20 [M4M] - who wanna abuse a chubby hole tn (28+ and kinky only)

Rly kinky sub bottom here
Wld love to submit to someone tn
Ready by 11
If uve texted me before pls do so again might’ve n missed u

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u/Level-Presence838 — 17 hours ago

20 [M4M] #NYC - sub/submissive virgin looking for someone to plunge me head first into submission

Hello!

I’m a college student who’s currently in NYC and will be for another month. I’m an anal virgin, and I was hoping to find an experienced dom who’d maybe be down to be my first…

Me:
First of all, I am kind of chubby in a you can’t really tell in clothes kind of way so if ur not into that pls move on.
In terms of what I’m interested in, there’s a lot that I’ve tried myself and enjoyed, and I would hope to try with someone else as well. A big thing for me is humiliation and degradation, making me feel as if my existence is to serve you or be entertainment for you. Pet play and dehumanization is great too.
I love being gaped and fisted, so I’d love to be a willing vessel for that. I also enjoy chastity and light ball busting/plapping, usually connected to SPH.
Also very interested in power dynamics and corporal punishment, I’m a bit of a painslut.
Lastly I would really love to try piss play, especially being forced to drink from someone.

You:
I don’t really have many preferences for you except that you have some experience with domination and share most of my kinks. The concept of larger than me also really turns me on so if you’re over 5 10 and not skinny that’s like ideal, but not necessary. Other than that, I just ask that you’re patient, communicative, and most importantly, able to host in NYC.

I’m completely clean (like I said, virgin), and I am chubby so please only reach out if that’s alright. I am happy to share pictures. Please reach out if interested I would love to have this experience.

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u/Level-Presence838 — 1 month ago

20 [M4A] #Manhattan - chubby cub kinky near-limitless sub bottom looking for a dom for Thurs and Friday

In the city Thursday and Friday.

I’m a complete sub bottom, very very kinky, a little chubby, and I wanna leave your place regretting making this post.
Will send pictures if wanted. Only hmu if ur srs, can host, and can play as a dom.

I AM NOT A BOT. J dm me I promise you I jsut want your dick and I’m real

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u/Level-Presence838 — 2 months ago

M coming to Manhattan tmw. Near-limitless bottom

Just wanna be used. If you have dark scary fantasies and ur looking for someone to break pls pls pls use me. Will be in Manhattan for most of the day tmw, if ur able to host hmu. Kinda chubby with a big ass j so yk.

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u/Level-Presence838 — 2 months ago

20 [M4A] #Manhattan - coming into the city tmw looking to be used and abused

Complete and total near limitless bottom sub and I’d love to be brutally used as a slave tmw bc I’ve got nothing to do during the day.
I’m a little chubby but I got a big ass and like I said I’m near limitless so whatever fantasy you have I’m yours. I can’t host I live in queens.
Pls only hmu if ur ready to host, have some very dark desires and kinks.

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u/Level-Presence838 — 2 months ago

20 [M4A] #NYC #Queens - looking for both a long-term experienced dom(me) and someone to hang out with this week.

For long term, read the post below this, but I’m also mentioning this. I’m coming by Manhattan this Thursday and will have a lot of free time. If anyone has any extreme kinks or a fantasy of using somebody however they want, pls hit me up, I’d love to be officially broken in like that. Bi and open to anything! I’ve decided that being online doing research and reading is not the same as just immersing myself right in. Dm if interested and pls be able to host.

Hi everyone,

I’m a college student that’s home for the summer. I’d really like to try and connect and meet with a patient or accepting dom(me) who’d be willing to mentor and train me this summer, and is willing to train/introduce someone new to kink, or maybe even prefers someone with very little experience (because yeah I don’t have much). I’m open to anyone who has more experience than myself, would understand that at the end of summer I have to leave nyc again (although I would be more than happy to stay in contact or even in a dynamic online), and is willing to not just train and dominate but teach.

The kinks discussion is difficult for me simply because I’d most accurately say I’m unsure I think. I think there are a lot of things that I find hot or attractive, and definitely want to try. However, I don’t know whether I’d actually enjoy it in real life because as I’ve said I’ve never tried it. Getting caned until I cry because I disobeyed an order seems incredibly hot to me but I’m sure it’s not actually great in reality (or maybe it is I don’t know that’s kind of the problem). Therefore, someone who’s willing to talk through what I am open to trying (and it’s a lot) and is fairly adventurous themselves and would push my boundaries would be awesome.

Lastly, I really do have no preferences about you except that you are open, understanding, and patient. I know I’m young and new to this but that’s why’d I’d really like to find someone who will help me and hopefully get something out of it themselves. I’m yours to mold! Also, I would prefer to just have a normal conversation initially and see if we vibe and our personalities match up and then we can move on to more interesting topics hopefully?

Anyway, please please reach out! Also dm if u want pics of my golden retriever or recordings of me playing piano, bc I’m going to shamelessly use those cards too.

Edit: I forgot I didn’t describe myself so, I’m 5 10, I work out but I also eat a lot AND IM NOT LEAN. I have black hair, darker skin, and dark brown eyes. I have big shoulders and big hands if that helps. I’m open to trading sfw pics if that’s something you want to do initially.

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u/Level-Presence838 — 3 months ago

Any dom guys in NYC wanna meet up? M20

Heading to NYC later this week and wondering where all the really really kinky nasty dom tops are who might wanna make me regret coming to the city. HMU!

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u/Level-Presence838 — 3 months ago

Life advice in general I guess? Fears about age.

Hi everyone. Long-time lurker, first-time poster, 21 M.
I guess to preface I should say I know and have always known that I am a sub and I know what I’m looking for. This isn’t about me being unsure about what I want but rather how my life will shape up around it.

I go to a state school functionally in the middle of nowhere. I will be 23 when I graduate and am able to go back to nyc, either for law school or for work. Either way, I have a few questions because I know for many of you this has been a lifestyle and an experience for a very long time.

  1. How does age play into entering the scene? I feel like being stuck in the middle of nowhere in my early 20s when I grew up in a place like NYC is warping my sense of reality, but I’m afraid that by the time I try to practice actively and socially in that community (around 23-24 probably) the groups that have formed will already be formed. (I guess like transferring to a new college and friend groups are already made?) I know this might sound stupid and you can tell me if it does but I guess I’m just apprehensive about entering new circles.
  2. What kind of discretion can I expect when I enter this social circle if I’m able to do so? Like I said, I plan to go to law school, become a lawyer, etc which is a rather public facing job, and while you and I may not care I think that being outed for certain lifestyle choices would put my dream careers at jeopardy.
  3. Are the flr/kink dating apps worth it? I’d much rather enter the scene and meet new ppl, but right now, as a college student, I’m only in NYC for the summer, many events are ticketed and often out of my price range, and I feel like entering directly in without knowing anybody is tough? Especially in the online fetlife space it seems like many events in nyc are just trying to rip a quick buck off men who are trying to satisfy their fetishes. That’s less what I want and more to meet people and form connections with ppl who have similar interests to me. Idk. Anyway, to that end I’ve been considering downloading smt like chyrpe to try my luck in my own college area and just see who I meet but then again I run into apprehensions about 1, the quality of the people I may or may not meet and 2, discretion. The fetlife in my college area is rather dead.
  4. I have a condition that means my body weight fluctuates rapidly. Sometimes I’m very fit and cut, and just a few weeks later I look pretty overweight, and sometimes very rarely emaciatedly underweight. I feel like the kink community must be one of the more accepting communities, but I feel like many people I’ve met so far are only into one type of body and idk if there’s space for people like me?

Again these are just early questions I had because as a college student sometimes it’s very tough to meet people who are into these things without outing yourself on a somewhat hostile campus (sometimes) or being forced to make conversation with a 50 yr old man who’s trying to cheat on his wife right now.
Also I apologize again if these seem like stupid questions they really are genuine concerns I had please do let me know if they’re stupid so I don’t make the same mistake again😭. Thank you for reading and any help you can give!

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u/Level-Presence838 — 3 months ago