u/Holy_2

The rush of thinking about sexual things as a pastor

I'm a married Baptist pastor and seminary professor. I hold a PhD in theology. Of course real life is quite different and more conventional, but I enjoy the rush of posting about sexual things on here. I like admitting these things, and being vulgar, if that makes sense. The very opposite of what my position in real life demands. I imagine what the women in my congregation look like naked. I imagine them being penetrated and doing sinful things. I imagine what their big bare breasts look like. I imagine "titfucking" them. That is a weakness of my mine, big breasts.

I'm obviously aware of the questionable nature of these thoughts. There's something potent about our humanity and tendencies. Potency with good and problematic branches. I think we all think about these endless contradictions, and the love of God.

Just want to wish everyone a very good sunday. Are you going to church? And what are your plans, sexual or not? you probably wouldn't think your pastor has these thoughts but I always wonder if any couples at my congregation fucked before the service. I wonder how many of the women gave (or will give) a blowjob that day.

But anyway, I'm preaching today and I always feel incredibly honored to do that. Seeing people genuinely invested is a blessing.

Also, bit of a unrelated question but is anyone else here a theology professor or teach at a seminary? just trying to connect with others

There are quite a few people on this subreddit, a lot of new people too probably. I like the diversity here. So what is everyone's denomination? if you attend church. I'm a Baptist man, have been a pastor for ten years.

I'm a pastor at a fairly large Baptist church and I genuinely wonder if there are any couples in my congregation who are into this lifestyle. I'm not a swinger and honestly my wife is not the type to be into this sort of thing, she is more "vanilla" and conservative, but I'm definitely curious about it in a general sense.

I also think it's interesting that some people in the lifestyle actually make an attempt to justify it theologically, even if I might not fully agree with the arguments from my Baptist perspective. But I can't deny that it's hot. The idea of people having secrets and having double lives is hot to me

Hello. I haven't posted here in some time. I appreciate this space though. I'm a Baptist pastor in a fairly big church, also a theology professor/writer. I think that contrast between the academic and pastoral world and the sexual secrets we keep is quite appealing.

I have quite a few male friends who are also pastors or are in the religious environment and I always wonder if they have secrets. I like this space exactly because we can be more open about these things than in real life. I think about the women a lot too, I see a lot of attractive women at church and I genuinely wonder how many of them would be "friendly" if I actively made a move and how they look would look naked in my bed, completely sinful.

I don't look bad and I'm not old (I'm in my thirties), so I assume a few would. I guess being in this position of leadership and being charismatic do help.

But these are all hypothetical thoughts, of course. I'm a married man and I love my family :)

Are there any pastors of big churches here? Or do you have a smaller congregation?

And I wish a good sunday to everyone. To those preaching and those attending services today and spreading the Lord's message in any way. I'm a baptist pastor myself.

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Hypothetically.. if you wanted to have sex with women from your congregation how easy would it be? I'm a pastor and there are definitely some flirty women there who seem to be eager for the pastor's attention. I wonder if some of them want to be a pastor's wife, given the prestige of the position

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I'm preaching today. I always feel honored to do that. I hope the word of God can reach everyone on this Sunday.

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And on a more nsfw note, given the nature of this sub, are you having sex today? Before church or after?

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Do you also find interesting the concept of a pastor who is really conservative and traditional in real life secretly living a double life and having a perverted lifestyle? I'm certain that is very real in a lot of cases. And that is objectively hypocritical, I know, but being sinful feels so good sometimes and we can't be perfect always. I'm a pastor and while I don't have a crazy secret lifestyle I do have fantasies about women and I do like making these posts on Reddit. My wife doesn't even know this app exists

I'm not in the lifestyle myself, I'm just a curious pastor, but I genuinely wonder if it's a common thing for pastors to be into all of this. I'm sure they have to be quite discreet obviously, especially pastors in bigger churches, which is my case. Though that "risk" might offer a special rush