I (29M) love my mother (58F) as my lover and I’m extremely attracted to her sexually and romantically. I’d love to talk about this with someone if you’re interested in hearing about it or want to give advice to help me move it forward with her.
The title isn’t quite the context your thinking. I’m afraid that I (29 M)have developed a significant crush on my mother (57F) and it’s simply not going away. Ever since I was young I had feeling towards my mother, she divorced my father when I was young and since then has been in and out of relationships with only 1 ever being serious.
I’ve found myself and have always found myself wanting to take care of her in every possible way. Take her on dates, give her flowers, shower her in affection, and fuck her like the cute innocent woman she is. I don’t know how to bring this up to her or even get close to this topic with her. We live a few hours apart and when we are together doing things the energy feels very couple coded (to the point where a waitress thought we were actually dating).
I’ve tried talking to my therapist about this and of course they said not to pursue it but I can’t help but want to. I feel like my feelings are different than just wanting to have sex with her and I feel like she deserves someone who will give her that. My therapist and I have also agreed that based on what I told them it’s very possible that she feels the same way towards me but repressed her feeling due to religious beliefs (she’s very religious), fear I don’t feel the same, and doesn’t want to ruin our relationship. I just want a real loving relationship with her you know.
The title isn’t quite the context your thinking. I’m afraid that I (29 M)have developed a significant crush on my mother (57F) and it’s simply not going away. Ever since I was young I had feeling towards my mother, she divorced my father when I was young and since then has been in and out of relationships with only 1 ever being serious.
I’ve found myself and have always found myself wanting to take care of her in every possible way. Take her on dates, give her flowers, shower her in affection, and fuck her like the cute innocent woman she is. I don’t know how to bring this up to her or even get close to this topic with her. We live a few hours apart and when we are together doing things the energy feels very couple coded (to the point where a waitress thought we were actually dating).
I’ve tried talking to my therapist about this and of course they said not to pursue it but I can’t help but want to. I feel like my feelings are different than just wanting to have sex with her and I feel like she deserves someone who will give her that. My therapist and I have also agreed that based on what I told them it’s very possible that she feels the same way towards me but repressed her feeling due to religious beliefs (she’s very religious), fear I don’t feel the same, and doesn’t want to ruin our relationship. I’m just not sure what to do…
A few years back my brother (21M) and I (19M) use to have sex with each other when are parents weren’t home. We would suck each other off, make out, sixty nine, and we would even put it inside each other. One day we did this for the last time and then we never fucked or talked about it ever again. We both act like this never happened but sometimes I wish we would do it one more time. I don’t know how to tell him I want it again…
Looking to share my story and experiences of having a sexual relationship with my brother and the things we use to do together. Also seeking advice on how to start it up with him again…
A few years back my brother (21M) and I (19M) use to have sex with each other when are parents weren’t home. We would suck each other off, make out, sixty nine, and we would even put it inside each other. One day we did this for the last time and then we never fucked or talked about it ever again. We both act like this never happened but sometimes I wish we would do it one more time. I don’t know how to tell him I want it again…
A few years back my brother (21M) and I (19M) use to have sex with each other when are parents weren’t home. We would suck each other off, make out, sixty nine, and we would even put it inside each other. One day we did this for the last time and then we never fucked or talked about it ever again. We both act like this never happened but sometimes I wish we would do it one more time.
I’ve made a post here before about how I (m29) was attracted to my mom (f57) sexually and romantically and that I want led to pursue this. As more time goes I find myself growing more of an attraction to her, she’s just so perfect in every way. I feel like she may have the same feelings towards me that I have towards her but I’m also afraid it could all be in my head. People tell me I should talk to her about it but I don’t want to ruin our perfectly good relationship we have now out when this is all something I could’ve made in my head. I’m not sure what to do, if anyone has any advice I’m always open to hearing what you have to say!
I’ve made posts about how I have romantic and sexual feelings towards my mother but it feels like as if recently these feelings keep growing and growing. I don’t know how to approach her about it because I don’t know if she feels the same way. I feel like she does, but I also feel like it could all be in my head and I don’t want to jeopardize the relationship between us…
I’m (29 M) extremely into my mother (56F), I have been for years. I’ve wanted her romantically, sexually, and emotionally for the longest time. As I’ve gotten older I feel like I’m starting to pick up signs that maybe she feels the same way about me as well. The way she acts, comments she says, and the settings she tries to get us in feel very “couple oriented” and less “mother and son” to say the least. I figured this sub would be a good place to get this out and to see if anyone else has found themselves in a similar situation…
I’ve been going to a therapist over the past 6 months due to some things going on in life. I shared with the therapist that I have had a “crush” on my mother now for years but also told them that I think she feels the same. I explained the situation and years of build up to them and they agreed but said that it would not be a good move to pursue it (societal norms). I really want to pursue this and try to see where I can take it. My mother however is super religious. That’s the “curve ball” during this. I’m not sure what to do or how to approach it. It seems like the first response is always “just let her catch you jerking off” or “let her see you getting out of the shower”. I need actual answers on how to handle this and move it forward. My therapist said that the best way to describe it is that both people have mutual feelings but are scared to do anything because of how the other one will react (especially her due to religious complications). Also, when I say I have an interest in my mother, I’m not talking just sex with her. I want to romantically and sexually fill all the wants she has, a full relationship. Any advice is welcome.
I’ve been going to a therapist over the past 6 months due to some things going on in life. I shared with the therapist that I have had a “crush” on my mother now for years but also told them that I think she feels the same. I explained the situation and years of build up to them and they agreed but said that it would not be a good move to pursue it (societal norms). I really want to pursue this and try to see where I can take it. My mother however is super religious. That’s the “curve ball” during this. I’m not sure what to do or how to approach it. It seems like the first response is always “just let her catch you jerking off” or “let her see you getting out of the shower”. I need actual answers on how to handle this and move it forward. My therapist said that the best way to describe it is that both people have mutual feelings but are scared to do anything because of how the other one will react (especially her due to religious complications). Also, when I say I have an interest in my mother, I’m not talking just sex with her. I want to romantically and sexually fill all the wants she has, a full relationship. Any advice is welcome.
I’ve been going to a therapist over the past 6 months due to some things going on in life. I shared with the therapist that I have had a “crush” on my mother now for years but also told them that I think she feels the same. I explained the situation and years of build up to them and they agreed but said that it would not be a good move to pursue it (societal norms). I really want to pursue this and try to see where I can take it. My mother however is super religious. That’s the “curve ball” during this. I’m not sure what to do or how to approach it. It seems like the first response is always “just let her catch you jerking off” or “let her see you getting out of the shower”. I need actual answers on how to handle this and move it forward. My therapist said that the best way to describe it is that both people have mutual feelings but are scared to do anything because of how the other one will react (especially her due to religious complications). Also, when I say I have an interest in my mother, I’m not talking just sex with her. I want to romantically and sexually fill all the wants she has, a full relationship. Any advice is welcome.