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My wife (f36) and I (m35) have been together 6 years now and before me she had a slutty streak a mile wide, which I love about her. She is very honest about her sexual past and doesn’t hold back when I ask questions. I’ve always asked if she had old sex videos from previous partners but always said no.

Recently I was on her computer doing work since mine crapped out and of course I started snooping. I ended up finding 6 different videos of her with past loves. All were hung and fucked her rough. In desperation not to get caught I emailed them to myself and went on with work. These videos have become my new addiction but haven’t told her I found them. Should I tell her or just keep it to myself?

My wife and I are relatively new in our cuck journey and just exploring the various things that turn us on. Our latest is she likes degrading and humiliating me when she is being fucked by her bull. Is this a common this for most wives and bulls to enjoy or is my wife just meaner than most?

My wife and I are relatively new in our cuck journey and just exploring the various things that turn us on. Our latest is she likes degrading and humiliating me when she is being fucked by her bull. Is this a common this for most wives and bulls to enjoy or is my wife just meaner than most?

My wife and I have been together for 5 years, and I’ve always known she had a pretty wild, slutty past. She’s always been very open about it whenever I ask for details.

About a year into dating, she finally confessed something that’s lived rent-free in my head ever since: the night before our very first date, she went over to her well-hung ex for “closure”… and ended up sucking and fucking him one last time.

She’d already told me plenty of stories about how rough and huge he was, but she’d never mentioned that he gave her a facial that night. Knowing that he was balls-deep in her and finished all over her face less than 12 hours before I picked her up for our first date drives me absolutely crazy.

To this day I still pull up her old sex videos with him, stroking while I picture him pounding her hard and rough, then glazing her face right before she met me. It’s such a filthy thought, but I can’t get enough of it.

My wife and I have been together for 5 years, and I’ve always known she had a pretty wild, slutty past. She’s always been very open about it whenever I ask for details.

About a year into dating, she finally confessed something that’s lived rent-free in my head ever since: the night before our very first date, she went over to her well-hung ex for “closure”… and ended up sucking and fucking him one last time.

She’d already told me plenty of stories about how rough and huge he was, but she’d never mentioned that he gave her a facial that night. Knowing that he was balls-deep in her and finished all over her face less than 12 hours before I picked her up for our first date drives me absolutely crazy.

To this day I still pull up her old sex videos with him, stroking while I picture him pounding her hard and rough, then glazing her face right before she met me. It’s such a filthy thought, but I can’t get enough of it.

Hey everyone, long-time lurker here in Hotwife advice. My wife and I have been talking about and fantasizing about the hotwife lifestyle for quite a while now, but we’ve never taken it beyond dirty talk and bedroom fantasies. This past weekend I finally convinced her to step out of her comfort zone, and it was incredible.

We went to an adult pool party at a local resort. I talked her into buying a swimsuit she’d normally never wear – high-waisted but with a ton of ass hanging out in the back, and the top showed off her amazing DD tits with serious cleavage. When she walked out, I was stunned. She looked so fucking hot and confident.

Throughout the day she got eye-fucked constantly by guys (and even a few women). I couldn’t get enough of it – watching her notice the attention, seeing her blush but also smile, and knowing everyone there was checking her out. It was such a turn-on for both of us. We didn’t take it any further this time (no flirting or playing), but it still felt like a huge step in the right direction.

I’m so proud of her for pushing her boundaries and I’m excited about where this could go.

Any suggestions on a good next step? Looking for advice from couples who’ve been through this, how did you ease into actually playing?

Thanks in advance! 🔥

My wife (36f) has always had daddy issues which lead to her always dating and sleeping with older men. Now that we are enjoying this LS she wants to venture back into a third who is older than us, which I’m not opposed to and want her to get what she needs. Issue we are having is finding them, all we can seem to encounter are younger guys with the wrong attitude. Any advice where to begin to find an older man, in decent shape, understands the LS, above average size with a dominant side? All advice or discussion is appreciated

My wife and I have been together for a little over 6 years and we have an incredible sex life. She’s known about my hotwife kink almost since the beginning of our relationship. She’s always been very open about it she brings it up during sex, talks about it freely outside the bedroom, and has repeatedly said she’d be open to exploring it together.

The issue is getting her to actually take that next step. Before we met, she had a pretty promiscuous past (which I’ve always known about, loved, and never shamed her for). I’m hoping to hear from guys who have successfully navigated this, or even from wives who were hesitant at first but eventually went for it.

Any practical advice on how to help her feel fully comfortable and excited about moving forward? Thanks in advance.

To paint the picture: my wife is 5’6”, 135 lbs, with a toned athletic body she’s built from working out. She has a fantastic ass and natural, perky DD tits, and she’s never been shy about showing them off.

In her 20s she went through a real wild phase, classic “daddy issues,” living for the moment, doing whatever (and whoever) she wanted. She slept with quite a few guys and a few women, and gave head to even more. The best part? She’s always been very open about it. In fact, I’m pretty sure recounting her filthy stories turns her on. For me, it’s the ultimate win-win.

I’ve had this kink since high school when my first girlfriend cheated on me. The fact that my wife not only tolerates it but actually enjoys sharing details with me is incredible. The longer we’re together, the more she opens up, even adding new layers to stories we’ve already gone over. It never gets old for me, and she’s never once shut it down when I bring it up. If anything, she seems to get into it.

So I’m curious, are there other husbands here whose wives actually get turned on talking about their hot past? Or is it mostly like the other posts I see where the wife/girlfriend gets irritated or defensive when the topic comes up?

How many men before you did your wife/gf let creampie her? My wife’s body count is above 50, most during her mid-late 20’s before she met me. She hates condoms and always begged me not to use them when we first started having sex. She would tell me how only one other guy before me would wear condoms and they hardly ever pulled out, always filling her up.

My wife (36F) and I (35M) had been living the hotwife life for about a year. Her regular bull Tommy was over one night, fucking her hard on our bed while I watched from the chair. When he pulled out and shot a huge load across her stomach and pussy, she looked over at me with pure lust in her eyes.

“Come here, baby,” she said softly.

I knelt on the bed as she beckoned Tommy closer. His cock was still rock hard, a thick, veiny 9-inch monster, glistening with her juices. She wrapped her fingers around it, gave it a slow stroke, and looked straight at me.

“I want to see you suck it.”

We had never talked about this. Not once. But the commanding, seductive way she said it made my heart race. She gently guided my head forward with her hand. “Open for me, good boy.”

I took the head of his big cock into my mouth. It felt heavy on my tongue, stretching my lips. She moaned watching me struggle with his size, stroking my hair and whispering, “That’s it… suck his big cock for me.”

After a few minutes she pulled me off, kissed me deeply, and said, “Now I want to watch Tommy fuck you.”

She positioned me on all fours, lubed my ass with her fingers, and held my hand while Tommy pressed that thick 9-inch cock against me. “Relax, baby,” she purred as he slowly pushed inside. The stretch was intense. She kept eye contact with me the whole time, telling me how sexy I looked getting fucked for her.

Tommy fucked me steadily while she stroked my cock until I came harder than ever.

Afterward she held me and admitted she had no idea she wanted to see it until that exact moment, but her sudden, seductive push made me surrender completely.

That night unlocked something new in our marriage. Anyone else have their wife spontaneously decide she needed to watch them service another man right then and there?

Society reduces it to “small dick” or physical inadequacy, but I’ve done a lot of self-reflection and even talked openly with my wife about it.

I’m 35M, 6’2”, 225lbs, muscular build, tattoos, beard, and have a thick 7” cock, so not lacking physically. Yet growing up I was the chubby, awkward kid who got overlooked. In high school and early 20s I was always “the friend” while my buddies got all the female attention. I believe those self-worth issues eventually surfaced as this kink.

The fear that I need to completely satisfy my partner or she’ll leave me turned into arousal from watching her get fucked by other men. It helps that we’re both very sexual people and both when my wife is fucked by a well endowed bull.

Anyone else trace their cuckold feelings to similar feelings of being overlooked or inadequacy from youth? Or found different roots?

Especially interested in perspectives from guys who don’t fit the stereotypical beta profile.