r/parentalcontrolsfind

Dm to discuss limits, looking for short term sessions to try out the app

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Hello there! 18M gay here, so what if I am 18 now? I thought I have more freedom since I am an adult..guess what? No! That’s where you came in play and ruin my ideas of thinking I am in control.

You can be a strict protective parent or just a jerk who wants to limit me off my freedom.

Offering both, timelimits and bedtime and maybe nsfw restrictions but nothing more, no tasks or anything like that.

Low on time.

🇺🇸 U.S.-Based Digital Accountability & Structured Tech Boundaries

Android • iOS • Windows • macOS

Online all hours of day/night | Cross-Time-Zone Friendly

I’m based in the United States and active day and night, so international scheduling isn’t an issue.

I provide structured digital accountability setup across phones and computers. This isn’t casual lock-and-remove. It’s a deliberate, organized system designed for consistency.

I have a strong technical background and hands-on experience configuring parental control systems across Android, Apple, Windows, and macOS. I understand how these systems function, how they fail when set up incorrectly, and how to configure them properly for stability.

🔍 What Makes This Different

Most posts here focus only on locking a device.

This is different because it includes:

• Cross-platform planning

• Guardian dashboard managed via Android

• Structured change system

• Defined adjustment process

• Accountability options

• Technical hardening during setup

The difference is structure and consistency.

🔐 How the Structured Change Model Helps

People who seek digital accountability often struggle with impulsive changes.

When rules are easily changed: • Limits become meaningless

• Boundaries collapse

• Structure disappears

When changes require intention and a formal adjustment process: • Decisions slow down

• Adjustments are deliberate

• Boundaries remain stable

• Commitment increases

The goal is not restriction for its own sake.

It’s stability.

🔧 SETUP OPTIONS

Monthly charge for controls - $50

(First is always monthly then you can over on to weekly/bi-weekly) This is due to a high setup time expense.

Weekly - $20

Bi-weekly - $35

Self-Guided Full Setup (You Install, I Guide Live) – $15 setup fee

Fully Assisted Desktop Setup via Screen Share – $30 setup fee

Remote Technical Fix Session – $20 per session

Mobile devices are configured directly by you with guided instruction.

📱 TOOL SELECTION

The tools listed below are examples I commonly work with. I choose the best tool for you, and if you don't prefer that tool you pay a fee to get what you want. When I choose them I choose the best for your situation and something that can't be adjusted out of impulse.

You may use any parental control platform you prefer, provided:

• It can be managed via an Android guardian/parent app

• It allows proper supervision configuration

If you request a different platform: • You cover subscription cost

• You cover app charges

• $15 external configuration fee

📱 ANDROID – Example Tools

Google Family Link

Qustodio

Kidslox

Norton Family

Salfeld (Child Control)

🍎 iOS (Android-Managed Compatible Only)

Qustodio

Kidslox

Norton Family

OurPact

Bark

💻 WINDOWS

Qustodio

Norton Family

Kidslox

Kaspersky Safe Kids

Salfeld

🖥 macOS

Qustodio

Norton Family

Kidslox

Kaspersky Safe Kids

Bark

🔄 CHANGE FEES

Change Daily Screen Time Limit – $20

Change Downtime – $10

Change App Limit – $5

One-Time Screen Adjustment – $5

Permanent Screen Adjustment – $25

Internet Filter Adjustment – $10

Category Block Change – $5

Website List Batch – $20

Temporary Filter Adjustment (3 hours) – $20

Temporary filter adjustments allow a scheduled, time-limited modification to existing restrictions. When the agreed period ends, original controls resume automatically. This preserves structure while allowing flexibility within defined boundaries

Permanent Rule Modification – $25

Remove parental controls early - $50

📊 ACCOUNTABILITY OPTIONS

Weekly Usage Review – $30

Daily Check-In – $20 per week

Privilege Review – $20

If you’re looking for structured digital accountability with consistency and a defined system, message me.

Serious inquiries only.

So I was wondering why some prefer Andoff over ManagedEngine.

They are both free

They both require a phone wipe to have full device ownership.

Andoff seems to run only locally but manageengine mdm can be remotely controlled. Also you can have upto like 25 devices for free.

Hi all,

I adore the idea of being put under controls, to decide screen time, app access, everything like that.

As a little, id love to hear some suggestions on how to make the experience as cutesy as possible.

Besides being lock down to essentially the self-determination of a toddler, are there any apps with particularly cute U.Is? Anything cartoon or adorable or girly?

Any other additional apps that can go alongside parental controls to achieve a more cutesy predicament?

Thank you in advance 💖

Be aware, you will be required to send me nudes and to do as I say. Otherwise I will restrict usage of your devices. Know what you are getting yourself into.

If interested, send me your asl and why you need to be locked down.

Currently, me and my husband (sub) are using Qustodio to manage his screen time. We both like it, but currently his biggest complaint is that it's not invasive enough for him. I'm inclined to agree. My main sticking point is that Qustodio definitely allows him to earn his periods of naughty browsing - this is a must for whatever parental controls I use. Alongside screen time management, but I think that's a given.

Is Bark any good? How about the others?

Be aware, you will be required to send me nudes and to do as I say. Otherwise I will restrict usage of your devices. Know what you are getting yourself into.

If interested, send me your asl and why you need to be locked down.

so as the title says I'm looking for the best app (according to you) for Android. i have tried a few apps but most apps are pretty easy to bypass and escape. some apps have bugs , some have less restrictions .. so i wanna know your opinion on which app is Best for Android devices.

Jemand Interesse Kidslox auszuprobieren?

Made a write up for a post, and I ​figure more people will see it if I make it its own post. My experience is primarily on android, with some limited windows.

Ive been using family link and salfeld. ​for windows, its just salfeld.

You can change your google ​account age to be under 13 and set it up to be monitored, so you cant uninstall family link until you either age out or change the age again. Be careful about doing this to your main google account though, the process is destructive and you will lose stuff. Your phone will also only be able to have one account on it going forward, so checking main emails is more difficult if its a ​gmail.

Download some educational games, and set up Salfeld to give you bonus time for using them. Happykids has a bunch of great shows on it, and the leo and friends games are great. Youtube Kids sucks tbh, unless my algorithm hasn't managed to find anything interesting.​ (Aside from Ms. Rachel, shes great.)

In family link you can restrict access to explicit content, I've found that it mostly works, but it works really well when also paired with salfelds content filters too. An interesting thing is that googles filter is good at blocking specific subreddits, so you can still use the site mostly as normal.

Go through the rest of the family link settings too, its worth looking. Family link is device level so there are very few work arounds.

In salfeld and Family Link you can set downtimes, for times where you want a break for "school" or for bedtime, and only allow access to specific apps. you have to set up access in each app. You can also set max times for each app and max time per day for your phone entirely. I'd recommend Family link for hard limits, like if you want a mandated school break from 9-3 to do chores and work, and use Salfeld for periods that you are okay with being more flexible.

You can use the extensions you earn by playing kids games and watching shows to use your phone a little more. Its nice for "just five more minutes of my show!" type moments, or when you need to deal with something thats actually important.

Also, the security tab has options for hardening salfeld and making sure that it's harder to remove. turn on most of them.

I'd also recommend removing access to search engines, and downloading KidzSearch. Its been more than functional for everything I've needed to look for, and has very strict content filters.

When you are all done, you can use Salfelds self protection feature to lock itself for a period of time for up to a month ​and the app "time lock for images" allows you to lock an image for up to 999 days. Probably too extreme off the bat, but an option. Start with a day or two to see if you like your settings, them move up.

These are some of the things I've found so far for doing parental control play solo. Have fun!

Hello, I wanted to ask if anyone is interested in something different that's been on my mind lately.
Instead of Porn restrictions, putting viewing porn as the main thing. I mean putting rules in place and enforcing them so I watch more porn or edge more, all that gooner stuff. Especially since I am at least the next two months allways open troughaut the day and don't have any Time concerns.

We can talk more in DM's how exactly we can do it, but I am always open.
And idealy that would be for Android and Windows PC.

About me, I am 22 M from Germany, 180cm and 95kg. English and German both work for me. I would prefere someone from Europe because of the time zone. But other timezones aren't a no for me. I am also looking for something longterm if possible