer did make me feel good. I love spoiling her but I really do want to maintain a foundation of love and respect in my relationship above all else. And honestly it’s not that big of a deal because I would have spent that amount of money on her eventually anyway so I’ll just have her use that money to buy things that I would have paid for.

She’s also planning a girls night out in a few weeks. She said she wants to be bad and flirty and let guys pay for drinks for her. In the beginning of our relationship I told her I don’t want her to let guys buy drinks for her, but now I am excited about the idea. She knows it makes me jealous but she also has come to learn that I secretly kinda enjoy it.

I feel good about the direction we are heading in. This is something that I’ve fantasized about for a long time and I feel like we are at a level of trust and communication so we can do this in a way that is fun and enjoyable for both of us.

I 26M have been with my girlfriend 27F for 3 years. Recently, she has been talking about wanting to embrace her “dark feminine energy” but she’s not sure if I can handle her “evil side”. I told her she has no idea how much I would actually love that. I’ve aways loved spoiling her and worshipping her especially when she teases me and fucks with my head a little bit. She knows this about me and we’ve explored this a little bit but last night was definitely the hottest experience we’ve had.

Anyway, we went to the club with our friends and multiple men approached her and tried to hit on her. She turned them down and told them she has a boyfriend, but when we got back home, she was teasing me saying things like “you don’t even know how lucky you are to have a bad bitch like me” and “you should be spending more of your money on me so I can get sexy clothes, Botox , get my nails done, etc.” It really turned me on because I low-key spend a lot of money on her already and I loved she felt entitled to even more. She definitely had a playful, bratty tone, but I was feeding into it so she would know I was loving it. I kept telling her things like “you’re so right. I love spending my money on you” and “It turned me on knowing that other guys want you too”. She took off her pants and she looked sooo sexy in her black G string. She was doing sexy poses and was teasing me so bad. I started kissing her ass and feet and I said “what if I send you $250 right now?” and she said she wouId love that. I typed out the venmo request and I held my phone up to her so she could press send herself.

As soon as she pressed send it felt like something shifted. The mood was still playful but it was the first time I ever made a an actual sacrifice for her. Things felt very real instead of just like role playing. I’ve bought many things for her before, but allowing her to take something directly from me simply because she wanted it made the power dynamic crystal clear and unavoidable. I could tell she really got a rush from it and it turned me on too. I pulled her panties to the side and started eating her pussy while she grabbed my head. Then I asked, “do you wanna send yourself more money while you sit on my face” and she said yes. So I laid down on the couch and gave her my phone. I could hear her typing while I was eating her pussy from beneath her. After a few seconds I hear the venmo sound effect and I feel her phone vibrate next to me. In between moans she said “fuck I love draining you”. My mind was going crazy because I had no idea how much money she sent herself but I didn’t even care. In that moment she could have drained my whole account and I would have let her.

After about 10-15 minutes she came hard and then got off me. She laid down on her stomach and told me to fuck her. It was the hottest experience of my life. After we both finished I asked her how much she sent herself and she said $300. The post nut clarity made me realize damn $550 is low-key a lot but the slight angst I felt made it even hotter to me. I definitely didn’t regret it and I just kept telling her how much I loved it.

We were kinda drunk so the next morning she said she could send some money back but I told her I wanted her to keep it. I loved her attitude the night before and I didn’t want to do anything to make her second guess that, but the offer did make me feel good. I love spoiling her but I really do want to maintain a foundation of love and respect in my relationship above all else. And honestly it’s not that big of a deal because I would have spent that amount of money on her eventually anyway so I’ll just have her use that money to buy things that I would have paid for.

She’s also planning a girls night out in a few weeks. She said she wants to be bad and flirty and let guys pay for drinks for her. In the beginning of our relationship I told her I don’t want her to let guys buy drinks for her, but now I am excited for her to do it. She knows it makes me jealous but she also has come to learn that I secretly kinda enjoy it.

I feel good about the direction we are heading in. This is something that I’ve fantasized about for a long time and I feel like we are at a level of trust and communication so we can do this in a way that is fun and enjoyable for both of us.