I have dated someone into anal and miss it dearly. Fucked guys and girls, the pussy isn’t the same because it’s a different level of vulnerability and power play. As a mildy sadist top, anal bottoms get me off so hard.
Skip to ########## for naughty bits
I 35 M 5’11”, rock climber build and cute looking. I was in Tulum, at a rave by the beach. High on molly and dancing with my girlfriend 33 F Sarah, 5’5, slim, sexy boobs and ass to die for why I was tolerating her BS. But this trip had made me realize it wasn’t going to last. We went dressed to party.
I met Mark and Jenny, both in their late 40’s or early 50’s. Dressed sexy for the occasion also from the same city as us. We instantly hit it off. Mark was 5’8” ish , Jenny was 5’8” ish with heels matching my height. We danced and they offered me and Sarah to buy a drink. Jenny started flirting with me while Mark grabbed Sarah’s attention. Soon a few drinks down Jenny and Sarah went to the bathroom.
Mark tells me how Sexy Sarah is, and if we play with others. I tell him she is a jealous that way. They come back, I’m guessing Sarah and Jenny spoke but Sarah switched topics. I could see her being mildly jealous. But when they came back Jenny had some pills to share .
Sarah was a coin toss, moody person. She decided to sit it out after I popped my pill. Got tired and pretty drunk in the next hour and we sent her to the hotel and made sure she reached safe.
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Somewhere after she reached safe we all were starting to get really happy high and inhibitions were disappearing. Jenny and I were dancing, mark was happily enjoying himself.
Jenny started getting closer, grinding and smiling back. I know this is wrong, but they both knew I was not going back anytime soon. She felt my hard cock through my cotton pajamas, grabbing it and giving it a good tug. I couldn’t control myself and groped her boob quickly before anyone watched and kissed her. We made out while mark occasionally watched and smiled. She walked over to him and whispered something and came back. She said we are going back, you are welcome to come if you wanna play
I went without hesitation, my inhibitions were gone. He got a big can with back seats, where she made out and fooled around while we got back.
Her husband had ED, so he just sat in the corner and tried to jerk off. But loved watching her have fun and got her the rougher I was the more she liked it. Very few limits, we smoked J’s and fucked for a few hours till we were almost toast. The Molly kept us going longer then we would. No condoms, I came in all her holes, she would clean up and make out with her husband in between. And then put on another show for him
I went back, quickly showered and changed clothes . We broke up shortly after, Jenny and I stayed in touch for months after
40M, brown, lean/fit, 5'10", 160 and building. Newish to SF after years as a digital nomad.
I'm endlessly curious and I make things — furniture, electronics, 3D-printed whatever I felt like that week. Same restlessness gets me climbing, on the motorcycle, behind a camera, and on a dance floor I had no business staying on that late. Read a lot, cook a few cuisines well, make friends easily, date deliberately. 420 friendly, drink socially, tested and clean.
The dom side: pleasure/service dom with a wicked streak — not into extreme pain. Teasing, denial, impact, choking, degradation, sensory play, begging, rope, toys, and plenty more — all built around your wants and limits. Curious and exploring, dreaming of a dungeon of our own someday.
Looking for someone open-minded, self-aware, adventurous — ideally a sub, though happy to explore. Open to a wide age range, unbothered about it. Want something long-term but won't force it — rather connect and let it grow. Not here for one-night stands. Real effort here, no AI used here..
decently endowed ;) Pics when we match.
Tell me the most interesting thing you've gotten curious about lately — better than "hey."
40M, brown, lean/fit, 5'10", 160 and building. Newish to SF after years as a digital nomad.
I'm endlessly curious and I make things — furniture, electronics, 3D-printed whatever I felt like that week. Same restlessness gets me climbing, on the motorcycle, behind a camera, and on a dance floor I had no business staying on that late. Read a lot, cook a few cuisines well, make friends easily, date deliberately. 420 friendly, drink socially, tested and clean.
The dom side: pleasure/service dom with a wicked streak — not into extreme pain. Teasing, denial, impact, choking, degradation, sensory play, begging, rope, toys, and plenty more — all built around your wants and limits. Curious and exploring, dreaming of a dungeon of our own someday.
Looking for someone open-minded, self-aware, adventurous — ideally a sub, though happy to explore. Open to a wide age range, unbothered about it. Want something long-term but won't force it — rather connect and let it grow. Not here for one-night stands. Real effort here, no AI used here..
decently endowed ;) Pics when we match.
Tell me the most interesting thing you've gotten curious about lately — better than "hey."
40M, brown, lean/fit, 5'10", 160 and building. Newish to SF after years as a digital nomad.
I'm endlessly curious and I make things — furniture, electronics, 3D-printed whatever I felt like that week. Same restlessness gets me climbing, on the motorcycle, behind a camera, and on a dance floor I had no business staying on that late. Read a lot, cook a few cuisines well, make friends easily, date deliberately. 420 friendly, drink socially, tested and clean.
The dom side: pleasure/service dom with a wicked streak — not into extreme pain. Teasing, denial, impact, choking, degradation, sensory play, begging, rope, toys, and plenty more — all built around your wants and limits. Curious and exploring, dreaming of a dungeon of our own someday.
Looking for someone open-minded, self-aware, adventurous — ideally a sub, though happy to explore. Open to a wide age range, unbothered about it. Want something long-term but won't force it — rather connect and let it grow. Not here for one-night stands. Real effort here, no AI used here..
decently endowed ;) Pics when we match.
Tell me the most interesting thing you've gotten curious about lately — better than "hey."
I was living in another country and this girl much younger, 10 years gap. I was in late 30’s, the younger one Jasmine was in late 20’s. We were roommates and her sister had found me online looking for a place. Her sister Lily 2 years younger to me lives in a different country but traveled frequently to places etc. very outgoing, fit and sexy.
Me and Jasmine started fucking one drink night, that led to a relationship where I realized she was toxic. But going through some hard times and to avoid drama roommates I kept the relationship going on.
That point I realized why her relationship with her sister was bad. Because she was an entitled bitch who lacked any empathy. I’m usually not the one to cheat or take revenge. But I was livid and about to end my relationship after she was back from her trip before I moved out.
It so happened her sister was traveling for work and needed a place to crash while she was gone. I was an amazing host, and everything. We went out to get drinks near my place and got home tipsy, when Lily asked if I was single, in the elevator after mild flirting all evening.
I lied and said no, she didn’t hesitate to make a move as soon as we got in. There was clear attraction and chemistry, and I wanted to fuck her so bad since I saw her the first time. She was much kinkier and dirtier, the rest of her 3-4 days we spent fucking before Jasmine was back. Jasmine didn’t want Lily to know. I still keep in touch with Lilly sometimes, don’t think she knows or Jasmine knows
Names changed for privacy
Looking to chat
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
Vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR, 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into \*\*extreme\*\* pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR, 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into **extreme** pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is **open minded**, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc), decently endowed ;)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
I’m exploring my bi side, have been with women mostly but have fooled around with guys. This time after being single and exploring, I really wanna fuck a couple.
Like fully bi play, both ideally like cock and wanna get fucked bi it. Bi top, but also curious about giving blow job and riding the cock.
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, m I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match
TLDR; 40 M in San Francisco , looking for cute, smart, educated sub. I’m open to more depending on how we click. 5’10”, lean/fit, getting bulked .
Long version:
I’m a 40 M, brown guy in San Francisco. Newish to the city, been a digital nomad and single after a while.
vanilla stuff:
love to read, build stuff (furniture, electronics, 3d printing, etc) with my hands, climbing, cooking some cuisines. Walking, hiking , biking. Have a motorcycle, ride sometimes. Into photography, art and love music, concerts and rave. Have a lot of interests, and make friends easily. Not a big extrovert but not shy either. Getting more comfortable on a dance floor.
420 friendly, drink socially, open to other substances once in a while, not a junkie. Tested, and clear.
Kink wise:
I’m not into extreme pain, m I’m what you might call a “pleasure” dom or service dome with a wicked side. Love teasing, denial, torture, impact play, choking, degradation, sensory deprivation. Over/under stimulation, begging, bondage, rope , toys, and a lot more. Wish to have a dungeon with my perfect partner if we are dreaming big. But for now very curious and exploring . All obviously based on my partners preferences and choices.
Where I am:
I’m at a place where I’m looking for something long term ideally, but that feels like asking for a lot. I’m open to connecting and seeing if things feel right. So looking for a connection with possibility for a long run but no pressure on the later. Not in for one night stands though, put a lot of effort writing this , no AI bs. 😂
Type of relationship:
I’m not looking to bind or restrict anyone, looking for mutual respect, adoration, growth and understanding of others wants, needs and short comings. Ideally something open, fun and light hearted with room to grow. And I date only select very few people even when I’m dating openly.
Doesn’t have to be love or long term relationship, but these are a few things I’d like to have in what I’m looking for. Which take me to the next part
What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone who is open minded, self aware, adventurous, driven and ideally a sub. I’m open to exploring but most comfortable in the top/dom role. Open to a wide age range (don’t judge me for this).
Looks wise, I am lean/in proportion and getting into better shape, ideally looking for someone who cares for themselves and their health, don’t need you to he perfect toned and abs etc. I’m pretty accepting but looking to grow together
Stats/looks:
Looks wise 5’10”, lean/fit , 160 lb and getting in better shape. (Muscles and abs etc)
Been told look decent. Pictures when we match