Our bulls opinion on diapers and chastity

So I wear both diapers and chastity both because we love it but also it is a lifestyle choice for me which me and my wife have made years ago. Weeks ago I remember me and my wife’s bull were taking together and he was telling me that he thinks being in diapers and in chastity together is probably the most emasculating combination ever which is why he loves it so much for me. He said how generally men are big/ strong but since I’m in this combination he genuinely views me the exact same as a toddler. He said he knows I can’t and won’t ever do anything and he just does not view me as a threat as he would other men. He loves tucking me into my bed as he takes mommy to their room and even taking to me in a baby tone.

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Been using a Amazon Fire Kids tablet

Hii, so something that me and my wife have been doing especially when I am at home is she has bought me a Amazon fire kids tablet which is essentially a tablet that connects to her Amazon parent account and she can set the the age of what I am allowed to consume, approve games/ movies and the entire tablet is just locked out by parental controls. She does hand it to me a lot when I am at home and takes away my phone, she says it’s a lot safer for me to use my tablet where she has restricted everything down to age 2-3 rating and does not have free web browsing either it’s all censored. It does make me feel very little but we both love it, there has been massive periods of time where that was basically the only device I was using and my phone was with her.

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Messed my diaper in the mall

Me and my wife have been into diapers and age play for at least six years and she loves the power trip as well as the emotional connection she gets out of me being in diapers. Something which she has done recently which was so embarrassing but also nice was she gave me laxatives before a shopping trip to a mall 45 minutes away from us. By the time I was in the mall I have messed my diaper and I had to follow her around as she was shopping and raking at least 30 minutes in each store. It was humiliating having a full diaper and I was so cautious walking around like that in public even though I was wearing shorts but it also was super nice.

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 3 days ago
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Trained to be submissive to all Women

I was with my wife for over seven years and I have never had a dom side to me as I was mainly a sub while she has always been a lot more of a dom, however she has noticed years ago that while I was submissive to her I was not submissive to women in general which we have spoken about and I agreed I would also like to change it to both make me a more respectful sub but also to make other women more happy in having me being more respectful towards them. For years she has punished me if I have spoken wrongly to any woman, even if her friends are at home with us if I don’t offer to get them some snacks and drinks she would address that immediately. She has even punished me before for not saying thank you to the waitress taking our order. Over years I have noticed a mental shift where it’s second nature now to just address them as Miss or M’am, try to be as accommodating as possible if they are guests with us, always smile at them and be as nice as possible to them always. Her friends did notice it a long time ago and said they really loved just how accommodating I really was to them and how I would immediately jump up to help them which she loved.

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 3 days ago

Really love this community

I wanted to make a appreciation post for this community to just say just how nice everyone here actually is. It is so reassuring to know that there is an entire community of thousands of people willing to help, support and give advice about anything chastity related. And what I find crazy is that there was no other time in history where this was possible until now, I really was born during the perfect time period. I think all of you should be so proud of yourselves for being so accommodating and accepting to new people and willing to help them out if needed this really is how chastity brings people together.

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 3 days ago
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Getting changed while sleeping

Heyy, me and my wife have been together for 7+ years and I have always really worn diapers especially since I do tend to have accidents both during the day and also at night. We are heavily into age play and having me as a little so to us this is perfect. She does change me and shower me during the day and especially take my cage for a good cleaning too during the day but at night one thing we both have noticed is that I can wet my diaper a lot due to accidents so I consented to her that if I do need to be changed at night then just do it. Something I was so surprised to see is me waking up in a fresh diaper which isn’t soaked how it used to be before which really catches me off guard. Have you guys ever been changed in your sleep?

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 6 days ago

Greeting her bull with a filled diaper

My wife and I have been married for over a year but been together ever since 2019 when we were just in a relationship. We have always had a less traditional relationship and it was a female led one since pretty much the beginning since she has a big dominant personality to her and I’m the opposite being mainly a sub. We therefore clicked very quickly because of it and something we have tried out early into our relationship was chastity which has led to me now being locked 24/7 in it for the past two years. A kink I have had and introduced to her was ABDL/ age play/ diapers relatively early and she has been very open minded and we found it paired amazingly with chastity. For the past three and a half years she has had another man who would come over to our house to give her adult pleasure and something which she had me do with is so embarrassing is she would want me to mess my diaper before he comes over so I can go and greet him with a filled diaper. Often I would wear two diapers and a booster so he would see me waddle to the front door to greet him and they both find it so funny and he even said it’s so cute actually and he can’t ever take me seriously.

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 6 days ago
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Wife had me reading feminism/ FLR books

Hello, my wife and I have been married for a bit of time now and even before we met i would always say I have been a feminist however back then I would just call myself a feminist without knowing the real struggles that women face, their expected stereotypical duties at home, pressure and mental health. It was always kind of an invisible thing to me and when I met my wife who is much more of a dom while I am a lot more of a sub. We played around with chastity until two years ago and since I have been 24/7 in chastity. Something she has had me do which I also held an interest in was actually educating myself better on women so she bought be feminism/ FLR books like: “the will to change”, “feminism is for everybody” and “invisible women” + more titles out there which I have been reading and I would say it has helped and shaped my view on feminism and FLR a lot. To me the relationship is not just about love I also feel the need to support her in every way possible by doing the chores around the house, always acting in the most gentlemen way to her, ensuring that some products are always stocked up at home like her period products and I do a lot more because of this insight which I have been given into feminism/ FLR.

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 6 days ago
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Financial Control In Our FLR

My Wife and I have been married for one year but been together for over seven years now since we were 19/20 years old. Since the beginning she was more interested in being a dom while I always had more submissive traits so we have clicked straight away during our early 20’s we have discovered and played around with chastity until two years ago which was when we have started locking me up 24/7. Something which we have started doing more recently which was in January is she and I agreed it would be hot but also very financially responsible if she could manage all the finances in our marriage. So what we have done since was I have had all my pay checks be paid directly into her account and she has opened up a joint account which is where she puts in my allowance if I do need some money and this gives her the benefit of being able to see my financial activity since she also has access to it, something else which she has paired to this to make the experience more authentic was she installed a parental controls app which basically just allows her to see my online activity and to be able to block websites, apps and anything she likes which does benefit us a lot.

This entire dynamic has been really great for us since I was a big impulse spender while she was more of a conservative person with money and she did show me that she has managed to save a good amount of money using this financial control which we adopted.

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 8 days ago

Got my best friend into chastity

My best friend of 15 years who I have known since we were in school together was always very close to me and we always shared everything with each other. When I started chastity I did share this secret with him because I me and him never judge eachother no matter what and he was very cool with knowing this secret about me. After some years and when I got married, I have also been permanently locked for about two years, my best friend has one day brought up the topic of me being locked up and outright admitted to me that for the past few months he’s been really turned on by it and wanted to try it with his wife. I have suggested him a good starter Amazon cage which is similar to the kink3d cobra designs and since his wife agreed it’s so fun to now have an actual locked real life friend. It was so fun going fishing with him last week knowing we were both locked up and it’s something which was so surreal to me especially knowing he’s also locked too. If you also have any questions feel free to ask!

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u/Majestic_Ticket_8772 — 9 days ago