u/Hivar_69

I am uncut, and I am planning to get a cage, but there is a bit of skin that hangs forward when soft, should I pull it back while im wearing a cage? when I pull it back all the skin in the shaft looks crumpled together, wrinkly and bad, im worried that its not gonna be visually pleasing, and also is there any specific kind of cage I should get or avoid due to my situation? I havent seen any uncut guys wearing chastity cages :(

Is is a cheap one ok or is there any consequences to that im unaware of? How do I measure for one? Is a flat one ok? Metal or plastic? Is there any kind of cage in particular I should pick as my first?

A day or so after shaving I always get ingrown hairs specially around my crotch, plus its very itchy when I move around and my skin is full of small bumps, how do I fix this? I use the best quality razor I could get and I am as careful as I can

Razor cant reach there no matter how I try, wax wont work, epilator is not supposed to be used there and hair removal cream hurts a lot when I put it there. And all this is so difficult since I cant see what im doing!

Razor just gets my skin super irritated and doesnt get the hair short enough, epilator pulls the hairs and hurts a lot but its not strong enough to pull them out, same with wax strips, just not strong enough, hair removal cream doesnt get all the hair either.

What other options do I have anymore? I keep trying new methods and nothing works, im getting very frustrated at this, I just wanted to be cute 🥺