Maybe niche and not very explicit: from tomboy to sweet girly girl

Hi all.

I absolutely love the idea of having my tomboy ways dismantled, my tomboy privileges revoked, and remade into a soft, sweet, adorable, traditional girly girl

"Reluctantly" of course.

From jeans and hoodies to floofy dresses and bows!

Admittedly this isnt very explicit of a fantasy, but hopefully it might resonate with others.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 4 days ago

32 [NB4A] #Yorkshire ab/little seeking grown up. I want to give up my grown up privileges

I want to give up my grown up privileges

I know i may look like a grown up, and sometimes I might even deny being little, but im sure you can tell its a fib!

I actually need a person in charge. Someone gentlebut firm when needed. Someone to put me to bed and tell me what im allowed to watch.

Someone to keep me little, and make sure I'm adorable.

Someone who knows that im just a princess and not a big masc/tomboy. Who deserves to be in dresses, mittens and padding. To lock away all my adulthood privileges.

Open to any gender identity, but preferably around my age or older.

32 nb uk (amab) if you message please include your age. No age no reply. Include in your message your favourite Disney princess.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 4 days ago
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32 [NB4A] uk ab/little seeking grown up I want to give up my grown up privileges

I want to give up my grown up privileges

I know i may look like a grown up, and sometimes I might even deny being little, but im sure you can tell its a fib!

I actually need a person in charge. Someone gentlebut firm when needed. Someone to put me to bed and tell me what im allowed to watch.

Someone to keep me little, and make sure I'm adorable.

Someone who knows that im just a princess and not a big masc/tomboy. Who deserves to be in dresses, mittens and padding. To lock away all my adulthood privileges.

Open to any gender identity, but preferably around my age or older.

32 nb uk (amab) if you message please include your age. No age no reply. Include in your message your favourite Disney princess.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 4 days ago

32 [NB4A] #uk ab/little seeking grown up. I want to give up my grown up privileges

I want to give up my grown up privileges

I know i may look like a grown up, and sometimes I might even deny being little, but im sure you can tell its a fib!

I actually need a person in charge. Someone gentlebut firm when needed. Someone to put me to bed and tell me what im allowed to watch.

Someone to keep me little, and make sure I'm adorable.

Someone who knows that im just a princess and not a big masc/tomboy. Who deserves to be in dresses, mittens and padding. To lock away all my adulthood privileges.

Open to any gender identity, but preferably around my age or older.

32 nb uk (amab) if you message please include your age. No age no reply. Include in your message your favourite Disney princess.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 4 days ago

Strong, defiant tomboy needs putting in their sweet adorable girly girl place

Incredibly curious on how someone meet see a tough tomboy and brgin the task of molding thrm into the sweet adorable princess they should be.

Of course this might call for dome dtrict guidance, but its for their own good, right?

Going from s life of rebellion, jeans and hoodies to sweetness, dresses and bows. Made to be innocent and cutesy.

Open to any gender/identity but please be around my age or even older (im 32)

(Please note that Im not really looking for something thst leans explicit. Like being a free use doll. This is more about "enforced cuteness and innocence". If you message please include your age. No age no reply)

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 10 days ago

32 [NB4A] uk ab/little seeking grown up I want to give up my grown up privileges

I want to give up my grown up privileges

I know i may look like a grown up, and sometimes I might even deny being little, but im sure you can tell its a fib!

I actually need a person in charge. Someone gentlebut firm when needed. Someone to put me to bed and tell me what im allowed to watch.

Someone to keep me little, and make sure I'm adorable.

Someone who knows that im just a princess and not a big masc/tomboy. Who deserves to be in dresses, mittens and padding. To lock away all my adulthood privileges.

Open to any gender identity, but preferably around my age or older.

32 nb uk (amab) if you message please include your age. No age no reply. Include in your message your favourite Disney princess.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 10 days ago

Question: how to make parental control as "cute" as possible? Plus other aspects

Hi all,

I adore the idea of being put under controls, to decide screen time, app access, everything like that.

As a little, id love to hear some suggestions on how to make the experience as cutesy as possible.

Besides being lock down to essentially the self-determination of a toddler, are there any apps with particularly cute U.Is? Anything cartoon or adorable or girly?

Any other additional apps that can go alongside parental controls to achieve a more cutesy predicament?

And what about "beyond app control"?

Like dictating what i watch/listen to?

Age appropriate homework?

Having adorableness sneak into other aspects of life?

Thank you in advance 💖

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 10 days ago

32 [NB4A] uk ab/little seeking grown up I want to give up my grown up privileges

I want to give up my grown up privileges

I know i may look like a grown up, and sometimes I might even deny being little, but im sure you can tell its a fib!

I actually need a person in charge. Someone gentlebut firm when needed. Someone to put me to bed and tell me what im allowed to watch.

Someone to keep me little, and make sure I'm adorable.

Someone who knows that im just a princess and not a big masc/tomboy. Who deserves to be in dresses, mittens and padding. To lock away all my adulthood privileges.

Open to any gender identity, but preferably around my age or older.

32 nb uk (amab) if you message please include your age. No age no reply. Include in your message your favourite Disney princess.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 10 days ago

32 [NB4A] #UK sub who likes the idea of "enforced cuteness". Bondage, control, dress up, and more

hi.

looking for dom or domme who appreciates a cutesy side of bdsm. Who might like a cutesy doll to dress up, trapped, keep chaste, and more

combining elements of bondsge, gentle coercion, maybe contract or wager play, in a way thst gets their target (i.e me) in a situation of inescapable adorableness.

maybe its as a cute little tradwife in poofy attire, maybe its as a damsel in distress or princess in a pretty gown, or a cute maid, a dress makers mannequin or shop window display, or a sweet little whose starting from scratch. Or a doll stuck on a mantle piece or display box?

cute and hard-to-remove outfits, like mittens, are welcome. Also, always been interested in potential use of straitjackets, might be fun to explore . Anything to keep me trapped in adorableness. Strapped down for bedtimes, tied to chairs for dinner, all sounds great.

adjacent interests include stuff like stepfordization and similar, chastity, and more. admittedly this isnt a very explicit idea. I just really like the idea of being trapped in adorableness. To that end, maybe an element of cuckold, where im stuck whilst the others are free to have their adult fun, might be good.

please include your age if you message.

32 nb (amab) based in Yorkshire

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 10 days ago

you cant just patronise someone out of feminism

The worst ways I've seen men and even gender traitors behave towards feminists like me is being overly condescending and patronising.

As a tomboy, there's nothing more frustrating than having my obvious informed opinions and input in conversations met with comments about being cute or adorable.

My opinions on all subjects are always being ignored. What's worse is when they equate my tomboyness with "acting out". Saying nonsense like I should dress pretty and be sweet.

I swear, they treat me like a child! But im not some princess girly girl, im an intelligent, informed, tough tomboy feminist.

(Note: im not particularly into the more explicit side of things, Instead focusing on the more cutesy side of patriarchy and similar, hence the cutesy ddlg angle. please include your age if you message. no age no reply)

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago

[Tw: trad-adjacent, behaviour modification/suggestion, childhood,ddlg adjacent] you cant just patronise someone out of feminism

The worst ways I've seen men and even gender traitors behave towards feminists like me is being overly condescending and patronising.

As a tomboy, there's nothing more frustrating than having my obvious informed opinions and input in conversations met with comments about being cute or adorable.

My opinions on all subjects are always being ignored. What's worse is when they equate my tomboyness with "acting out". Saying nonsense like I should dress pretty and be sweet.

I swear, they treat me like a child! But im not some princess girly girl, im an intelligent, informed, tough tomboy feminist.

(Note: im not particularly into the more explicit side of things, Instead focusing on the more cutesy side of patriarchy and similar, hence the cutesy lg angle. please include your age if you message. no age no reply)

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago

New here. Hi all

Im Lissy. 32 from the UK

im glad to have found this subreddit.

To be frank, my interests are more about the cutesy side of patriarchy and similar, rather than the overt explicit stuff.

Things like being trained to purge my tomboy mind and mold me into an adorable sweet cutesy trad girl would be my top fantasy.

Glad to be here😀

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago

32 [NB4A] #Yorkshire sub who likes the idea of "enforced cuteness". Bondage, control, dress up, and more

hi.

looking for dom or domme who appreciates a cutesy side of bdsm. Who might like a cutesy doll to dress up, trapped, keep chaste, and more

combining elements of bondsge, gentle coercion, maybe contract or wager play, in a way thst gets their target (i.e me) in a situation of inescapable adorableness.

maybe its as a cute little tradwife in poofy attire, maybe its as a damsel in distress or princess in a pretty gown, or a cute maid, a dress makers mannequin or shop window display, or a sweet little whose starting from scratch. Or a doll stuck on a mantle piece or display box?

cute and hard-to-remove outfits, like mittens, are welcome. Also, always been interested in potential use of straitjackets, might be fun to explore . Anything to keep me trapped in adorableness. Strapped down for bedtimes, tied to chairs for dinner, all sounds great.

adjacent interests include stuff like stepfordization and similar, chastity, and more. admittedly this isnt a very explicit idea. I just really like the idea of being trapped in adorableness. To that end, maybe an element of cuckold, where im stuck whilst the others are free to have their adult fun, might be good.

please include your age if you message.

32 nb (amab) based in Yorkshire

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago

32 [nb4a] uk- a less explicit idea, moreso rp: taking this stubborn tomboy and turning them into a cutesy girly girl princess

Hi everyone!

My main thing on the more fantasy-side can be summed as "enforced innocence." The idea of having my masc/tomboy privileges/freedoms taken away to the delight of someone really appeals to me.

maybe its a bet gone wrong, maybe its a contract I didn't read properly, or maybe I just dont realise until its too late. there's a few creative avenues of blackmail like that which appeal.

In short, make me the most adorable and cutesy girly girl. Princessy to the max. bows, floofy dresses, restrictions on what media i can enjoy. etc the most princessy girly girl ever.

basically applying controlling ideas and methods in a cute way. This is admittedly not a very explicit idea, and i certainly dont want to be a bimbo, but who knows? Maybe someone out there gets off on power control and adorable aesthetic.

To be clear! Im not looking to be a free use doll. Its more about being a aweet and adorable girly.

Always happy to chat and clarify any questions. Please include your age if you message

(For clarity, this is about exploring bm related fun in a structured,safe and fantasy-esque way)

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago

32 [NB4A] uk ab/little seeking grown up

I want to give up my grown up privileges

I know i may look like a grown up, and sometimes I might even deny being little, but im sure you can tell its a fib!

I actually need a person in charge. Someone gentlebut firm when needed. Someone to put me to bed and tell me what im allowed to watch.

Someone to keep me little, and make sure I'm adorable.

Someone who knows that im just a princess and not a big masc/tomboy. Who deserves to be in dresses, mittens and padding. To lock away all my adulthood privileges.

Open to any gender identity, but preferably around my age or older.

32 nb uk (amab) if you message please include your age. No age no reply. Include in your message your favourite Disney princess.

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago

32 [NB4A] #UK sub who likes the idea of "enforced cuteness". Bondage, control, dress up, and more

hi.

looking for dom or domme who appreciates a cutesy side of bdsm. Who might like a cutesy doll to dress up, trapped, keep chaste, and more

combining elements of bondsge, gentle coercion, maybe contract or wager play, in a way thst gets their target (i.e me) in a situation of inescapable adorableness.

maybe its as a cute little tradwife in poofy attire, maybe its as a damsel in distress or princess in a pretty gown, or a cute maid, a dress makers mannequin or shop window display, or a sweet little whose starting from scratch. Or a doll stuck on a mantle piece or display box?

cute and hard-to-remove outfits, like mittens, are welcome. Also, always been interested in potential use of straitjackets, might be fun to explore . Anything to keep me trapped in adorableness. Strapped down for bedtimes, tied to chairs for dinner, all sounds great.

adjacent interests include stuff like stepfordization and similar, chastity, and more. admittedly this isnt a very explicit idea. I just really like the idea of being trapped in adorableness. To that end, maybe an element of cuckold, where im stuck whilst the others are free to have their adult fun, might be good.

please include your age if you message.

32 nb (amab) based in Yorkshire

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u/Tomboy_Lis — 12 days ago