u/HelpfulKaleidoscope

Hello, we 're building a more BDSM oriented tool called Ownedgaze. If you already use Kidslox, Qustodio, Family Safety, etc. to lock down a sub's phone, this might be of interest to you.

Those tools were built for kids and employees, not for an adult dom/sub dynamic. We are building Ownedgaze as an alternative: ownership of what he sees (porn / NSFW), not exactly a family filter.

How it works:

- The dom gets NSFW (and only NSFW) that goes through the sub's phone, with breakdowns and evidence (screenshots)

- She can allowlist content (typically her own) so that is "safe" to browse, plus time spent on it

- She gets alerted if he logs off or stops the app (it still works offline)

- The sub installs it himself and can uninstall. Not covert. Dom-held keys so we (operators) are not meant to read the evidence

This is a "soft lock", the user can always access of whatever he wants, but the dom knows what, when, and for how long.

We are planning to add more parental control like features, remotely controlled ofc. As well as auto pixelation of body parts and other exciting features.

If that sounds useful, reply or DM with:

- roles

- android on both phones (yes/no) (sub side can't run on iOS, dom side hopefully will in the future)

- what you use today (Kidslox / Qustodio / other / nothing)

- what you expect from a tool built for this instead of parental control

Happy to answer hard questions about consent, uninstall/exit, what she actually sees.

Thanks

We are creating a tool called Ownedgaze, that extends control for the kh to what the lockee sees on their phone. We hope that this tool will help kh to keep their lockee away from temptation.

How Does that work?

- The kh has access to each nsfw that goes through the lockee's phone, with breakdowns and evidences (screenshot).

- The kh may provide allowlisted content (typically her own) that are "safe" to browse and get stats on the time spent on that content

- The kh gets alerted if the lockee logs off or stops the app (app still works offline though)

What we need :

- An existing kh and lockee pair, willing to get into consensual digital-ownership

- Both on Android (iOS support will come later down the line)

- Willing to try and give feedback for a few weeks and do short weekly check-in

What you get :

- Access to the closed beta

- Direct line for bugs, friction, "this helps / this is too much"

- Influence on future features as we want an app led by the user's feedback

If that sounds exciting to you, reply or DM with :

- roles

- android on both phones (yes/no)

- how long you've been in the dynamic

- what do you expect from the tool

I'm happy to answer hard questions about consent, uninstall/exit, what the kh actually sees, etc.

Thanks

We are creating a tool called Ownedgaze, that extends control for the dom to what the sub sees on their phone.

How Does that work?

- The dom has access to each nsfw that goes through the sub's phone, with breakdowns and evidences (screenshot).

- The Dom may provide allowlisted content (typically her own) that are "safe" to browse and get stats on the time spent on that content

- The Dom gets alerted if the sub logs off or stops the app (app still works offline though)

What we need :

- An existing dom and sub pair, willing to get into consensual digital-ownership

- Both on Android (iOS support will come later down the line)

- Willing to try and give feedback for a few weeks and do short weekly check-in

What you get :

- Access to the closed beta

- Direct line for bugs, friction, "this helps / this is too much"

- Influence on future features as we want an app led by the user's feedback

If that sounds exciting to you, reply or DM with :

- roles

- android on both phones (yes/no)

- how long you've been in the dynamic

- what do you expect from the tool

I'm happy to answer hard questions about consent, uninstall/exit, what the dom actually sees, etc.
Thanks