u/HumanExtent3999

As the title implies, I beleive that there are a variety of different reasons for why someone would want sex work to remain illegal. I believe consenting adults should just be left to do what they choose to do and that the main reason somone would opose sex work is because it goes against their values. To me, that's just them forcing other people to live by their values and not letting others live by theirs.

Anybody ever just stick their finger in their ass while watching TV or whatever just to eat what comes out? Not for masturbation purposes but literally just for a snack?

So I was watching The Boys on Amazon Prime, and it turns out that one of the characters, her name is Ashley, who becomes a major player in the show, is actually into scat. There's this scene in a BDSM session where she's spanking the guy on the ass and telling him, 'I'm gonna spank you until you shit.'

Keep in mind that Ashley is this hot, beautiful white woman with a fantastic ass. I just thought it was really cool that our community got some representation in one of the most popular shows on television right now. In case you're wondering, it's Season 4, Episode 6... i think.

So I was reading a post by a guy who was depressed about breaking up with his girlfriend who was into scat. He’s sad because he thinks he won’t find anybody else like her. This post is for anyone who has trouble in their dating life.

The first thing you have to fix is your attitude. Negativity will get you nowhere.

Second, when it comes to finding another partner, all you have to do is go out and meet new people. Focus on people who meet your standards for physical attraction, then walk up to them and start a conversation. See if there’s a real connection and if they also qualify as a person you want in your life.

Third, when the time feels appropriate, bring up the fact that you have a scat fetish. I consistently find people who are down to play with scat, even if they’ve never tried it before. Most people are not vanilla!! You just have to have the confidence to openly express your desires to your partners while having the understanding that there will be people who will not be into it and will ridicule you. Those people are not for you. Your only looking for those that match. That's the whole point of dating

Fourth, develop your communication skills. Meeting new people becomes much easier once you build strong communication abilities and a solid understanding of human psychology.

I'm a powerful man by most measures. I am a successful leader, provider, MMA-trained, physically strong, intelligent, and used to being in control in everyday life. I genuinely enjoy giving women pleasure and solving problems for them. Yet one of my deepest satisfactions comes from deliberately handing over control to deserving women, especially in private (and sometimes with light public micro-dominations).

I love being her servant: letting her pull my hair, spit on me, use me as a footrest, cut me off mid-sentence (even though when I do speak, she listens because it’s valuable), and treating me as hers to mistreat in the bedroom. The bigger the contrast between my “real world” capability and the way I submit, the stronger the rush. I get an enormous kick out of explicitly giving her permission to dominate and even degrade me, because I can see how powerful and desired it makes her feel. It feels like I’m still leading the dynamic by choosing to amplify her power with my own strength. I still lead the relationships because that's just my nature but i lead to serve and pleasure her.

This is service-oriented dominance for me. I’m not weak; I’m choosing to serve. Any other men feel this way about your way of leading the relationship? I would like to get yours perspectives and experiences.

So for a long time I have been curious about the safety of drinking a partner's urine consistently over a long term period of time. I have drank from multiple partners over several different occasions but never consistently back to back over weeks or months. Anyone here has done that or does that? If so, are there any negative effects you have experienced?

For a long time, I kept telling myself that I was a service-dominant man. For those of you who are unaware, a service-dominant man is someone who leads in a relationship but does so from the perspective of prioritizing the submissive’s pleasure.

In many ways, I am still a dominant man in my relationships because I am naturally a leader. However, I get the most joy in my dynamics when I’m leading in order to serve my partner. Everything I do when we’re together is done for their pleasure, whether we’re having sex, out on a date, or even doing little things like helping them move from one desk to another while studying at the library.

Ever since I first started flirting with girls when I was 14 years old, I’ve always gotten immense pleasure from making them feel good. I love making my women smile. I love making them feel important and valued. I genuinely get pure joy from operating in servitude to them. “Your pleasure is my priority” is the mantra I say to them, and I mean that shit.

I can be very dominant if they want me to take charge, but I can also be the exact opposite if that’s what they prefer. I truly believe it is part of my identity to be a servant to the women who deserve it. Not all women deserve my servitude, but when they do, I serve them completely.

Just had a funny yet arousing curiosity, who here does not wipe after shitting?

FOLLOW THESE INSTRUCTIONS EXACTLY

1.Put it in your pocket

2.Leave your house

3.Approach people you find attractive

4.Get one of them to go out on an instant date with you

5.Get them to want to fuck you

6.Get them to agree to fuck you

7.Put the condom on

8.Fuck them

FOLLOW THESE INSTRUCTIONS EXACTLY

1.Put it in your pocket

2.Leave your house

3.Approach people you find attractive

4.Get one of them to go out on an instant date with you

5.Get them to want to fuck you

6.Get them to agree to fuck you

7.Put the condom on

8.Fuck them

Note: I am not a doctor nor a registered dietitian. As someone who works in nutrition, I make it a priority to continuously study the latest research on how nutrition affects the body. Recently, I’ve been diving deeply into the gut microbiome. Thid is the diverse community of bacteria, viruses, and fungi that inhabit our intestines. Many of these microorganisms are not only natural but essential to our overall health, playing key roles in immune function and mental well-being.

This connection is often referred to as the gut-brain axis. In simple terms, the food(shit 🤤) we eat influences the composition of our gut bacteria, which in turn produce various compounds that can affect brain chemistry including neurotransmitters such as dopamine, serotonin, and others.

In our community, it’s common for people to experience occasional illness after consuming a partner’s feces. I believe this variability stems not only from the naturally occurring components in human stool but also from significant differences in each person’s unique gut microbiome. For instance, you might get sick after eating one partner’s feces but have no issues with another’s.

A particularly interesting phenomenon is that consistently consuming the same partner’s feces can lead to your gut microbiome developing a tolerance to their microbial community. Over time, this repeated exposure may allow certain strains from your partner to colonize and replicate within your own gut, shifting your microbiome toward greater similarity with theirs and thus reducing the sickness you feel with theirs or eliminating it completely.

Point is, be careful who you allow to feed you as their gut bacteria could be completely incompatible to yours.

So I have a legitimate question for the guys in this community. I, for a long time, hated condoms because I felt like they got rid of all of the pleasure from sex. And the reason I felt that way is because I was introduced to pornography at a very young age, and obviously, as I'm sure you all know, pretty much every video of porn is with no condom. And as a result, I had a lot of unprotected sex in my late teens and early twenties, and I got sick from STIs fairly often.

Now I'm 28, and I really, truly am committing to still living a promiscuous lifestyle because monogamy is something that I just can't do, at least not at this stage in my life, but I certainly do want to be significantly more responsible with my health. And so I've been wearing condoms throughout the day, even when I'm not having sex, just to condition myself to wearing them, and I've been listening to affirmational audio tapes about using condoms and loving condoms and viewing them in a positive way.

So, do you all genuinely look forward to using condoms during sex? How do you feel about them specifically when it comes to sexual intercourse? I am not talking about masturbation. I really wanna understand your mind. I have had sex with a condom multiple times in the past, and every single time, it felt fantastic. But I still would like to understand your perspective. Thanks

So I just got a really cool idea reading a post, and it had to do with an expression that said "Happy Scat!". And it was the first time I'd ever heard of that expression, but it actually sounds like a really nice mantra for somebody who is into scat, like we are. I might genuinely get it tattooed on my body, somewhere private.

I know that there's people in this community that find scat disgusting, and that's why you're into it, but then there's people like me who don't think scat is disgusting at all. I genuinely think it's beautiful. One of the best ways to show someone just how attracted you are to them and how amazing you believe that they are, is to show them that even their shit is beautiful and worthy of praise.

So I'm curious, do any of you have any tattoos on your body that are a symbol of your fetish?

I'm very service-minded in my relationships, not all of them, but specifically with the people I genuinely believe are so exceptional that they deserve to be served. Once I truly like an individual, eating their waste becomes, for me, a profound act of savoring them completely. It’s about showing them that everything that comes from them is beautiful and worthy of being savored simply because it originates from them. My standards for whose shit I eat are very straightforward: I must find them physically attractive, I need to enjoy their company, and they must meet my age requirements. Once those standards are met, I gladly eat everything that comes out of them. However, when it comes to being a devoted servant to their every need and worshipping every aspect of their body, my standards are significantly higher. I believe that my complete, devoted service is a privilege that only a few people (relatively speaking) will ever be able to earn.

So i took the suggestions of people in a bdsm community here on reddit to go onto fetlife to find gatherings in my city. I am creating an account and i notice there is no specific scat tag. What should I use? Are we really that weird even within the BDSM community?

I've heard this term multiple times now here in this reddit community and I would like to get clarity as to what it actually is.

My assumption is that it literally is a group of people in your city or town that meet up regularly at some venue to discuss their lifestyles, meet like minded people and maybe even explore together.

Please elaborate as to what it is and how I can find one in my city of Houston.